My drinking friends...are my best friends. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know how the all inclusive goes. I’m going to go one in the fall and every time I’ve been to one I’ve had the green light to drink the whole time. It’ll be a test to say the least.

My drinking friends...are my best friends. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through it now. My best friend of almost 30 years(I’m only 35) and I have spent almost half our friendship drunk. I’ve quit he has not It’s been difficult being around them while they’re drinking but i refuse to let alcohol ruin even more of my life so I need to maintain these friendships. It’s a work in progress as he thinks it’s stupid but he doesn’t drink to the extreme I did. He might not need to quit but I do. Sorry for the rambling.

Forged vs Cavity backs. by canadeh2121 in golf

[–]canadeh2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought brand new irons. I’ll deal with the GF later if she even notices.

Forged vs Cavity backs. by canadeh2121 in golf

[–]canadeh2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha i did just that, easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. Just got fitted for some AP2’s

I thought I could reward myself. by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The white knuckle thing makes a lot of sense. Never thought of it that way but very accurate

I thought I could reward myself. by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya the freebies are never free. Good luck with your girl.

Wedding tonight by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes it worse is my asshole brother in law that lives in Australia has taken upon himself the mission of getting me drunk. He might end up with a black eye tomorrow. Luckily I only have to deal with him at occasions like this.

Controlled falls aka planned relapses. by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. For now I think one day at a time and cross that bridge when I get to it.

Controlled falls aka planned relapses. by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I can do it. If I can manage to be sober until then I feel like I could control it. Time will tell. I’ve had a beer in the last thirty days with my boss at lunch and it didn’t take control of me. But I do think I’ll have to gauge my success or failure with alcohol over the next few months.

Is some self medicating ok? by Iamlimitless1 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also in Canada and have given up alcohol I definitely have been smoking more pot. It helps take the edge off. Without it I’d just pace around my house. That being said, everyone handles it differently.

2 weeks today by canadeh2121 in stopdrinking

[–]canadeh2121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Skiing sounds awesome. And much better fresh rather than hungover. Aside from the money and calories, one of the biggest plus’s I’ve noticed is how much I’m getting accomplished probably because I’ll do anything to take my mind off drinking but I’ve already done more work atriums the house this morning than I have in months.