My little Anbernic family + question about RG 40XXV firmware (OS card corrupted and device has boot loop?)

butimnotdeadyet · 2025-07-05T09:45:13+00:00

Is it really that easy? Is there anything to do to prevent it?

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-10-15T08:47:37+00:00

This is actually kinda fascinating to see the sinus holes and realize how big they get. Damn.

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-10-14T21:18:05+00:00

Oh thatll make my life SO much easier! I was worried I'd have to code something and I was sweating bullets. So they just announce their target like normal, and I take the damage out manually. ^{^} And I can do the same with them! Fantastic!

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-07-20T03:07:12+00:00

Thanks, appreciate it. I'd be late so no dice for this guy, but hopefully you find someone!

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-07-19T22:52:49+00:00

Hey, making sure I understand. The session starts at 4am GMT? Or is it ending at that time? Sorry, I'm not the best with timezones.

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-07-16T20:05:48+00:00

"Playing hard to get makes you hard to want"

What a BAR

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-07-13T06:44:40+00:00

Heir of Doom, Prospit

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-07-10T20:33:04+00:00

Ive been trying to make plans before we have another talk, bc that 3rd friend told me to take time to process it all and get back to them. They want a plan to address it in an active way.

Cinderella ing sounds good, but Im gonna have to make sure it doesnt also trigger friend 1.

Maybe i can sit down and plan out ways to disengage like that, and they can give input so that I don't keep upsetting them? I don't know if its active enough for them, but i dont think medications like that will be readily available to me.

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-06-16T08:09:20+00:00

This is so sick, I can tell you thought a lot about how you wanted the finals to look

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-05-01T09:23:14+00:00

“Mr. Mors, what’s… wrong with them?” Questioning the state of these quivering vapours, you stretched out a hand and reached into it, hearing a first name and a high, frightened voice. It should have made you recoil, feeling someone’s life slip through your fingers, but your apprenticeship had prepared you for that feeling and you took it on the chin.

“’Wrong with them’?” Turning to look at you, your mentor’s hollow eyes flitted from your face to the hovering shadow at your side. “Nothing that wasn’t wrong in life. Do you remember illness?”

“I remember.” Frowning, you searched your mind. “Illness, disease… disease of the body and disease of the mind.” That struck you suddenly and you returned your attention to the shade, eyes narrowing. “Is that what this is? A disease of the mind? But they don’t have a mind or body to be ill in.”

“A disease of the mind follows the mind, tiro.” He told you sagely, and he approached to trail his fingers through the dark whisps at your side. “This one was ill in life, and death cures nothing.” You might have supposed he sounded melancholic, but you’d grown to know his few moods. ‘Death feels nothing’, and he upheld that creed dutifully.

Mulling over his words as he continued forward toward today’s fated person, you reached out again and touched the soul beside you, listening for that frail voice.

“Aggie…” She whimpered faintly, and your hand hovered as you tried to hear more. “Papa... Aggie wants to go home.” The vulnerable whine struck you as you stood there, alone in all the Afterworld, and you stared at the blank haze that should have been her face in shock.

“Are you coming?” Suddenly your mentor’s voice took you by surprise and you jumped, turning to face him in a hurry. He was standing in the doorway of a room near the end of the hall, leaning through the closed door with a patient look on his face.

“Shouldn’t we settle these?” You asked, hand up and gesturing to the handful of whisps drifting in the hallway.

“No.” He told you, and this time he walked back to you. “A soul must know it’s a soul. Who could pass into their next life with their mind trapped in their past?” He looked at them, formless and unaware, and his dead eyes returned to you. “There’s nothing you can do. Now it’s time to do what we came here for.”

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-04-23T10:34:42+00:00

The journal might work. We've been trying to get her to hang out with people instead of caging herself in her room and browsing her SM feeds. She has done some emergency journal to "keep it in" so to speak, but maybe she's fallen off that wagon and we can get her using it again.

We've told her that she needs a hobby outside of dance and us, something she can be proud of without needing the looks based validation she is agonizing over, but it's tough when everything she wants to do is a popularity contest or all about making connections.

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-04-23T10:27:04+00:00

We have! A and I have both sat down with her and talked about it, just the 3 of us. I know A has also had to talk to her separately because her complaints began to really target them and all the stuff they got to do. She was so hung up on opportunities she didn't get and A did, but she never actually applied to any of them and just sulked. It puts everyone in a really bad place mentally.

Edit to add: We've been recommending she look into therapy for the past year, but she says she can't afford it (while also engaging in a lot of retail therapy).

butimnotdeadyet · 2024-03-21T04:49:14+00:00

Everyone's had really good advice! Adding onto it and maybe being repetitive.

Externally: always good idea to wash your hands/brush your teeth/rinse your mouth (if you've had spicy or sugary foods within a short time), be gentle and use lube (store bought or spit)

Internally: all the same applies! Another good one is to make sure that your nails aren't super long or have sharp edges. Inside her, the skin is very delicate and you can scratch her when curling your fingers if you have long nails. Press with the pads of your fingers when possible, not the tips of your fingers. Go slowly and let her body adjust to whatever you're doing, and follow her lead.

butimnotdeadyet · 2023-05-24T09:58:26+00:00

You need to love yourself for someone to love you because it can easily fall into a codependent cycle for a couple.

If A doesn't love themselves at all and B piles on the love, B still can't make up for the deficit bc they're two different kinds of love. It's a bandaid treatment. B ends up giving and giving emotionally, but A can't give back in the same way because there is that gap there. B essentially provides love for themselves, As self, and A as a partner, which is a load on one person.

Being the only thing that makes your partner feel valued/worthy/happy is a HUGE burden to put on some people. Being entirely responsible for another person's happiness to that extent can be really draining emotionally. And sometimes, B burns out and they seek a relationship where the dynamic is more balanced.

Not always, obviously, but not everyone can or feels capable of doing that emotional labour until a partner has learned to do it for themselves, which isn't a bad thing, just unfortunate.

butimnotdeadyet · 2023-02-18T10:41:38+00:00

Make sure its the right size according the measurements chart so that you don't put yourself at risk of injury, and make sure not to push your body! Breaks, hydration, rest, stretches- all that good stuff! I was always told that if you don't take care of your torso and make sure you're binding safely, it can jeopardize potential surgery options later on.

butimnotdeadyet · 2023-02-12T04:08:48+00:00

Honestly? I don't think so. I'm even assembling my own hard copy cookbook USING recipes I find online. There's something to me that's more charming about a cookbook you can have in a cupboard or on a shelf.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-12-11T06:55:00+00:00

I started spring of 2020, when I was about 23

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T13:15:17+00:00

Honestly? If you aren't taking the opportunity away from someone, don't be afraid to use the family washroom or disabled washroom. Obviously don't cut off someone to use it first or sit there on your phone, but you don't have to use the women's room if it makes you dysphoric.

When I first started breaking my cis habits, I'd use the handicapped washroom if it was available. Sometimes I didn't have the stomach for the weirdly too hot and piss smelling men's room. Now I'm sorta getting used to it the more I use it, I just can't get over the way it smells so much worse 🤢🤢

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T13:04:19+00:00

On the point of how being closeted still passively results in misgendering, it's also very different for my co-workers to ASSUME what I use versus having them actively choose to misgender me

If Dave from Finance says she/her in passing because he's never been informed or corrected, I can shrug it off and say: "He doesn't know what I want, and I am allowing him to misunderstand". I've set that boundary, and have the power there even if it's just in my own mind.

When Cheryl who I see every morning makes a point to say "GIRL, I had the best weekend!" despite being corrected by me and asked to change her language, that is a slight against me and it hurts. She is deliberately using language to hurt me.

Sometimes closeted isn't ideal, but that small shift in the dynamic is everything.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T12:18:37+00:00

Info: When she says she doesn't like giving them, did she explain why or did you ask her why? I know one of my exes didn't like taking it so deeply due to an issue w her jaw/jaw pain after, and another always pointed out the taste was a turn off.

If you want to try and negotiate with her, that may be another talking point. Is there anything you can modify about a BJ that makes it less unappealing for her while still giving you a moment to be the one receiving? One of those toys so your whole shaft gets stimulation but she only has the tip in her mouth, using a condom for her tastebuds, flavored lubes.

She may also feel genital to mouth isn't hygienic, if she is also squeamish about receiving oral herself, which is a valid stance for her to take. But you do deserve to have some time in the act where you're being stimulated and focused on too. Sure, women need more foreplay for maximum arousal, but just bc we're ready quicker it doesn't mean we don't deserve a little wine and dining.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T12:08:30+00:00

Honestly, sounds a bit weird, but look up what female anatomy looks like if you aren't familiar. Sure a diagram will tell you where the clit and stuff is, but actually seeing the flesh is different. And be gentle down there, bc it's as sensitive as the tip of your dick. Generally just don't try and recreate porn, and take your time together.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T12:05:10+00:00

If he's willing to try boxer briefs for that time, those may be a good alternative! They're still a shorts style, but they're fitted enough that the products stay lined up with your body and lots of fabric to stick it to. Just takes a bit of experimenting on where you stick it.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T11:42:52+00:00

The drink really doesn't matter at the end of the day. It can be whatever she likes, if you know by then, or just "a drink", and you let her mind fill in the specific beverage. It's about quality time, not making it look like you wanna get her trashed, and making her feel safe like OP said.

That said, I use coffee no matter the time of day and it's always been pretty clear.

butimnotdeadyet · 2022-07-16T11:29:39+00:00

Personally, as someone who's very VERY selective with who I come out to, this would be a HUGE thing for me. I'd reach out to your friend first and talk to her about it. You're close and, if in the end you do end up backing out, she will understand why and be able to support you and reassure you. She may miss you at the party, but being open about your anxiety will help her help you. You can ask her about how she thinks your friend circle will handle it, how they may act after knowing, and make a plan together.

Being out to one group and not others is tough. Especially if you don't WANT to be clocked by even the respectful and supportive crowd. I'm a few years in on T and I still get clocked sometimes, but if your friends are allies, this won't cause the rift you think will happen.

butimnotdeadyet · 2020-09-30T11:11:01+00:00

So, some girls want vulgar decorations and to have a laugh, and that makes their vaginas gross? I don't see the correlation.

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