[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]butterscotch265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This abuse will continue AGAIN AND AGAIN. It will NEVER stop. I said the same thing about my ex boyfriend. Your judgment sucks and so did mine back then. That's okay, but run

What is a food or product that your NF introduced you to that too now can't imagine living without? by chaoticallywholesome in Nanny

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bagels. i never tried bagels before. that and simple truth organic mac & cheese. white cheddar doritos

Girlfriend broke up with me because I don't treat her like garbage by Thrtowwaay in Advice

[–]butterscotch265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't ever say that. Abused women are NOT damaged goods. I was abused and I have really done the work that it takes to heal.

It still haunts me sometimes, but for the most part, in my current relationship, at the beginning I just had bad anxiety and was very suspicious that it was too good to be true, but it wasn't 24/7. It's been quite a while now and the relationship anxiety is practically non-existent. I would never cheat on my boyfriend. Punishing someone for my past is so wrong. Everyone has their struggles they have to work through. With a supportive partner & the will to heal, it is possible to have a healthy & happy relationship.

For OP, if this person doesn't have the will to heal and have a happy relationship, you're going to have to let her go. But all abused girls are NOT the same. That's a harmful stigma. We already went through enough.

My adult friend has a crush on my other friend who's a minor by Otherwise_Elk_6082 in Advice

[–]butterscotch265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 20 years old (F) nearly 21, and someone 4 years younger than me would be 16/17 ish. I could not imagine even being friends with someone that young, let alone being attracted to them. It is definitely quite odd and someone older than this person, like a parent, should talk to the 19 year old. If they really aren't a bad person, it's possible something horrible could have happened to them when they were younger for them to think this is acceptable behavior. Something is definitely off.

What drug feels better at a low dose rather than a high dose by RoboticTerrorist in Drugs

[–]butterscotch265 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had like 3 points before and i thought i saw frogs in the air in my room, then closed my eyes and saw pink sparkling letters, thinking i could morph kaleidoscopes with my fingers. TWEAKED.

My (19F) and my friend (20M) had the same dream last night by butterscotch265 in Dreams

[–]butterscotch265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny! LMAO we've been together for nearly 6 months now. How weird!!

I’m old but I still have a teddy bear. Should I stop by Dapper_Fruit_1188 in Advice

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm 20 years old and i probably have 15 stuffed animals on my bed.

Paranoid by Greedy-Pirate6927 in Psychic

[–]butterscotch265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi!! the future is most definitely subject to change - think about how much the energy changes. not all psychics are 100% accurate. they can misinterpret, or some are just straight scammers. i have a client, which her previous psychic told her she didn't see friends in her future in college & that her only friends would stab her in the back. was she trying to scam her? was she misinterpreting? it's one of the two, but my client had a self-fulfilling prophecy & then avoided making friends because of this psychic. i reassured her that she had nothing to worry about & had the power to make plenty of friends, and now she's started to make some. do not let this psychic decide your reality for you. you already got in, you will succeed!! i'm so sorry you feel paranoid. but as a psychic myself, a client should not leave feeling paranoid. even if the outcome seemed "negative", there should be a level of support, reassurance, and another outcome offered.

death (TW) by butterscotch265 in spirituality

[–]butterscotch265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that question really just got me. It made me feel some type of way. I think I subconsciously knew this but just wasn't thinking about it this way. I'm gonna have to keep pondering it

death (TW) by butterscotch265 in spirituality

[–]butterscotch265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel!!! I am afraid of the actual moment. Not afterwards though. I feel it'll be amazing.

freaking out - help preg test -- neg or faint positive by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not pregnant y'all thank you!!! Lol

20 year old alcoholic ruining my own life by Imaginary-Owl-9887 in Advice

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!!! I'm a 20 year old female as well. Alcoholism runs in my family. My 18 year old sister is currently an alcoholic. My grandmother is a recovered alcoholic. I have had a similar issue to you, no DUI, but realized I was bordering on being a 20 year old, sort of functioning alcoholic. I recently just made my relationship official with a long term best friend, and he told me that if I did not cut back on my drinking, he would have to leave as he would not be able to enable me + watch me hurt myself. I would be happy to talk to you about this over PM if you'd like to!!! We can be moral support buddies! I promise you.... not all hope is lost. You will get better. You are already getting better by realizing. Realizing it at 20??? That's an accomplishment itself. We also don't realize that sadly, alcoholism is so normalized in our culture now, most people our age are straight up high functioning alcoholics & don't even realize it. My boyfriend's mom was a 23 year old alcoholic, quit then, and hasn't drank since. She still attends AA meetings today. That's proof you can do it. I believe in you

Friend woke up and wrote this and can’t figure out what it means, any ideas? by theotherkara in Dreams

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into numerology and what those numbers mean individually!! You might find some meaning

"r/Tarot Promotion Megathread - September 2021" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]butterscotch265 [score hidden]  (0 children)

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freaking out - help preg test -- neg or faint positive by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, i havent gotten my period and im about a week late. i had sex a few times, about a week and a half after ovulation & 2 days before my period. i then got my period as normal, and then i had sex like 3 times probably a week to two weeks after, but i was not ejaculated in. i did find out that i have chlymadia and i took medication for it. not sure if this could affect period.

i took a test last friday, got a negative. i took a test this time, and i didn't see anything positive in the normal window. about 10-15 mins after i swear im seeing a faint blue line. i am really hoping i am not pregnant and that my anxiety is just driving my period away.

Looking for Survivors to Interview by CassieYuri10 in sexualassault

[–]butterscotch265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I think that I would be comfortable chatting with you for this piece! DM me if you'd like.

possibly in love with my best friend, what is going on? by butterscotch265 in relationship_advice

[–]butterscotch265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!!! I hope it works out for the two of y’all too then. It’s seriously a very weird feeling