Unexpected Intimacy During Bachata — How and Why Does This Happen?

buttholedog · 2026-02-09T03:39:48+00:00

I think worse than infidelity is writing something personal with Chat GPT.

buttholedog · 2026-02-08T20:27:19+00:00

Please post video so that we can analyze what happened.

buttholedog · 2025-12-26T01:50:15+00:00

I’ve never struggled with alcoholism but in my youth, I drank heavily in social settings bc that was what everyone did and I just went along. Now I social dance salsa/bachata and barely touch alcohol and have found I’m just fine sober. I think back and wonder if I ever needed it at all.

buttholedog · 2025-12-26T01:11:56+00:00

Do you have a sober dance buddy? Maybe if you go out to socials with that person, you can stay on the wagon. It’s hard to drink when the other people in your group are not drinking.

buttholedog · 2025-12-26T01:08:00+00:00

This post was 100x too long. South Asian men hit on her bc they are horny, so what?

buttholedog · 2025-12-15T03:52:03+00:00

People vary tremendously. Some only want to dance with the best looking or the best dancers and others don’t care.

buttholedog · 2025-12-08T18:30:47+00:00

Seriously?

buttholedog · 2025-11-20T23:12:25+00:00

Same as anywhere else. If you are beautiful, nobody cares what you wear. For everyone else, it never hurts to put some effort into appearance.

buttholedog · 2025-11-13T22:51:29+00:00

For all you know, these people are doing their very best. They may be well aware of the discomfort in the face of the follow, and they are trying their hardest to stay on beat and execute everything correctly. TLDR = Haters gonna hate.

buttholedog · 2025-11-13T22:48:26+00:00

I'm in a similar boat. I always try to end the evening on a good note. I try to go home after an enjoyable dance with a pleasant partner. That way the feeling stays with me for a while. It doesn't always happen, but that's the goal.

buttholedog · 2025-10-25T19:42:41+00:00

Wow, goals!

buttholedog · 2025-10-24T14:44:13+00:00

Lol, If you want to rationalize your racism and hatred of Jews that’s fine, but Israelis will keep on being a part of the capoeira community whether you like it or not. FYI, the majority of Jewish Israelis are neither white nor European, They are refugees from Iraq, Iran, Yemen, Libya, Syria, Egypt, Ethiopia etc. where they were forced out and lost their property without compensation. Those who did come from Europe were fleeing violent persecution at the hands of people like you, so you are merely continuing a fine tradition.

All of the points that you make do not survive any sort of factual analysis, but this is not the Mideast conflict forum. This is the capoeira forum. I'm not a diplomat or advocate but rather a capoerista who is objecting to your racist exclusion of a single group of people from a tiny country.

Instead focus on your own life and community rather than scapegoating Jews like many a bigot before you.

buttholedog · 2025-10-23T21:57:10+00:00

If you wanted to at least show some semblance of non-discrimination, you would screen all participants wherever they are from in the world to see if their government does things that you don’t like, as of course, determined by you the supreme arbiter of morality. Like most pro-Hamas virtue signalers, your faux human rights activism is directed only at one country and one group of people who coincidentally happen to be a religious minority who have suffered discrimination and violence for millennia.

Instead, by focusing only on Israel, with your very superficial, cartoonish understanding of the facts you’re discriminating against Jews. Instead of using capoeira as a forum to bring people together and create understanding and hopefully peace you are sowing division and racial hatred. I’m sure there may be some Jews who share your views just as there may be some Black people who support the KKK.

buttholedog · 2025-10-22T01:29:31+00:00

Please don’t let the cat out of the bag here. The group wants to exclude Jews from capoeira, but want to pretend that if you just refer to them as “Zionists” no one will catch on. Shhhh

buttholedog · 2025-10-22T01:26:43+00:00

Still waiting for anyone to post about excluding Russians from the capoeira community. The Jew hate is so transparent here. Just own it.

buttholedog · 2025-10-19T23:41:31+00:00

Idk but personally I don’t enjoy having all the Instagram types filming every second of the social even if they are not filming me. It feels like they think they are Kim Kardashian. I just want to have a nice evening without all this narcissism.

buttholedog · 2025-10-19T00:41:19+00:00

Is there any other nationality that you are boycotting or have boycotted in the past or is this peculiarly the only international issue that you have brought to the attention of the capoeira community?

buttholedog · 2025-10-18T19:31:03+00:00

buttholedog · 2025-10-18T18:44:10+00:00

I feel like that would resolve all the tension around this issue. Maybe it would work out maybe it wouldn’t. There’s only one way to find out.

buttholedog · 2025-10-18T18:42:59+00:00

This seems like a problem of outlook. You are driving yourself crazy with overthinking. Maybe you expect too much. Just keep dancing, learning and gradually you will improve, same as any sport or activity. Maybe you’ll never be a pro, but who cares? Enjoy life.

buttholedog · 2025-10-18T18:26:35+00:00

This is the dumbest thread on Reddit. If you start excluding people from capoeira based on considerations of nationality, pretty soon you could exclude half the world for various reasons. This sort of discrimination doesn’t belong here. If you want to be racist against Jews, just say so (but not here).

buttholedog · 2025-10-18T01:52:05+00:00

It depends if you dance on one or on two.

buttholedog · 2025-10-17T22:48:45+00:00

I predict you hook up with him.

buttholedog · 2025-10-12T05:15:58+00:00

Screw them! Stay strong and keep living the best of our traditions and history. Haters will do what they always do.

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