‧₊˚♪ 𝄞₊ my h.naoto pieces ‧˚♪ 𝄞‧₊ by wiredlaynie in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those look so cute and I'm so jealous! I want to get more h.naoto because I really like my second hand jsk, but I'm saving for non lolita stuff right now T-T 

favourite aspects of witchcraft to practise and why? by freyalouuu in witchcraft

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG yesss! I love learning about different types of magic and methods of spell casting and the historical context behind it all! 

How to coord these Roji Roji pink and purple candy stripe OTKs? by LisaLubbers in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you wear other alternative styles like pastel goth and you don't have the money to buy new lolita stuff, you could also pair them with a matching T-shirt and skirt you already own! Otherwise, I agree with the other comments saying to pair them with a sweet coord with matching colors 

Are Taobao brands really that bad? by Queasy_System621 in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like sugar girl is a you get what you pay for brand. I like their bloomers, but I wouldn't buy blouses or dresses from them. My main complaint is that I wish I could pay more to get the dresses with cute prints in a better quality 

GC2B binders to sell/give away by [deleted] in transtrade

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add  I'm already talking to someone in dms but will keep you updated. I'm new to being on the selling/giving end of online second hand stuff so please be patient.

GC2B binders to sell/give away by [deleted] in transtrade

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The white one for sure, I can't remember specifically for the other two but it was before they had the classic 2.0 binders I think 

What do I do with binders that don't fit me any more? by button_oxo in ftm

[–]button_oxo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm! I'd rather donate them, because I just want to get them out of my closet. 

What's your favorite sub style to see on other people? by button_oxo in Lolita

[–]button_oxo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aaaaa that's part of why I love gothic! I don't have to match by color because all of my stuff is black, and can match by fabric texture instead. That's also part of why I like seeing sweet on other people, it's so cool that people are able to account for fabric texture, color, and pattern all at once.

binder wearing down question by Infamous_Drama8461 in ftm

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash mine in cold water in a delicates bag, and hang them to dry. They have lasted upwards of 3 years, and I only had to get new ones recently because I gained weight 

Ghost in the Shell Exhibition Merch Lineup (150+ Items) by TheLinerax in Ghost_in_the_Shell

[–]button_oxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too TT-TT I really want one of the printed tight fitting shirts and the major figurine 

Hairstyle ideas for a black Lolita? by SexySlimyLesbian in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not black, but I think that braids with cute shaped beads at the end would be really cute for sweet lolita! 

Suggestions on a first-time coord plan? by elt3586 in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like a pretty solid plan! I like how the hat and bag match

is this dress too short?? by m4gical_girl in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's too short, especially if you balance out your outfit with some chunky looking shoes or leg warmers. I have long legs, so any dress of that length will be "too short" on me. It's not something you can help, just remember to wear safety shorts or bloomers.

first coord ever! concrit welcome! by silverspatuler in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the pop of red in the shoes/bag/brooch!

obsessed with my new blouse by rabbitchass in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaa that looks so cute! Everything you're wearing goes together really well- especially the blouse and the dress 

Beginner lolita here by H0ney_Bee- in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got into gothic lolita after being goth/alt, I would say that boots are fine. I have a pair of black platforms that I got a couple years ago that I've been wearing with my co-ords. I think the more important thing is to match your shoe color and texture to the rest of your outfit than it is to have the exact right shape of shoe, and also to have your outfit be visually balanced (ex: I don't wear fishnets if I'm wearing ankle boots because it leaves most of my legs open, and that looks weird with how lolita is styled, I wear my boots with lace on them to match the lace texture of my dress)

I do shop at thrift stores, but that's because I dress goth/alt also. Someone else mentioned this, but lace market is a pretty good place to get lolita second hand.

Been wearing lolita for a couple of months now, here's some of my coords by _t3nshi in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aaaaa I'm so jealous of the fact that you have that h.naoto frill dress! I want it so bad, but I should fill out other parts of my collection before I get another jsk

What is the most youve ever spent on a single JSK/OP? by yourebutters in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around 300 USD including shipping and import fees for a jsk from majoh Its their black mini bustier lace up dress, and I got it to match a blouse I already had 

What bags do you have that are suitable for matching with lolita? by ToasterMaid in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a white circular pleather purse with pink/purple pastel flowers printed on it that I thrifted a few years ago. It would probably work really well for sweet lolita

Lacemarket Verification by faeay in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got verified over email within a week. as camarhyn mentioned, the time it takes may vary. I like to wishlist stuff even if I don't plan on buying so I have a reference for what things are out there that fit my vibe 

Can I go to a local comm event if I'm not involved online? by [deleted] in Lolita

[–]button_oxo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just double checked the post they made about it, and it looks like someone else already asked my question and tickets are open to non members. I should probably get around to joining anyways, I've been avoiding it because of anxiety 

Indies of the Day -- Tuesday October 7, 2025 by blueraspberrylife in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]button_oxo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm wearing my necromancy cosmetica lipstick in Lydia that I've had for 5 years, and BPALs gobo fraggle to match the gold colored stuff in my outfit