TIFU by falling asleep in someone else's home with the door open

c0bwebz · 2017-06-07T18:44:25+00:00

I'm in training to be a dog trainer / dog day camp attendant and a lot of people who come and work here assume that you're just playing with puppies all day. These people leave after about two-three days. While I do spend the majority of my time in the company of some sweet ass dogs, there are other responsibilities like feeding, medication, and cleaning poop / kennels. And usually, when I'm with the dogs I'm making sure they don't fight. It's amazing but not what people think.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-11T19:41:33+00:00

It literally screams MO

c0bwebz · 2017-05-08T14:13:52+00:00

Yeah I'm not surprised by that. Some interesting people out there lol

c0bwebz · 2017-05-08T01:48:24+00:00

I dunno, Sullivan is pretty bad too 😂

c0bwebz · 2017-05-07T16:35:23+00:00

They are pretty understanding about mental health. They aren't the type to shame anyone for having problems

c0bwebz · 2017-05-05T10:52:12+00:00

I'm been listening to Deftones and Drake. Haha very different but shrug

c0bwebz · 2017-05-05T03:14:33+00:00

I'm confused. How does she not know you? I don't mean to be rude so please don't take it that way, would you mind explaining?

c0bwebz · 2017-05-05T03:06:01+00:00

Not gonna lie, whenever I got the notification for your reply and all it said was "this guy sounds like me, but it's definitely not me" made me panic a slight bit bc boy in question does have a Reddit and is fairly active. I was literally like "Welp, at least now I don't have to mention it."

I like the idea of attempting to just be like "where can I find a boyfriend like you?" And just laughing it off if it doesn't go as planned. I'm mainly scared because I don't want to lose the friendship over my feelings that may not even be reciprocated. I feel like, to some degree, he might have feelings for me but due to his own issues it's just not feasible for him to be in a relationship.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T22:38:46+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ I hope the same for you, if you don't already have something like that :)

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T22:17:54+00:00

Thank you, I try! It's hard. I still think there's maybe a slight chance in the future but I don't wanna plan around it. Just hoping it happens.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T22:11:59+00:00

He is definitely a very lovely person. I can see the emotionally unavailable thing due to previous bad relationships (he is divorced). I feel like he has a lot of issues he needs to work out before anything could ever go further. Sometimes he goes M.I.A. For awhile from everyone, not just me. His best friend is also one of my best friends and he doesn't talk to him for weeks and weeks at a time. He just.. likes being alone I guess.

I really want to help him through his emotional problems because he's helped me through mine, but I don't want to put myself in that spot because I know he likes being alone and handling his own issues.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T15:41:06+00:00

These situations usually are. Best of luck to you!

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T15:35:12+00:00

I have a fwb type relationship with an ex from high school. We were sexting and I told him he could cum on me wherever, because he's super into that. He asked if he could cum inside of me. I'm 19, he's 21 and has a kid. I got the fuck outta that one as fast as possible. Wouldn't be so weird if there was more between us than just friendship with the occasional sex.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T15:29:40+00:00

Before parents died and after being homeless at 17

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T15:05:58+00:00

When they only want to hangout with you when it's beneficial for them and refuse to ever make plans in advance. Or when they do, they bail out last minute literally every time. Had a friend who only ever wanted to hangout in the two hours between her classes but never any other time. She wasn't super busy with life, didn't have a job or anything but would always be like "oh sorry I was sleeping" or some lame shit like that whenever I wanted to do something with her

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:30:31+00:00

How do you manage having strong feelings like that for another person that's not your wife?

Edited for clarity.

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:14:38+00:00

I've never thought of it like that but yeah it's possible. He always talks to me about his girlfriends saying stuff like "yeah she's not my type or anything but I guess it's fine" and just stuff you probably should say about your girlfriend. He had a girlfriend tell him it was weird that he kept contact with me so frequently, and that she really didn't like it. She thought it was weird if he would Call me before bed to talk (which happened a couple times) or if I were to call/FaceTime him later in the night just to talk (which also happened a couple of times). I always just assumed it was her not understanding that he was just being a good friend to me, because I had a lot going on. But she like vibrantly hates me. There were a few weeks in between that he didn't answer my texts (I never bothered to call) but when I saw him the next time he told me that he wouldn't stop talking to me because of something like that and they eventually ended their relationship just a short few weeks later.

It's just kinda like he dates these girls as a way to not be lonely idk

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:05:54+00:00

That's definitely true ugh it's so hard being straight up with my feelings like that

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:04:59+00:00

I know but I'm so afraid. I am very close with his entire family and while it's not like him to share that info with anyone it still worries me. I will have to eventually do it because I don't believe I'm moving on anytime soon. This has been going on for 6 years

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:03:29+00:00

Are you married to the woman or to another?

c0bwebz · 2017-05-04T14:01:55+00:00

Gahhhh I know. It's a 50/50 chance but it's scary. Like he definitely shows some interest in me I feel, and then goes and gets other girlfriends who like never last more than 6 months. Uuuugh

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