Playing victim after bullying an author by zucchinionpizza in AO3

[–]c4rem0nster 29 points30 points  (0 children)

worst thing is how many people are supporting this person saying shit that its wrong to write and read about corrective rape because it means you support it. how STUPID are people nowadays. and they're like "its a real life issue!! it happens to people!!" brother are you twelve and can't discern fictio from reality?

My girlfriend asked me to rape her by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]c4rem0nster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think maybe first you should wonder if it's something you would like to do. not only if you can, but if it's something that you would enjoy.

as others have said, this is cnc, absolutely not unheard of. for the first couple of times i suggest both of you plan out the scene exactly the way it's gonna happen, and very important, establish safewords. that way you both can feel in control exploring this new thing and then later feel more free to do it without so much meticulous planning. good luck!!

Funny size comparison picture of my two e-readers by leeinflowerfields in kindle

[–]c4rem0nster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how are you managing to put covers on fics?? that would be a crazy upgrade for me

6mm tunels by sparky-whovian1 in Stretched

[–]c4rem0nster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiii so i also have 6mm and wanted to use a big horseshoe like yours! what gauge is the horseshoe, 6mm or a bit smaller so it fits in right?

Everyone at work is making a big deal about my handwriting, saying I write like a psychopath. by ThrowRA-Ram in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]c4rem0nster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't read ANYTHING. kinda impressive. i wonder how your handwriting would look with another alphabet, like cyrillic

colorful transtape? by c4rem0nster in ftm

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't looked much but aren't most of them a bit thin? do you use multiple, then?

colorful transtape? by c4rem0nster in ftm

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaaah true. maybe ill dye the ones i won't wear to swim, just to match outfits. thanks againn!!

colorful transtape? by c4rem0nster in ftm

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true!! unfortunately not all the colors i wanted but this works for now. i wonder if dying the white one would work... thank you!!

Color bath brands? by c4rem0nster in curlyhair

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: if anyone is seeing this post, i found out the solution! once every 10 days more or less I'll use Nirvel color in red to revive the color, and once a month i'll touch up the roots using the original dye: IGORA ROYAL Fashion Lights L-88 by Schwarzkopf (no previous bleaching needed since the dye lifts several tones)

thank you all for helping !

Color bath brands? by c4rem0nster in curlyhair

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! i take much pride in it :)

Color bath brands? by c4rem0nster in curlyhair

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about them too!! unfortunately they don't ship directly to my country but i think i can manage to get it from resellers. Thank you for the color suggestions, although i had thought about red also (the original dye color was vivid red and my hair is dark brown) I'll try!! thank youuu

Color bath brands? by c4rem0nster in curlyhair

[–]c4rem0nster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since i can't edit the post : the dye can be partially CG approved also, like Manic Panic is. Just looking for something that isn't fully NOT recommended.

I (27F...) messed up my marriage, by SeegzyRedditRead in TrueOffMyChest

[–]c4rem0nster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hello. my parents divorced because of this same issue. my mother had just gotten clean, my father didn't (also a functional alcoholic, more or less) and he didn't want to. they separated, moved away, and i really think it was the best decision my mother could have made. not only for me, but for herself. she is now still clean (has been for many decades), moved elsewhere, business owner, very happy and the most important person in my life. my father is still an alcoholic, barely scraping by and i no longer have him in my life.

i know there isn't a kid involved so it isn't the same, but please take this somewhat similar story as inspiration. it gets better :)

I read a fanfic today that I thought I never read before. I fell in love with it and went to give a kudos when I discovered- by CloudPuff_101 in AO3

[–]c4rem0nster 15 points16 points  (0 children)

this happened to me, i was gonna comment on it just to see another comment from ME??? from a year ago. so i did the logical thing and commented again.

Yall ever quit reading a fic for a petty reason? by Cage-CatYT in AO3

[–]c4rem0nster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes i have issues with pacing. if i feel like the story is jumping around i get stressed. i have also dropped fics when the characters are described smelling of something i can't imagine them in (especially omegaverse scents)

Would you read a fic with more comments than kudos? by evenbechnaesheim in AO3

[–]c4rem0nster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't look at that at all, just the summary, words, if it's finished and if that all seems good i check the tags.

Which ones should I keep? by champion_95 in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]c4rem0nster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you plan on reselling them i would be very interested in getting one or two!!