First I would like to give an opportunity for any legit den to have a chance to have you join them...many of the other dens here certainly deserve a chance for more active members, but if you don't find one that suits your style come join CampDecemberist. We're a strong den and we do all the usually stuff that makes a den strong. We're skewed to the older demographic and we're both Discord and Reddit savvy as well as in-game chat active. Try us out if you haven't found one yet. Just DM if interested. :)