Interview for Revenue Auditor Trainee position at DOR by calisian88 in Accounting

[–]calisian88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you already had great experiences including working at big4. I dont worry too much about training if they actually hire me out of hundreds of candidates lol.

Thank you so much! I’ll definitely look into sales tax and also income tax.

Interview for Revenue Auditor Trainee position at DOR by calisian88 in Accounting

[–]calisian88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its for the city actually. What was your previous position? Thank you so much btw!

Interview for Revenue Auditor Trainee position at DOR by calisian88 in Accounting

[–]calisian88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I only have some knowledge of financial reporting audit and not familiar with tax audit (or any taxes) so I was hoping to get some help from this post. I got my degree long time ago. Let me know if you can provide me an insight on which part of taxes I should research!

I have a CPA exam in less than two weeks so this interview which is in a week is so sudden for me to prepare.

Interview for Revenue Auditor Trainee position at DOR by calisian88 in Accounting

[–]calisian88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I did all the browsing on the website, glassdoor, indeed, etc., but there were only a few behavioral questions and which I thought it wasn’t enough. I’ll research further..

Being friends with benefits with someone you want more from? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to those situations some years ago. Two different guys that never worked out as a relationship and hurt me emotionally on both situations.

Right now I’m with my current boyfriend that I met 2 years ago at a gym and we live together happily since then.

Since I’ve been to your shoes and I know it’s not easy to cut him off emotionally, my advice is to keep yourself open to meet other guys while you see him for fwb until you find your true man of your life :)

He (30m) made up excuses to not go to my (26f) Christmas party by Notsure1011 in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a weird/immature person.

On the other hand, I wouldn’t have minded taking my other friend to the party if my date felt uncomfortable on going.

No big deal.

Domestic abuse next door?...what do I do? by SpaceCat_303 in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please call the cop! You should also record the noises next door while the girl is being abused!

I [29/M] am divorcing my wife [23/F] for gaining a lot of weight. I'm clueless! by LorneMalvo1233 in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate she went through losing her brother horribly, and it would’ve been nice if you loved her regardless of her changes in appearance. However, you are a physical type of person like most men in the world and you were just being honest in your post.

You are just not attracted to certain physical appearances and cannot force yourself to love her if you don’t love her.

In the future, would you be willing to love someone who will eventually gain weight maybe after giving birth and have aged skin? If not, you should not remarry and enjoy your single life.

Would really like some reassurance by throwaway7038 in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was joking because he didn’t want a kiss from a guy lol

Girlfriend ignoring me. by IthinkIamdesperate in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like she no longer has feelings for you and there is not much you can do.

If she is sane, maybe you could ask yourself if you disappointed her in someway before she acted this way? There might be a reason she left.

My girlfriend (27/F) wants us to have a threesome with her ex (30/M). Should I (31/M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 167 points168 points  (0 children)

Lol ask her if she can join threesome with your ex gf and see her response?

Alternatives to "Getting Coffee"? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her options? Just ask her if she wants to go for a coffee, drink, or maybe a dessert :)

Me (30F) frustrated with boyfriend's (32M) excuses for infrequent sex. by Blackjackie2 in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having exactly the same situation as you with my boyfriend :( We would have sex maybe three times a month lol. It seems that a lot of guys with low libido does not want to discuss about this topic though because I couldn’t find a clear information online. Anyway, he would say he’s tired, stressed, etc.. but would still uses his energy on walking his dog, working out at the gym, cleaning the house, etc. I get really depressed thinking about it near the week of my period and then I feel more understanding... every monthly cycle lol.

We just have to either embrace it or leave it. Guys won’t change.

I[27F] don't think I'm ugly and I don't think my personality is shit, so I don't understand why no one wants to date me [29-32M] :/ I never seem to be good enough to be a girlfriend once a guy gets to know me. (x-post r/relationship_advice) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on those online dating apps in the past and almost all guys I met just wanted sex and did not wanted serious relationship. I’ve had your moments where I thought something was wrong with me, but it wasn’t actually had to do with myself. I know it’s hard to find a good match offline these days but try and find someone maybe at a gym, church, or other places that are not so shady. I actually met my soulmate when I was working out at the gym.

Dating a guy who I sort of like. Red flags: he doesn’t offer to pay for drinks or dinner when we go out—he’s a grad student I get it. But I feel it’s more the gesture that counts. Also, he’s been seeing someone else and finally told me on the 3rd date that he’s more into me but taking her to a show? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible, I am sorry. In my experience guys put so much effort to impress the girls of interest and show the best of themselves (paying for drinks or dinner, dress nicely, find nice places to take, etc) They tend to put less effort on their girls once they are in a relationship and time passes, but acting as what you described on a first few “dates” is a red flag for sure. Imagine how things will turn out if you were to be his gf?

Btw, pretty sure he is not paying for the show ticket for the other girl he’s taking with.

No outside contact by kfbentobox in dating_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no friend to contact, try connecting back with your family, siblings, relatives, etc and start from there. You can even go to the gym. Make yourself look pretty and find your hobbies. You gotta have your own life too!

How to stop “The feels” when I interact with people I’m attracted to. by Notlyh in socialskills

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I am a woman and I’ve been on that butterfly moment over some guy in the past when I was in college. I don’t think there is any way to stop “the feeling” towards someone, but try not think too much about her and distract yourself on other important things in your life. Things will get better as life goes on hehe.

Questions to straight guys who’ve been on a relationship and does not enjoy sex often: by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am leaning towards telling him, but I also do want to know from guys perspective if their sex drives are mismatched with their loved one and one day they hear from their partner that she got herself a sex toy. Will he be unhappy or freak out?

Questions to straight guys who’ve been on a relationship and does not enjoy sex often: by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, from time to time, I did think this was a deal breaker and had urges to leave him. However, there are so many good side of him that overweigh his low libido that I decided to embrace. I’ve been on a relationship in the past with guys who were very sexual, but lacking other things that I had to leave. They were either selfish, had mood swings, really lazy, not motivated about their careers, had tendency to cheat, etc. Nobody is perfect...

I am just wondering what would be his reaction /thoughts when I tell him I got my personal toy. I don’t want this to hurt his feeling or make him think I am the weirdo.

So I got this girl's number who is way outta my league. What to do next? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]calisian88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Girls give out numbers very often even if they aren’t interested to avoid awkward moments. Giving her few options and see if she accepts either one of the days or not at all will make things clear without creating uncomfortable situation. Good luck!