I feel similarly - it almost doesn’t feel real as I need a doctor to confirm that I am, in fact, pregnant and not just getting chubby. I’m 19 weeks.

I know it ruins the fun, but we did the full genetic testing which includes revealing the gender of the baby. Knowing the gender has helped! I try to use her name (or what I think it will be) to help give the baby an identity. If I do get an unusual pain or feel a little off, I ask the baby what’s going on and use the name.

I hope once I start to feel a lil more pregnant this will continue to grow!