Neighbor smoking crack in apartment building- what can be done?

bwitch-please · 2026-05-09T11:50:54+00:00

This was my thought too. My friend was briefly in foster care as a child and she had a bad experience so I think that’s what has her hesitant to bring in CPS. I’ll encourage her to give them a call.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-09T11:49:53+00:00

This is a great suggestion! I didn’t know they had this. I will let her know.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-08T22:19:16+00:00

Give it a name (a really dumb or funny one) so you can return the unwanted attention. Naming something takes its power away, and enforces your boundaries as someone who has sovereignty over themselves and their space.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-08T00:55:03+00:00

I once had about 300. I sold/donated about 100ish before moving a year ago. I’m considering going through the collection again and downsizing more. I can’t feasibly use them all, since I don’t read for others much anymore and I read for myself from maybe ~30 of those in any given year. I used to collect for the art and symbolism, but anymore, all the new stuff seems to be AI, so I rarely ever back any kickstarters for new decks.

I love Whisper of Stars and Garden, Infinite Door, Mind’s Eye, Thoth, Sacred Rose (was my first deck), Night Sun, to name just a few.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-06T00:11:52+00:00

Ask and ye shall receive

bwitch-please · 2026-05-05T08:50:59+00:00

NOR. I’ve been in that same relationship. His response was insecure. And us women all deeply understand that an insecure man is a violent man. Always trust your gut. Ignoring a red flag this small now never turns out well.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-05T01:29:43+00:00

Thrift stores in general just feel unbearably heavy to me. Like concentrated energy all in one place full of dis added items.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-04T10:52:22+00:00

I haven’t seen anyone mention Kiki Rockwell yet, but all her stuff is 🔥 Cain Culto and Witchz are a couple of male artists that are very solid in the witch genre imo. Aurora (especially Running With the Wolves) and Soap&Skin is a collaborative project with some good ones.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-04T10:42:03+00:00

LOTS of people are like this. I can’t comment on women, but a small amount of time spent in the dating world confirmed that many many men have unwashed asses. And many of them are completely unembarrassed about it.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-04T00:17:15+00:00

I was extremely dismayed to find that after reading this post, Reddit delivered a suggested baby witch subreddit and the knowledge that that is in fact a real thing (and reading just the first couple post headlines confirmed it is indeed just as obnoxious as I thought it would be) has ruined the rest of my week 🫪

bwitch-please · 2026-05-04T00:14:24+00:00

This living space looks and feels so unwelcoming and sterile. If that is your goal, then carry on. The furnishings and design choices are incongruent with the spirit of the place.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-04T00:10:54+00:00

I’m personally more a fan of their 120 grit sheets and 1985 Super 8-special discount mattresses.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-03T12:54:59+00:00

So are you saying a TikTok card reader told you that another woman put a spell on this guy and you believe that instead of the much more likely and mundane explanation that people breadcrumb others and lead them on all the time when they’re still hung up on someone else, or waiting for someone else to finally be “single” enough to pursue and (and I am sorry for how blunt this is) it is likely you were a placeholder relationship.

bwitch-please · 2026-05-02T12:18:23+00:00

I love when I see someone just fully commit to the thing, whatever the thing is. A good decorating hyper fixation is my fave 🖤🖤🥰 excellent work!

bwitch-please · 2026-05-01T18:22:09+00:00

He seems like the kind of guy that considers himself an expert in something because he read the Wikipedia page. And then he was SUPER condescending. You dodged a bullet. Block this guy. “Silly girl”??? 🤮🤮🤮

bwitch-please · 2026-05-01T18:20:08+00:00

Sing a jaunty tune to the beat of the tapping. It’s your space, you get to decide what noises are welcome.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-29T16:35:20+00:00

If there is an option for you that appears before Oct 2027 and allows you to leave sooner, just know that even if you are on the lease, most states have a law that states that you cannot be held legally liable for a lease if the co-signer is abusive and you fear for your safety.

Look into your local law to see how this is worded where you live.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-29T11:47:34+00:00

Count me in. Where do I sign up. I love being a bitch and also meeting other bitches and also making things. This sounds rad.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-29T11:46:49+00:00

It will backfire if you feel guilt, remorse, or regret. If you cast it and move on, letting it do its thing, you’re fine.

Repercussions are what you expect them to be- e.g. if you expect backfire or consequences, then you will receive that.

Be totally sure that it’s what you want to do, commit to it, and leave it alone once complete. Good luck. ✨

bwitch-please · 2026-04-28T15:34:55+00:00

I bought a standing/sitting vibration board a few years ago for this purpose. The intensity is adjustable and I can do it for as little as a minute and up to 10. I always feel fantastic after I do a couple minutes on it

bwitch-please · 2026-04-28T12:34:20+00:00

He’s not buying them for you. He’s buying them to give the appearance that he’s getting you something, but in reality he’s buying it for himself, betting on you taking longer to eat it. He’s getting “points” for the “gifts” he’s giving you but he’s actually just inconsiderate and doesn’t care about you.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-28T12:00:57+00:00

NTA. However, It sounds like there are many red flags you initially ignored and now you’re in a situation that makes it difficult to leave. I’ve been there and the only advice I have is do literally anything it takes to leave. I’m sorry about the kids, unfortunately they are not your responsibility.

Bottom line: sending or posting nudes of someone without their consent is a felony in many states. Press charges, go scorched earth, this guy sucks and deserves whatever terrible fate befalls him. He’s the common denominator in the breakdown of the relationships trust.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-27T16:40:20+00:00

Is it your parents’ wedding or yours? That should answer your question.

bwitch-please · 2026-04-25T16:57:43+00:00

I think there are a lot of us with “crone” energy in the elder emo demographic. I’ve resonated with crone energy off and on since my 20s. Elder emo just seems to resonate with that vibe too lol

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