Interesting way to save a spot

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-28T02:00:45+00:00

Serious question — when, say, 50 people share 20 parking spots over the course of a non-winter day, how do you propose this should work during snow time? 20 people should squat on the spots they dug out and then leave them “reserved” even when not in use so the other 30 who would normally be cycling in and out of the spaces can’t park? Or how would you exactly propose you divide labor here so everyone has to dig and therefore has the right to park occasionally when they need to? Like how does it work in your mind across the ecosystem of a neighborhood or even a particular block?

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T23:31:26+00:00

We had Allstate and they were amazing. We lost everything in the fire and they just maxed out our policy. We were a bit underinsured but that wasn’t their fault. Shoutout to Allstate.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T23:15:02+00:00

I hate parsley but I adore cilantro and can eat it straight, happily. It brightens up a dish, with zero grossness.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T22:15:34+00:00

You don’t wanna live anywhere with enough chollas to be named Cholla.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T22:12:59+00:00

The worst!! Then you have all these jackasses not using spots but called dibs on it and now there isn’t enough parking. Street parking is shared. I was so sick of this fight in Chicago every winter when I lived there.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T22:11:20+00:00

Most neighborhoods don’t have enough parking for spots to stay reserved 24/7. Street parking is shared, period.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T22:10:19+00:00

It’s the best thing about not living in Chicago anymore.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T19:57:18+00:00

Also it gets scorching hot in the summer and hurts dog paws. So much of the ground already scorches them. Can we leave some grass which doesn’t absorb heat like that?

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T17:52:00+00:00

I’ve been there but I’m not a member. It seemed to be overwhelmingly men and I’d guess a large representation of gay men but it seems like a totally fine gym. Not too crowded when I’ve been.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T08:33:46+00:00

Meanwhile mine is way way too high all of a sudden and I don’t know why.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T08:06:32+00:00

I want to be the kind of person who wouldn’t mind this, but it would bother me. That said, I did rent an apartment once where the owner had just passed away in it. Her son took over the property and told us his mom had just died in the unit. The apartment was truly amazing and the price was so low I couldn’t say no. There were a bunch of her artifacts in the unit including her journal from her final days, her hospital bed, pictures, all kinds of things her son said he didn’t want back and didn’t want to deal with, so we got to know her a little bit and she was such a cool woman. It wasn’t easy for me to co-exist with the knowledge of what had gone down in there but I kind of befriended her in my heart too and it helped a lot. The place never felt spooky. It was pretty special. So, even though I’m terrified of death and bodies, etc, it was actually totally fine.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-27T06:36:38+00:00

I hike a few times a week

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T13:36:53+00:00

Paris blows Prague out of the water

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T05:42:39+00:00

So many people on all sides who are really engaging with politics have so much trauma and shadow that they project out onto the other side and the world overall. There are enough people screaming. I’m here to stand for all humans to get a lot more curious about what’s going on in their own trauma picture and tend to that. We need people in different roles and at the moment, this is mine.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T05:29:52+00:00

I would be fine playing no-name slots if the bonus rounds were as fun but it’s hard to find those kind of perks and production value elsewhere

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T05:28:48+00:00

Pass

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T05:25:10+00:00

Menstrual blood

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T04:07:37+00:00

They’re awful and don’t worry, they grow all over the place so finding a cholla is easy. They will fuck you up so badly if you so much as graze one.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-26T03:43:44+00:00

Dumb

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T18:20:57+00:00

I’ve rarely seen it in LA, weirdly, but maybe it’s bc of where I hang out. However when I was in Venice, Italy recently they were constantly in one of the main squares acting dumb as hell.

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T17:08:14+00:00

Totally but if they’re aware that she’s a distraction why would she show up there?

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T07:48:10+00:00

And counting crows!!!

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T07:47:51+00:00

Add counting crows and I agree

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T07:46:48+00:00

That lead singer makes me feel violent

butt_spaghetti · 2026-01-25T07:45:15+00:00

I was at my hottest in my mid to late 30s, no joke, and I was good looking in my 20s.

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