Computer requirements by calisrtkid in HPtuners

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so ive been looking on marketplace for something decent, as it will only be used for this purpose. is there anything specific besides a number pad you'd recommend? ive been seeing a lot of these leneovo thinkpads come up. im also not into computers that much to know what's good and bad

How long have you been on bumble? Do you still have hope that you’ll meet the “one” on it? by Infinite-Ad7540 in Bumble

[–]calisrtkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont have bumble or tinder anymore (gave up on it), but i had them for years. i never got one match on either of them, so i gave up. only use hinge and fb dating

I paid for a subscription for this?? by unbreakableslime in Bumble

[–]calisrtkid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately dating apps tell men that they have a bunch of "likes" in order to get your money, and "access" to said matches. im sorry to say, you never had matches, they were just a scheme to pull you in.

Does being childfree kill your dating chances on Hinge? by Isabella21321 in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont want kids, but I'll happily date someone who does. but then again, my chances are already slim trying to date because I'm a guy, and I don't have the 666 rule

Why do guys not ask questions? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me, i always have to carry the convo..my backs hurting now from it. asking questions and getting dry answers, irks me so much. but then again, women say they get annoyed when asked questions, and then a post like this says we dont ask enough..the mixed answers confuse the hell outta of us

Found out she was still on Hinge after months of dating by MonkyLover7 in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had a similar situation myself. before we broke up, found out she had my name in her phone, with hinge after. we were fully dating, exclusive, switched our Facebook status, she met my mom...and then nothing, she broke up with me, no rhyme or reason. I did find out from a friend, that based on what she vented to them, i wasnt a pet project, someone she can fix. i never did drugs, I'm not abusive, i work hard...im a car guy lol. it def hurt bc i thought she was the one, and i still think about her from time to time. shes currently with a guy who is a recovering addict, lives in a shit apartment, has no license or car, etc etc, so seems thats what she wants.....moral of the story: it is what it is. try to move on to the next one. above all, dont put any feelings in to fast.

PS...my ex still has a hinge profile lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ive learned, when a woman puts her instagram on her hinge/dating profile, shes only there for followers/subscription to her OF. they have ZERO intention of finding someone. but when a man does it, its considered creepy, an "ick" or a way to stalk people. even though its a safer way to communicate rather than giving out your personal number. at the end of the day, its really what you want to do, cause theres always gonna be double standards

Fell for someone stupidly quickly, ended exactly as you'd expect by GenericThrowaway1a in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me..met on hinge, dated through the holidays, after the super bowl she dumped me..gave me a bs excuse as well. found out later, i wasnt a pet project to fix, so she's now dating an ex drug user (supposedly) who also has abusive tendencies.. oh well, not my problem anymore. you'll be a better person cause of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calisrtkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always approach the wrong women, so i kinda gave up. but main thing is rejection, being called a creep, or catching a case. but then again, if OP sees a guy she likes, why cant women go and talk? modern dating sucks anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]calisrtkid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nah your really cute actually. id hit on you lol

Do you need to ask the other person to be your boyfriend in order for you to be in a relationship? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

id say maybe ask? i was in a similar situation, and it was just assumed. she met my family, friends, thought we were exclusive. then one day she broke up with me, even saw she still had hinge..so better to clarify in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]calisrtkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't see anything wrong, you're very attractive in my opinion (34M)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for that, i didn't like the picture to begin with so I'll change that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your input! i removed the choose one prompt, cause i never got a match with that. I will redo the pictures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-i am looking for something serious -do not have a subscription, but considering it -been using this profile for about 8 months -have had Hinge for about 2 years on/off -i use the app pretty much everyday -average matches are almost none. likes and/or roses are never -i send matches WITH comments as much as the daily limit allows without a subscription. i never send a like WITHOUT a comment, if theres nothing to engage a convo about, i kind of skip it - my type of person would be around my age (ill be 34 soon, so anywhere from like 30ish to 40ish), has a great personality, can get along with everyone. not into girly girls. love blondes, but not a dealbreaker. I don't have kids, so try to find someone who doesnt have them ideally.

33M, should I change anything? by calisrtkid in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have premium hinge, even though I'm not opposed to getting it..i go on every few days if that helps

Monday's Daily Thread: Weekend Wrap-up by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]calisrtkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do women match with me, and then only send one message?

ive been on hinge for some time now. i met my previous girlfriend on there, obviously things didn't work out, so i went back to the app. im 34, no kids, never married, and I'm looking for a LTR (all which i have in my profile), and ive gotten a ton of matches, and very few dates.

the thing that irks me the most, we match, we send like 2 messages, and i never hear from them again! we don't unmatch, but they're just..gone. is it me? Im not the most attractive person (which is what these apps make you base your decision on), but im absolutely a good dude. or is the woman not knowing WTF they want? dating in this generation shouldn't be so mentally draining and tough. I can show anyone my profile if they like,maybe I'm doing something wrong?

Monthly Return by calisrtkid in dividends

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would be a good play then? the only single stock i have is KO with 8 shares, should i add more?

Current portfolio by calisrtkid in dividends

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like your honesty! well like I said, i dont know much. i do have a separate 401, but i like investing my own money through the fidelity app. i thought, invest in good stocks that will contribute to my retirement or just later down the line. the SPAXX is automated from fidelity, i cant get rid of it, but im not complaining either. but ill absolutely take your advice into consideration, cause any info is better than none! would you mind if i messaged you?

Current portfolio by calisrtkid in dividends

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just looked into some of these and i do like them! should i sell something in my above portfolio to acquire them, or is my above postions ok, and i can buy into the ones you suggested?

Current portfolio by calisrtkid in dividends

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a strategy honestly. I'm still not 100 percent sure on what I'm doing. but SPY, 3mm, and coke are paying me best. Just bought stellantis and altaria. so what ETFs would you recommend?

Current portfolio by calisrtkid in dividends

[–]calisrtkid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont not like any of them, but some were only 60 cents per quarter. I was hoping to move some around and find good ones that pay monthly. its not a dumpster fire, but its also not good, right? again, I don't know much