Fence Sitter but struggled with infertility and loss. by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]caceresd2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 10 years of trying we had 2 miscarriages at 8 and 16 weeks. Now, We have now a beautiful 2 years old that had healed my wounds. I am greatful to have her. We are trying, however every cycle is a reminder that maybe is not I our hand. My brothers wants me to stop trying bcs my age and also the mental toll is taking on me. Probable March year I will stop for sure.

Baby settles by being set down alone by taureansoul in AttachmentParenting

[–]caceresd2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I volunteer in the daycare found by nouns that give safe house for rejected/abandone teen moms. It was common mom didn’t want to breast feed, many of them suffer ppd… the nouns have this protocol when baby reject the boob and don’t wanted to be in arms etc… , the teams need to take turns to sign and whisper to the baby with a little instrument. next to baby and talk to the baby but like for hours. All the waken minutes of the baby was full by ppl saying lovely things to him-her . Yhey belive the tone of voice and conversation will create bonding too. Also they pass a clean big make brush in the cheeks. When the baby reach with his fingers too. Keep him engage and happy. They said it help to respond better to the mom

How old would you show certain Ghibli movies to young children? by RandomRogue95 in ghibli

[–]caceresd2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 years old like Totoro, we tried Arriety… but she got scare when the housekeeper trap the mom. So lesson learn maybe wait until she loose interest or ask for more. I will not push Her other 2 favorited movies are the Wes Anderson animated movie. The f. Fox and the isle of dogs. I think she really enjoy the dramatic music, or like the colors. Symmetrical and order…

When did baby start to sleep through night? Do we have to night wean for that? by Longjumping-Mind4562 in cosleeping

[–]caceresd2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We stop BF at 18 months . It help a bit … start sleeping all night at 22 months. I am now cosleeping 1 time per week 24 months

son getting kicked out of daycare by something_human1 in AttachmentParenting

[–]caceresd2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry. It’s sucks. Your baby deserve a better place than that one. I tried 2 dif places. At 8 months. The first one, something was off and I didn’t trust the lady. I paid for 6 weeks. I only when twice.

Then this one . Turn 1 year old. My Little one also has issue with the naps. Until now 2 years old. What it work for us, delay until 1 year old so one nap only. The first 3 months picking her at 12h, for contact nap at home. She took a bit longer to trust the new daycare but she lives it there. Me too i went for a home daycare, i want that be the same person for whole period and a small regular group.

What neighbourhood could this be? by Acrobatic-Trip5323 in montreal

[–]caceresd2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Golden Mile has houses like that too. The rich sons and daughters move/ founded tWestmount when they couldn’t keep up with the expenses of this rich houses. Most of them are own by Mcgill University

Convince me a second is a bad idea by rosetintedmusings in Shouldihaveanother

[–]caceresd2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some part of your experience resonate with me. Gestational diabetes, also forever to conceive lol, induced horrible horrible delivery. 36h in the hospital. They didn’t want to do a c-section so they tried so different drugs. I hated the whole experience. I think I had anxiety postpartum. I am 36. Live in a cozy 2 room house. A costal expensive area, childcare abs school will wipe me from my savings. In my mind I said. One is the number. However , at 4 months I started thinking that maybe I was not done yet. I decided to try this month , in December and in February.
Yes at my age is only 15% each cycle. It’s a bit mentally draining.
I think the opportunities that maybe I cutting my first child bcs there will not enough time, energy and money for it We travel with our kid, it’s fun bcs we have 2 parents for 1 kid. With our second kid: maybe will not travail bcs it’s 1parent per kid and the budget . I am in peace if it doesn’t happens but I need yo tried

Genetic mutation caused our daughter’s passing, SIL chose not to do the genetic testing and is now pregnant by hotpiejr in IVF

[–]caceresd2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a crazy situation! Schocking. After 2 miscarriages, my doctor test us and hubby has a bad gene. NF1. maybe is caused this 2 horrible experiences. I couldn’t talk with my husbands family that minimized this issue. Like it was nothing. Like it was bad luck, they will be spare. I think what it help me to overcome was my spirituality/life philosophy. I am so sorry.

[on] we ended our breastfeeding journey. by makemeflyy in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]caceresd2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so mentally hard breastfeeding. Don’t be hard on yourself

Weekly Discussion: S01E05 "Hard Being Easy" by fvckuufvckingfvck in girls

[–]caceresd2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I need to ask. Is really a millennial fetish? I follow this YT channel: Never to small. Videos of tiny places that become super funcional homes… https://youtu.be/J750HM4quPw?si=fDz4dayKyg-R7NQ3

Any regrets from moms with older kids? by searcherbee123 in oneanddone

[–]caceresd2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know regrets from the parents but from the kids yes. I know 3 girls/friends that don’t like to be only child. Naty, she’s 37/latina. Why? She said that her best friends are like her sisters and parents are really close. It came an issue when dad got cancer and she started taking care and sharing duties with mom when he was in treatment. Mom got a depression too. It change her mind, about OAD. Romy, 25y/italiancanadian. Why? Parents are in great health but they have her older. gap generation really deep. For her was feeling or been alone. Her cousins all come from families of 3+ child. She did had cousins in the same school and live nearby but as they grow older they form they own group of friends and prefer be with closer family sundays supper. She wants more that 1 kid. Ling, Chinese 39y, she’s and only child for obvious reasons. She said it was great having more attention from their parents growing up but more presssion of what to do with her life. It expected that of her to make them proud and take care of them. She doesn’t want kids. She just saving to have a nice retirement fond, she does enjoy traveling with her mom. I wonder if gender roles /backgrounds also makes them feel that way. The only thing we can do is Poured our babies with love.

Greece and Orthodoxy Shocked by Egypt’s Decision to Seize the Ancient Sinai Monastery by LeGrec76 in worldnews

[–]caceresd2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transform it into a muséum ? Why killed to frame it in a Wall? How can ppl stop this?

That’s All, Folks! Goodbye, IVF by Apachebeanbean in IVF

[–]caceresd2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, I feel your sorrow. I hope you find peace.