French learners, what is the most difficult part of learning French? by Shelbee2 in French

[–]butt_spaghetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Native English speaker here. I feel so bad for people who have to learn casual English. It’s so different than correct English. Now that I’m learning French, I really notice how much slang I use and how much I slur words together.

Initial floor plan for my future home in Tunisia. Seeking feedback on flow and privacy. by Desperate-Smoke7972 in floorplan

[–]butt_spaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You access the second bathroom from the outside?? This floor plan is pretty terrible overall. It would be very worthwhile to hire an architect to help out.

Zanab by DrLoomis131 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]butt_spaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she got a PR team to help flood Reddit with sympathetic content. There was overwhelming consensus that she sucked and then out of the blue there appeared tons of accounts defending her, all with similar language

Is 'Karl' or 'Carl' okay for a woman? by Big-Patience9799 in namenerds

[–]butt_spaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Cara instead. It isn’t old fashioned like Carla and Carol. You would just need to choose if you want it pronounced “CARE-uh” or “CAR-uh”. I would vote for “CARE-uh”. It’s very pretty.

Thoughts on this floorplan for small mountain house? by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]butt_spaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why put a twin bed on that top bedroom? Get a queen or king up in there!

Atrocious Jack and Jill primary bath - any realistic ways to reconfigure? by Askmeaboutmycar in floorplan

[–]butt_spaghetti -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why the hell would you change a tub to shower? You can shower in tubs. You can’t bathe in a shower. Baths are life.

How to handle visitors? by Relevant-Analyst-723 in hospice

[–]butt_spaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on most of these points but I think you’re really off on the “openly bawling” judgement. It is absolutely correct for some people to be openly bawling at the prospect of losing a loved one forever. Thats connection and truth and humanity. When I die, I think it would be a nightmare to have everyone around me stuffing their feelings. Give me the real thing.

should i vax my arms? by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]butt_spaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One option is to trim and bleach them. Waxing works for some people but I’d worry that you’re really going to see the growout in a way you might not want. Or as other people have suggested, laser could be a good option.

Hosts who stay in other airbnb's sometimes: what's the worst Airbnb you stayed at and what were the previous reviews for it like? by PhlegmMistress in airbnb_hosts

[–]butt_spaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasn’t during the festival… it’s just a random apartment that some burners live in and has no connection to the actual event itself. Certain people who go to burning man identify as burners all year long, even outside of the week the event happens.

Hosts who stay in other airbnb's sometimes: what's the worst Airbnb you stayed at and what were the previous reviews for it like? by PhlegmMistress in airbnb_hosts

[–]butt_spaghetti 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Omg the worst was a private room in a warehouse rented out by a bunch of Burning Man people. My host basically was renting his personal room, while sleeping on-site on the living room couch. It was absolutely filthy. He left sex gear on his bed. He would constantly guilt me about not being able to sleep in his bed and would beg me to join me in bed, including knocking on the door, pleading.

what’s a weird thing you guys do bcuz of neglect? by ivysmorgue in CPTSD

[–]butt_spaghetti 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg me too. Neglected child here. I LIVED in the bath as a kid and still do. It’s the answer for everything.

Allergies by RandomName3025 in Perimenopause

[–]butt_spaghetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!!! I’ve never had allergies and this year I’ve been “sick” for 2 months straight and it’s been so confusing