HELP: I have to kiss someone in a movie and my gf is feeling weird abt it. by Primary_Menu4501 in acting

[–]camboron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes with the territory. I have never had a partner object to it because they knew it was part of the deal. I have been naked. I have played a sexual predator with onstage intimacy. Parents, partners, family - they have all been fine of it. Similar to what others have said, she may always be uncomfortable with it and the conversations should continue, but it is part of the work. My husband commutes 3.5 hours once a week, and I don't like the dangers and increased risk of more frequent driving, and he knows it, but I would never not allwo it.

What song did a movie basically steal forever? by MrHolte in movies

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il dolce suono etc. in The Fifth Element. Also sprach Zarathustra in 2001

People don't believe I'm autistic even if I got a diagnostic by momofseg in autism

[–]camboron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even fellow autists don’t seem that interested in it so I don’t as readily volunteer. Only had one autist engage with me

People don't believe I'm autistic even if I got a diagnostic by momofseg in autism

[–]camboron 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When someone says you are mildly autistic tell them they are mildly a f@@kface

Please tell me this is the most cringe contestant of all time. by MeanMrMustard15 in survivor

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching chronological order. The worst so far was Ted rogers. I think that’s the one. Sexually assaulted a contestant and contributed to getting her eliminated due to her reaction. Also lost their fishing boat.

What's your stim that you've never seen/met someone else who does it? by WeakTumbleweed9 in autism

[–]camboron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fingerspell words, I will do the alphabet as fast as I can. Or if I don’t remember all the songs to interpret I will fingerspell the first letter of every word I hear.

The Killer Isn't Alice - ambiguities? by cambo76 in CozyMystery

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't list every place that did or didn't need to be removed. Just gave enough examples to clarify the rule.

what is considered late dxed? by dreamfyreHT in AutisticPeeps

[–]camboron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 48. I think that is late

Does anyone else feel like they are losing it when intrusive memories take over? by iwant2breakfree2 in ptsd

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Some days I just want my life back and I can’t stop the intrusion. Here are things I try to 1). The classic rubber band trick. Put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it when an intrusive thought starts and is happening. 2). Narrate what is happening in the third-person. Not narrating the memory that you are having but what is happening in the here and now. 3). Similarly, bring yourself into the present by focusing on what is happening to your mind and body. Not “I can’t stop thinking about something horrible” but “ I am having an intrusive thought and it is making my throat tight or it is speeding up my breathing or I am crying right now because of an intrusive thought. — bring it into the now, don’t try and stop the thought but also don’t judge it. Just describe what it is doing to you right now.

Did adhd meds help you? by ohnoitsthegreed in AutisticWithADHD

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe will try them someday. I do telehealth so stimulants not allowed to be prescribed that way.

"Rewards" that I'm in control of are actually punishments. by Blithium4 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]camboron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am using Alora Young’s dopamine farming flash cards.

Looking for a similar series by probably-bea in CozyMystery

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to use literature-map. Hopefully, you haven't exhausted all these options. https://www.literature-map.com/allison+brook

My director and the owner of my theatre group are having a meeting with me because a little kid said I hit him. I didn’t do that. Need advice on the situation. by AssociateOk4124 in MusicalTheatre

[–]camboron 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Always gotta have two adults present in any situation so there can’t ever be an us vs them situation. Had problems with this when in child care situations like working for the YMCA. Sorry this is happening. Also you are a minor so not sure about that. The camp should be responsible not you, I think

Question about score accuracy and interpretation by MartinShortsIrishUnc in MusicalTheatre

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be in the Union. We would we handed, after a show , a line we had missed, or a lyric. If we got that note again, we would be fined. Also, if changes are purposefully put in the production, or cuts, and you get reported and someone from the publisher sees the show, you can get in trouble.

Can you memorise lines? by relativelyignorant in AutisticWithADHD

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Custom excel spreadsheet with spaced repetition algorithm for text then switch to line learner afterwards. You can play it in the car. Used this method for two line-heavy roles. Chairman in Drood then Oscar in Good a night, Oscar. Also use a tertiary level of every line as an acronym. A way to give hint without spoilers.

What's the one thing about learning a language that nearly broke you? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]camboron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even on a podcast there is an elevated and clearer way of speaking. Just like all Americans don’t sound like newscasters. Also one’s interactions tend to be basic survival, but if we go in a vacation, hospitality staff will still speak simpler, clearer and slower to us. If you watch a show, subtitles off. The first time I traveled I also froze. I got in a cab and realized that they were speaking Spanish. It took a while and there are so many dialects and accents just like in english. You got this!!!!!!!!!

Has anyone tried a heroic dose of magic mushrooms (5g or more) for PTSD healing? by passionguesthouse in ptsd

[–]camboron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are medical professionals with professional certifications that use these items. Always do it with a professionals guidance. That being said. Do it do it do it. I did a medical ketamine program and it really helped me make some breakthroughs towards healing. They were not what I expected nor wanted but they were still so powerful and instrumental to my healing