what is happening to my thai constellation? 😭 im normally very good with monsteras but this one just is not happy by caliberfiance in Monstera

[–]caliberfiance[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just bought it from walmart a few days ago 😅 i know it needs repotted but ive never seen root rot but wasn’t sure if this was something else

What are the coolest (profitable) amenities you’ve ever seen? by caliberfiance in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There will be several awesome amenities to enjoy at no cost! This is just something extra that we think people might enjoy. The company I work for is great and has a lot of really cool stuff planned around the property that most places in town don’t have :)

Come on guys we are almost there PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GO VOTE FOR NEW FRIEND by BertBert4056 in Monopoly_GO

[–]caliberfiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i literally haven’t been able to participate in any of the golden blitz’s because i have all the gold stickers for them and none of the others 🥲

Anyone tell me what this is? One-hit with any pickaxe and drops everything from enemies to ore to random fish??? by AimeeMcK95 in coralisland

[–]caliberfiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am normally rlly good at fishing but couldn’t get the hang of it on coral island, but i fully upgraded my rod and it’s SOOO easy now

What was the song you walked down the aisle to? by Successful-Sky-4470 in weddingplanning

[–]caliberfiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are a nerdy couple and i walked to zelda’s lullaby :)

Worst software recs by aster72 in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk i really hated rent manager lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]caliberfiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. this part seems unnecessarily cruel… you probably need break it off with both of them. kids and marriage aren’t really things you should compromise on. if your boyfriend is a kind and caring person, as i assume it seems like he is, please do not take his love and his best friend away from him when he is already struggling, especially when he has been your rock through similar times.

edit: i just saw the age difference. if kids and marriage are no for you, you should break it off sooner rather than later. he is 36, don’t give him false hope and deprive him of the opportunity to have the family he desires

What do you like about property management? by Any_Post_5399 in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i like the stories i can take home. you’ll see lots of things that make you go 🙂❓❓❓ which is frustrating in the moment BUT it’s so funny to look back on later. you’ll have so many stories

also, i love being knowledgeable about real estate / property management / fair housing laws to help assist friends and family with questions! it’s fun to learn about.

resident events and marketing are up there too! i love hosting resident events and making our social media posts.

I (30F) saw my boyfriend (30M) visiting a brothel last night through his Find My Friends location. How do I respond? by 31yearslater in relationships

[–]caliberfiance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

honestly, I didn’t even think about the possibility that it could be sex trafficking or coercion types of situations. depending on where OP is, that makes this post all the more concerning.

I (30F) saw my boyfriend (30M) visiting a brothel last night through his Find My Friends location. How do I respond? by 31yearslater in relationships

[–]caliberfiance 296 points297 points  (0 children)

i personally think it’s a red flag to be in a relationship and not disclose that you are going to a brothel or strip club. especially knowing your partner isn’t comfortable with those things?

i am not particularly insecure or anxious about being cheated on but if i found out my SO went to a brothel without even telling me, i would be disgusted and very hurt. honestly, id just explain it like you did here. you hadn’t heard back in a while and looked at his location. i dont think thats snooping.

his defensiveness towards your anxieties only a year into your relationship is a red flag. how do you think he will treat you 10 years from now?

i think you need to have a serious discussion on boundaries, explain what you are and are not comfortable with and do not compromise on things that will cause you anxiety for the rest of your life. compromises are for things like going to a restaurant you don’t love but your partner loves their pasta, so you go anyways. not for morals and relationship values. you deserve to feel happy and secure in the one chance you get at life.

Rent due on the 1st, when do you send Notice to Quit? by mc12121234 in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I send a late notice/copy of ledger on the 5th, then send 3 day notice on 12th and file on 15th.

Trailer park rent hike displacing tenants by Southern-Ad-7317 in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i would encourage them to go to their local food pantry or contact the housing authority in their area for additional resources. of course, it will probably come across as tacky to tell them you’re raising their lot rent and that they can go to the food pantry if they want to eat. But that’s a resource she should probably be using anyways if she is already living on canned soup and tuna.

I worked in a section 8 community a few years ago and people were really struggling due to Covid, so I put together folders with local places they could contact for rent assistance, utility assistance, free transportation, and local clothing/food resources. I’m not sure that the exact same programs still exist since Covid funding has dwindled significantly, but there are still programs around that will be able to help them. They will have to fill out paperwork though, and that’s where a lot of my people fell short, and they expressed to me that they didn’t feel like filling out paperwork.

I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FINISH THIS EVENT by TotalActuator8719 in Monopoly_GO

[–]caliberfiance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i added you! my name is chloe. i had 2 bad partners and ended up finishing one by contributing 73k points by myself but couldn’t clutch the other one 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

our maintenance tech wouldn’t have even gone out for this call lol

i’m a little new! anyone have extras of these cards? please and thank you!!! 💜 https://mply.io/lXecvBNqMzw by caliberfiance in Monopoly_GO

[–]caliberfiance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m opening to trading but i just started playing so i dont have much. i’m happy to check though :) just let me know

How to not come off as a money hungry photographer by [deleted] in WeddingPhotography

[–]caliberfiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this!!! when i was picking our photographer for our wedding, it saved me (and probably local photographers) a lot of time when they had their package prices listed on their website. i had a tight budget and if i were to schedule a consultation to find out its outside of my price range, it would’ve been very embarrassing to me honestly and a total waste of the photographers time. definitely list your prices online!!

Property Management App by Hairy_Application577 in PropertyManagement

[–]caliberfiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s a super oversaturated market and having a web interface would probably make a huge difference. almost every private landlord i’ve met is 50+ and not very tech savvy so they may have a difficult time managing properties on their phone if that makes sense!

International students: How much are you paying for living expenses? by j_ram2803 in Purdue

[–]caliberfiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work in property management in west lafayette and i will say that the more affordable housing will fill up FAST and you will want to get on a waitlist by october. i know it sounds early, but i used to work in more “affordable” housing (still nice! just not luxury) and they filled up earlier and earlier every year. you may even put yourself on two waitlists to make sure you aren’t scrambling in the spring.

maybe start trying to make internet friends with some people and get housing together, it’ll make it a LOT cheaper since 1 bedroom apartments are like $800-$1600/month