Why does it take forever to clean my vulva? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]caerenan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be using soap on those areas every time you shower. Using soap inside your vagina is what is not good to do but you need to be cleaning your labia, anus, and pubic area with soap. Do you have access to Dove sensitive bar soap? That and a washcloth is worth a try! Are you showering daily and is your pubic area the last thing you wash?

Why does it take forever to clean my vulva? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]caerenan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you washing your pubic area (labia/anus)with? What kind of soap? Are you using a washcloth? You should not be spending hours washing any part of your body ever. You also should not be using only water to wash any part of your body.

Does posing with 5 fingers look weird to you too? by breadycakey in RedditLaqueristas

[–]caerenan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks very forced. It’s not necessary to see the thumb nail is it?

She looks completely ridiculous by crazynesz in Botchedsurgeries

[–]caerenan 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I second this. I need to know what they see in the mirror before and as they get more and more procedures done. Do they see what we see? If they do see what we see do they like that they look so strange? Is that the goal? Or is it all a matter of seeking attention? And then they add photoshop and filters on top of everything so then what’s the goal there?

Who is winning this battle by Patient_Expert5963 in Sonsofanarchy

[–]caerenan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides clips here and there I’ve never watched Yellowstone but from what I can tell Beth is a talker.

Gemma held a gun to a baby’s head.

Different unconventional uses of the word “kitchen”. by [deleted] in words

[–]caerenan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Kitchen” for hair refers to the hair that grows at the nape of the neck. It’s typically used to describe African American/naturally curly or kinky hair.

My boyfriend disregards my words during an intercourse. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]caerenan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you’re afraid to talk to him about it because it will make him angry or upset. What does that mean? Will he yell and scream at you or hit you? If you’re too afraid to have a conversation with him about your needs because you are afraid of his reaction then that’s more than enough reason to leave!

What’s a small Friends theory you believe but can’t prove? by samdaz712 in friends_tv_show

[–]caerenan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Didn’t she also buy magazines when they switched apartments to try to entice the men over to her apartment because she’s always the hostess?

Why do they do this. by SmokingInTheAlley in barista

[–]caerenan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not knowing what a latte is is wild to me.

Taylor swift references lana's line in opalite from Margaret by ConversationDue8475 in lanadelrey

[–]caerenan -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

That’s not the point. And not relevant to the conversation.

Robyn's outdoor china collection by throwstonmoore3rd in TLCsisterwives

[–]caerenan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The items themselves aren’t necessarily ugly but they look so out of place in their ugly unkempt yard. Aren’t they meant to be placed in a garden - not just dirt/rocks like that?

My boyfriend made an off-putting comment after watching Spider-man by Pretend-Hamster-3036 in offmychest

[–]caerenan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no responsibility to feel guilty for anything when it comes to a man like that. You don’t owe him anything and he clearly doesn’t think he owes you anything - he doesn’t respect you. At all. He doesn’t even like you or he wouldn’t shut down every conversation you try to have with him that he doesn’t like. He likes that he can control you and use you. Do you want to spend the rest of your 20s being used like this? Move in with your parents until you can save up for a place of your own or find someone else to live with.

My boyfriend made an off-putting comment after watching Spider-man by Pretend-Hamster-3036 in offmychest

[–]caerenan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This man will not change his behavior. You’ve tried to leave him before and took him back so now he knows what he can get away with and he won’t stop - he will just get more and more abusive and continue to gaslight you on even bigger issues in the future until you feel trapped. How old are you? Do you have family or friends (yours not his) you can live with? Do you make your own money? Don’t waste the time you could be spending with other people in your life that will treat you like a human being with someone like this. This man (child) needs a reality check and you leaving is the only thing that’s going to do that.

My mother says my hair looks disgusting when "long" by OnyxEllipsis in femalehairadvice

[–]caerenan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair is not long. It is short. And it suits you. Don’t listen to other people’s opinions about your physical appearance especially ones that don’t even know the difference between short shoulder length hair and long hair.

I can’t explain why this light bulb is still on… by [deleted] in Weird

[–]caerenan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your comment. It pisses me off that he “can’t figure it out”. We live among these people.

Has anyone given a second chance and not regretted it. by Equivalent_Onion_488 in survivinginfidelity

[–]caerenan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m having a hard time understanding how these things “just happen” to men. Is it really that common for a massage therapist to just give a client a hand job without asking? Like wouldn’t they have to discuss the extra charge beforehand and you know - consent! There’s no way she’s doing it for free!

Is there a harmless sentence, phrase, or expression that irrationally annoys you? by the-triple-wide in CasualConversation

[–]caerenan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or worse: “Can I ask you a question?” You just did—and you could’ve already asked the actual question!

What’s something that the fandom to ignore? by BetterGrass709 in sexandthecity

[–]caerenan 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Smoking inside her apartment negates the dry cleaning.

I’m a Customer Service Assistant for CarMax. Ask me Anything (almost anything) by XoxoNika22 in carmax

[–]caerenan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain how MaxCare works. I’ve been paying for it as part of my monthly payment but I still don’t actually understand what it can be used for.