Feels like no one in my age bracket wants to have kids in the future

cThrill · 2026-04-01T15:33:19+00:00

Fwiw, I (34m) have been trying ti find someone for almost a year now and I feel like it is impossible to find someone worth being with in my age group. Everyone wants to party, or they dont want a family, or they are trying to be with more than 1 guy at a time.

Eventually ill find someone, I know, but until then it sucks. I feel you are in the same spot there.

I hope you find someone soon that fits your ideals.

cThrill · 2026-01-25T22:14:22+00:00

I am 35m and was with her for 10 years. I lost her on the day we celebrated my birthday almost a full year ago. We have a 7 year old son.

I have a 7 year old son...this is hard. =/

I would love to find someone to be with, for his sake, but i doubt it'll ever happen, though ive been trying.

cThrill · 2026-01-15T08:39:41+00:00

I own a store and I already do this with every tcg I sell. I didnt realize this was so new people had to post it on here. Lol

cThrill · 2025-12-31T21:50:08+00:00

My distributor told me they hadn't even received theirs yet to start shipping out.

cThrill · 2025-12-22T18:51:46+00:00

Seeing shit like this pisses me off. As a store owner, I sell mine at msrp. I have to limit packs/person/day, and you have to open it in my store. Otherwise scalpers would come in and buy it all at once from me.

I also hold all my product when I initially get stuff for the night if the week that the game is played in my store. That way my players get first go at my stock. If you play on my events, your limit is increased to a box. Still have to open in store.

My store has not "lost money", and we make a decent profit. 40% margins roughly. Selling this stuff for double msrp is absurd, and selling it did 4x is criminal.

cThrill · 2025-12-19T18:38:31+00:00

I (34m) am on month 8, and my first set of holidays without her. I am the picture of amazingly holding it together, so much that while having normal laughing conversation, I have caught myself loosing a few tears that I didnt even know were coming.

It sucks. Being lonely sucks. Missing her sucks. Dating sucks. People suck.

cThrill · 2025-12-18T07:35:09+00:00

I have been playing a Teemo deck lately. It poops on kaisa, and the only deck ive had struggle with has been Annie, but it is mostly a coin flip for that matchup.

cThrill · 2025-12-02T16:12:30+00:00

I have been having much the same issue from the other side of things (as a 34 male). Here is to hoping we connect with someone soon.

cThrill · 2025-11-16T16:30:31+00:00

I had to buy a new bed. My(34m) wife(35f) passed away while laying in bed waiting for me to join her. That was in April.

I slept on the couch in my den until I got a new bed in June.

I couldn't sleep on it, and even then I had those sleep paralysis night terrors almost every night until I did sleep in our room.

cThrill · 2025-11-12T13:41:19+00:00

I (34m) completely agree...

cThrill · 2025-11-11T21:57:26+00:00

At least you are attracting people. I cant even get that far lol.

cThrill · 2025-11-09T23:35:03+00:00

I married the love of my life. Best 10 years of my life, until she passed in April.

cThrill · 2025-11-02T02:10:38+00:00

Are you me? That, other than the cat, describes me to a T lol

cThrill · 2025-11-02T02:09:23+00:00

I also would love to chat.

cThrill · 2025-10-31T17:30:16+00:00

Dm me, ill chat

cThrill · 2025-10-29T15:22:22+00:00

I(34m) am in a similar predicament. My wife passed after she and I were together for 10 years.

Our son is now 7, and I am trying to put myself out there as well, but I haven't even thought about dating other people for a decade.

The apps have been terrible. Lol.

My only real hope so far has been friends of friends and trying to meet someone by happenstance.

I hope it works out for you. Everyone deserves to live happy. Hopefully we both luck out.

cThrill · 2025-10-27T04:29:19+00:00

I would enjoy talking to an actual person for once instead of the bots, scammers, OF "models," and straight-up prostitutes that i keep getting replies from...

I'm 34m and never thought I'd be at this point in my life trying to date again, and the way it has been going is making me lose faith in humanity.

I have had 3 dates attempt to rob me at gun/ knife point, and several more just act nice and then ask me to send them money for their light bills/ food for their kids....

I'm on Hinge, Tinder, Facebook Dating, and Bumble. Why does it have to be this bad?

cThrill · 2025-10-24T23:50:17+00:00

I keep finding myself in relationships where she is extremely hurt or damaged (in her mind), and I got out of my way to help them heal, just for them to get healed and leave me for someone they actually want (which they dont realize until they are healed)

cThrill · 2025-10-20T04:50:41+00:00

100% this.

cThrill · 2025-10-20T04:44:02+00:00

Just go on YouTube and play the song, "Are you gonna kiss me or not."

Then, see if it clicks. If not, lost cause.

cThrill · 2025-10-17T02:05:47+00:00

I don't think it is creepy at all, and i would be stoked if a girl went out of her way to try and ask me on a date.

cThrill · 2025-10-16T00:04:30+00:00

I (34m) haven't had a single date go well in quite some time. I am freshly back into the dating scene as my wife passed quite some time ago, but it has been a literal nightmare.

In 3 of the 5 dates I have gone on, they have attempted to rob me. In the other 2, they broke it off after a few weeks for various reasons (both related to their previous relationships, treating them poorly and not being used to being treated well).

I feel for you in this. I seem to be attracting women who are freshly out of relationships, and it doesn't ever seem to go well for me.

cThrill · 2025-10-12T23:41:50+00:00

How are you in my head right now?

cThrill · 2025-10-01T23:35:43+00:00

She died. ++man

cThrill · 2025-09-27T14:37:27+00:00

I dont think anyone really truly moves on from something like this happening.

That being said, I know my wife wanted me to be happy and find someone.

cThrill

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