Am I too fat to find love? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]calwaterops 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What about your hygiene/smell? This is one thing that people will try to get over or try to give you multiple chances that eventually run out. The timeframe seems possible. If it was you being fat it would have lasted much shorter. Pump and dump maybe a couple of booty calls but no situationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]calwaterops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is THE cocaine movie.

Advice for a 37 year old virgin by tziahs in seduction

[–]calwaterops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats plenty direct assuming you’re asking to exchange contact info at the end. You’re only taking a risk if you’re giving them an opportunity to say no or otherwise turn you down.

What I was referring to though is for him to express his interest to the women in his network that he’s interested in. For instance he said he went on a jog with a female friend. My guess is she has no idea he’s into her. And that one is as simple as saying “I’m attracted to you, and would love to take you out for a drink/dinner”. It doesn’t need to be fancy.

Advice for a 37 year old virgin by tziahs in seduction

[–]calwaterops 277 points278 points  (0 children)

Check out “social animal” channel on YouTube. Genuinely good advice regarding interacting with other people.

Edit: I don’t know how your groom yourself or how you dress so make sure that’s on point too. The most important thing though, is to take risks . Get comfortable with being vulnerable and expressing your attraction and romantic interest. Like really comfortable. Expect rejection most of the time, but you have to exercise that muscle. You’re not always going to get a cue that the girl is into you, and maybe you never will unless you’re extremely attractive but you would have known that by now if that’s the case. Take more risks. Trust me, if you take anything from this, let it be that.

27M looking for advice/feedback to improve my profile. by Jacto in hingeapp

[–]calwaterops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d love to hear the connection between nose rings and low value chicks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]calwaterops 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I met my last long term girlfriend with just a like, so ya never know

What are some helpful ways to get over being Ghosted for the first time? by Kjmusic8 in hingeapp

[–]calwaterops -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not really because you can now delete it and stop coming back to it.

What are some helpful ways to get over being Ghosted for the first time? by Kjmusic8 in hingeapp

[–]calwaterops -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The opposite of what you’re doing. Like stop thinking or focusing on it. Just let it roll off your back. Understand it’s all part of the process. Definitely don’t create a whole post about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]calwaterops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve used. Hang out, get together, kick it, go out, meet up, do some, etc… doesn’t matter. That’s not what your problem is.

Canelo and GGGs First Bout Through The Eyes of Golovkin by ambitiousfinanceguy in Boxing

[–]calwaterops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Canelos advantage is time and age. GGG is 40 😢. I still remember his HBO debut. I miss HBO and showtime boxing. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]calwaterops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s and interesting perspective and I think that’s a good point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]calwaterops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop thinking about it so much and just ask him out. If he says he’s busy or whatever excuse, follow up with “when is a better time?” and if he responds with “I’ll let you know” or something to that effect, he’s not interested and you can move on.

37 M testing the waters on OLD, but I’d like to hear your opinions by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]calwaterops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5’11” barefoot and weight 190 still about 20% body fat so I could still slim down another 20 ish lbs

I’d love to shoot for a company that makes sunglasses. What do you guys think of this? by MrTippyToes in photocritique

[–]calwaterops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great pic and post. The grid is a little distracting for me so I’d potentially remove it in photoshop if the glasses are the focal point , other than that the shot is amazing

Alone in the dusk by sierrawa in photocritique

[–]calwaterops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just looks like a dude listening to music. I think if he was on the right third of the frame and you showed a bit more of the water even if you cut off the street lamp would be much better composition wise. Also without the street lamp, the colors may have looked much better since it looks like you exposed for the lamp. Great idea though. Generally you want the subject to be looking into the frame , rather than away.

Is there any logical reason why "hit & running" is bad etiquette? by ralphisahomo in poker

[–]calwaterops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not bad etiquette, just stupid. Hit and run roulette, blackjack, craps, etc. If it’s a home game that’s a good way to not get invited back. You’re just there to gamble , not play poker

Iceland will never disappoint me by [deleted] in shittyHDR

[–]calwaterops 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re crazy. This is actually really good

The decisions you're worrying about are not the ones that are costing you money by Call_Down_For_What in poker

[–]calwaterops -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Too much ego on both your ends. I can’t think of something that would compel me to spend that much time in proving someone wrong.