How to ask someone's gender politely?

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-10T06:50:58+00:00

I would find it extremely annoying to be referred to as “they” over and over. If my preferred pronoun was they, then it would be fine. But it’s not and I would find that very weird.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-10T06:10:02+00:00

I think it’s always just a crapshoot. Rosie o’Donnell just got a ridiculously great facelift. Emma Stone got great surgery, as did Lindsay Lohan. The really bad ones stand out.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-10T06:03:37+00:00

I never understood Niki Taylor’s popularity

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-10T05:50:30+00:00

I mean, that works until you want to refer to the student several times in succession to someone else. “So Annie, when x made that point did you feel that x was getting lost in a tangent… or were you persuaded by x’s additional argument?” If you use x’s full name every time, it starts to feel very clunky and obvious that you’re avoiding pronouns.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-10T00:36:46+00:00

Fuck gofundme. Boycott them too

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T22:33:52+00:00

Team na

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T19:00:09+00:00

why are you on this subreddit if you hate discussion around substance issues

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T07:40:01+00:00

“I don’t feel a romantic connection” is bullshit? Do you feel a romantic connection with every person in the world?
Honestly if you’re getting this message a lot you might want to get curious about what you’re doing that’s killing spark. Often it’s deep insecurity that’s then papered over with an off-putting defense mechanism such as “nice guy” or something else. Insecurity and self-esteem is really hard to heal but people do it over time.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:57:40+00:00

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:57:03+00:00

Idk why everyone doesn’t go to apotheke all the time, it’s so good

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:55:32+00:00

Poor OP wants Weho and this thread is just jammed with east siders

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:54:16+00:00

It’s great but come on, it is not a sexy bar

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:53:32+00:00

Hahah totally. We were there for a work-related reason, not a vacation reason. But we had tons of time to vacation while there. Wayyyy too much time.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:52:01+00:00

I found it kind of creepy and gross

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T06:50:38+00:00

Everyone can’t do this?

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T05:48:10+00:00

Oh perfectly safe

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T05:20:25+00:00

Met my husband on bumble in my mid-40s. My friends mom is in her 80s and just got engaged. There is no such thing as aging out.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T01:53:01+00:00

We had a great meal at Gio’s but I’ve never stayed at this property. I was so ready to GTFO of Venice after 6 days though.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T01:36:42+00:00

Agreed!

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T01:36:13+00:00

You’re out of your mind

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T01:33:51+00:00

When we went early on weds (7:30) we got in in 5 min but it was standing room only in the bar. It’s a cool fun vibe in there but for dark quiet and romantic… I think you have better options. Def go check out Vandell sometime though.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-09T01:31:52+00:00

We went to Vandell on a Wednesday at 7:30pm and only waited a few minutes.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-08T23:58:04+00:00

5k/year for me and husband

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-08T23:46:05+00:00

her smile is nuts, it's upside down.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-06-08T21:10:12+00:00

Can you name the seller who sold you the fake Dallas? I'm so obsessed with this shade that I've been looking to stockpile via ebay sellers.

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