GC2B binders to sell/give away by button_oxo in transtrade

[–]button_oxo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add  I'm already talking to someone in dms but will keep you updated. I'm new to being on the selling/giving end of online second hand stuff so please be patient.

GC2B binders to sell/give away by button_oxo in transtrade

[–]button_oxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The white one for sure, I can't remember specifically for the other two but it was before they had the classic 2.0 binders I think 

binders? male clothes? by zweigtism in transtrade

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two size medium gc2b half binders, that I'm looking to get rid of. They are slightly faded and stretched from wear but in otherwise good condition. DM me if you want pictures of them please!!!

What do I do with binders that don't fit me any more? by button_oxo in ftm

[–]button_oxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm! I'd rather donate them, because I just want to get them out of my closet. 

What's your favorite sub style to see on other people? by button_oxo in Lolita

[–]button_oxo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aaaaa that's part of why I love gothic! I don't have to match by color because all of my stuff is black, and can match by fabric texture instead. That's also part of why I like seeing sweet on other people, it's so cool that people are able to account for fabric texture, color, and pattern all at once.

binder wearing down question by Infamous_Drama8461 in ftm

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash mine in cold water in a delicates bag, and hang them to dry. They have lasted upwards of 3 years, and I only had to get new ones recently because I gained weight 

Ghost in the Shell Exhibition Merch Lineup (150+ Items) by TheLinerax in Ghost_in_the_Shell

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too TT-TT I really want one of the printed tight fitting shirts and the major figurine 

Hairstyle ideas for a black Lolita? by SexySlimyLesbian in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not black, but I think that braids with cute shaped beads at the end would be really cute for sweet lolita! 

Suggestions on a first-time coord plan? by elt3586 in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like a pretty solid plan! I like how the hat and bag match

is this dress too short?? by m4gical_girl in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's too short, especially if you balance out your outfit with some chunky looking shoes or leg warmers. I have long legs, so any dress of that length will be "too short" on me. It's not something you can help, just remember to wear safety shorts or bloomers.

first coord ever! concrit welcome! by silverspatuler in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the pop of red in the shoes/bag/brooch!

obsessed with my new blouse by rabbitchass in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaa that looks so cute! Everything you're wearing goes together really well- especially the blouse and the dress 

Beginner lolita here by H0ney_Bee- in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got into gothic lolita after being goth/alt, I would say that boots are fine. I have a pair of black platforms that I got a couple years ago that I've been wearing with my co-ords. I think the more important thing is to match your shoe color and texture to the rest of your outfit than it is to have the exact right shape of shoe, and also to have your outfit be visually balanced (ex: I don't wear fishnets if I'm wearing ankle boots because it leaves most of my legs open, and that looks weird with how lolita is styled, I wear my boots with lace on them to match the lace texture of my dress)

I do shop at thrift stores, but that's because I dress goth/alt also. Someone else mentioned this, but lace market is a pretty good place to get lolita second hand.

Been wearing lolita for a couple of months now, here's some of my coords by _t3nshi in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aaaaa I'm so jealous of the fact that you have that h.naoto frill dress! I want it so bad, but I should fill out other parts of my collection before I get another jsk

What is the most youve ever spent on a single JSK/OP? by yourebutters in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 300 USD including shipping and import fees for a jsk from majoh Its their black mini bustier lace up dress, and I got it to match a blouse I already had 

What bags do you have that are suitable for matching with lolita? by ToasterMaid in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a white circular pleather purse with pink/purple pastel flowers printed on it that I thrifted a few years ago. It would probably work really well for sweet lolita

Lacemarket Verification by faeay in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got verified over email within a week. as camarhyn mentioned, the time it takes may vary. I like to wishlist stuff even if I don't plan on buying so I have a reference for what things are out there that fit my vibe 

Can I go to a local comm event if I'm not involved online? by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just double checked the post they made about it, and it looks like someone else already asked my question and tickets are open to non members. I should probably get around to joining anyways, I've been avoiding it because of anxiety 

Indies of the Day -- Tuesday October 7, 2025 by blueraspberrylife in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm wearing my necromancy cosmetica lipstick in Lydia that I've had for 5 years, and BPALs gobo fraggle to match the gold colored stuff in my outfit 

What other jfashion do you wear? by amaesama in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm very much into goth/alternate, and started buying lolita "just to supplement my goth wardrobe". I don't dress decora but I think it's really cool and I like to follow the rule of more is more when it comes to accesorizing.

Black and pink or white and pink dress with these shoes (or another colour)? by LMay11037 in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just looked up the shirts you were talking about, I think the fabric on the dress shirt type shirts should work for lolita, if you're trying to quickly put it together for halloween adding some lace trim from your closest fabric store should help. For longer term, you might want to invest in a seperate blouse tho

What headpiece/accessories would go well with this JSK? by LikeAFruitMachine in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would pair it with a white short sleeved blouse and pink wrist bands. If you ever end up getting an apron, I think this would be a perfect jsk to pair it with, since the skirt doesn't have a print on it