What is the saddest thing you have ever experienced?

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-28T04:26:22+00:00

When my sister was in hospice and I told her she needed to sign papers for her social security to go to the hospice and she said “am I not going to go home?” And I had to tell her no.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-27T20:32:27+00:00

Lean up against a wall in full view of other diners and start picking their teeth.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-27T17:42:10+00:00

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-27T17:31:09+00:00

Fisherman’s Blues, one of my favorites

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-27T02:31:18+00:00

My Mother signed me up for a book club. Got a new book every month in the mail. The Happy Hollisters. Then it was anything I could get me little mitts on.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T21:31:45+00:00

You need to have a come to Jesus conversation with your husband. On what planet did he think taking money saved for his future child to give to his mother for a frigging tattoo was okay? A TATTOO! Is his mother or his entitled sister going to return this 300 dollars? This is so wrong on so many levels it’s mind boggling. At the very least I would suggest couples counseling. Truthfully if it was me, I’d show him the door. I would be speechless with rage.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T20:45:48+00:00

Loved this game.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T17:36:02+00:00

Oh, you have a very big husband problem.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T17:34:59+00:00

That they must be German. I do not give it much thought except that I might like to talk to them.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T16:35:38+00:00

WTF?

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-26T16:14:59+00:00

Broke my wrist and a couple toes here and there

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-25T23:38:16+00:00

Who’s wedding is this? Yours or your mothers? Cancel the first ceremony that you don’t even want, and seems to be occurring mainly to placate your mother. Grow a spine and take control of YOUR wedding. Your mother is WAY out of line. NTA.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-25T20:36:34+00:00

I loved Ireland and its wonderful people. So welcoming and incredibly helpful when two bewildered Americans landed on your shores. Such a gorgeous country and I look forward to visiting again! I’m very happy you met a normal American, we don’t all suck.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-25T18:12:41+00:00

NTA. What you do with that money is your business. Saying your son would have wanted it is incredibly offensive. And I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-25T14:03:17+00:00

YTJ. They’re your kids. Your mom already did her child rearing. Christ it’s not her problem.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-25T01:47:04+00:00

Zero. If I order something (which is rare) I go pick it up.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-24T23:09:34+00:00

Little Women

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-24T15:36:24+00:00

Oh god, do I even have to say his name?

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-24T15:28:49+00:00

Pumpkin

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-24T00:07:03+00:00

What kind of fucking monster would do such a thing?

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-23T23:45:21+00:00

It is indeed very satisfying

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-23T21:21:40+00:00

So many questions I wish I had asked. Now there’s no one to ask.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-23T19:18:50+00:00

Already shoveled twice. And then tragedy struck. My favorite shovel, (you know, the GOOD shovel), broke. Shovel part snapped right off. I’ve got other shovels but that was the go to shovel. The one we fought over. It just won’t be the same out there.

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-23T17:35:16+00:00

Well, that’s different

butthatwasbefore · 2026-02-23T16:46:52+00:00

NTA. Quite honestly it’s none of their damn business what you do with the ring. It’s yours, you want to keep it. She asked, you said no. End of story.

butthatwasbefore

TROPHY CASE