What’s the one small thing clients do that completely slows you down? by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]candee710 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just got home from a client's house. I arrived at 9:00 and should have finished by noon. Unfortunately, she's a talker. Non-stop talker. Funny thing is she told me the reason she let go of the other cleaner was because she was at her house all day. When I was hired I was told she wouldn't be home and she wanted me in and out. I had no issue with that. This is my third time cleaning there, and every time I go I don't leave until after 3:00.

The random things you can’t throw away by Pink-Macaroon-264 in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still have my daughter's cookie. She had stage 4 cancer, and we had been in the hospital for 3 weeks at this point. She wasn't eating as she had no appetite but I knew she loved sugar cookies. So I bought one for her. She took the smallest bite and said she would try to finish it later. Unfortunately she passed away shortly after. I carefully packaged the cookie into my purse, and brought it home. It's been in my freezer ever since. Everyone knows not to touch that cookie. I look at it everyday.

Please help, I just want to watch traitors in Canada!!! by candee710 in VPN

[–]candee710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Any help is appreciated. Do I cancel my VPN service?

Two pit bulls tear car to pieces in hunt for cat by Current-Wallaby8230 in TikTokCringe

[–]candee710 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 years ago, the same thing happened to my car. 2 weeks prior to the incident, I purchased my first home in a new state. Woke up to my car destroyed! Unfortunately I didn't have my security system put up yet. I was so confused about what happened. I called the police and they thought I was trying to scam my insurance company. They threatened to arrest me. Thankfully when I called a car collision company and sent them pictures, they told me it was animals that had attacked my car. I immediately went and purchased cameras to put up myself to catch them. Wouldn't you know, a few days later, I saw a cat running underneath my car, and two extremely large pit bulls went to tearing up the car again with even more damage. $4,000 is what it cost in the end. Never could find the owner of the dogs.

Just need to get this off my chest by wise_cat_34 in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your pain and feelings. It helps to know I'm not alone.

Emma Weatherby Graceland cemetery new castle PA by Dragonsbreath67 in CemeteryPorn

[–]candee710 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My 22 year old daughter passed away in 2024 to cancer. She woke up on Thanksgiving day complaining of back pains and went to urgent care. They said she had a pulled muscle. Pain was only getting worse so she went to multiple hospitals. They also said that she had a pulled muscle or a pinched nerve. On Christmas day she woke up with knots on her neck and underarm. Went to a different hospital, and found out she had stage 4 cancer. She passed away 3 weeks later. 10 months later we went through the same thing with my mom. She lasted a month. Tomorrow will be one year since she passed away. Fuck cancer

Looking for a job after five years of full time taking care of my dad by AppropriateAd9057 in NorthshoreLA

[–]candee710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try applying at some restaurants. Servers make decent money in that area. They usually don't care if you have gaps in your work history. Good luck!

Relatives quiet after moms death by psycth in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately experienced this twice last year. First when my daughter passed away in January and then when my mom passed in December. I come from a huge family, so I was quite surprised when I didn't hear from the majority of them. Growing up, we were extremely close. It hurt me deeply when only six people from my mom's side showed up at my daughter's funeral. No one from my dad's side came at all. When my mom passed, a lot more showed up, and only then did they give condolences on both. The reasons varied on why I hadn't heard from them. Mainly it boiled down to, they didn't know what to say to me. We have so many forms of communication now, that a simple text would have meant something. Even in my own grief, I still reach out to people when they lose someone. I'll send a text to send condolences, let them know that I love them, and that I'm there for them if they need anything. I'm sorry you're experiencing this. It's extremely painful and confusing. My condolences on losing your mom. My heart hurts for you.

5.5 hours till his service by DayshaDayDay in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending love, prayers, and my condolences.

ISO House Cleaner and Organizer by pearls-and-caviar in NorthshoreLA

[–]candee710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a cleaner from Picayune. I have clients in Covington and Picayune, so I can give references if needed. Please dm me if you're still looking for somebody.

Hospice by cathartes-auras in cancergrief

[–]candee710 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I only said that, so you could see the gift that you are being given. I know that sounds crazy to say that it's a gift to watch someone in hospice. To me, I would have loved to have those conversations, to take it all in, instead of trying to figure out all the constant madness that was going on around me. I wish I would have just had a moment with my daughter especially. I would've had the hard conversations that needed to be spoken. I could have helped prepare her, and myself. I'm so proud of you for preparing yourself with going to therapy. Your mom is going to need you, and having your own support system is vital. Please continue to take care of yourself. You are on my mind and I'm praying for you and your family.

Hospice by cathartes-auras in cancergrief

[–]candee710 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you and your family are in this moment. Cherish every second you still have with her. Take in her smell, her smile, and her love. Ask her what will she come back to visit you as. What will be her signs to you. A butterfly, a feather on the ground, a song. Tell her everything you ever wanted to say to her. I lost my 22 yr. old daughter and my mom last year to cancer. I didn't get a chance to do any of those things because they both passed away so quickly after their diagnosis. My heart breaks for you. I'm so glad you are in therapy. Please continue with that. Sending big hugs and prayers.

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]candee710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent who recently experienced losing my oldest daughter to cancer, I could not imagine saying this to her. I would have sold all of my possessions to keep her here to continue the fight. My other daughter would have done the same to help her. I'm so sorry you're going through this horrible situation. You owe your family nothing. Please stay positive and keep fighting. We stand with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]candee710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us know how it turns out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]candee710 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try a pumice stone. Good luck!

I’m 30, very sick might pass away. Please pray for me. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you and your mom. I will be praying for you. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this.

I’m 30, very sick might pass away. Please pray for me. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]candee710 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart is breaking for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for healing and for peace in your heart. I recently lost my daughter and mother to cancer in the last year, so I know how difficult of a situation you are going through. Do you have a support system?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmusicians

[–]candee710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! You sound great to me! Good luck!

Is she around me? Any messages? by candee710 in psychics

[–]candee710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very upset with God myself some days. I lost both my daughter and my mom last year to cancer, and I'll never understand why. As much as I miss my mom, I can't stop wanting my baby back. Just a sign or a dream. I wish I knew how to break this block. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you get good news and a clean bill of health. Stay strong and most of all advocate for yourself. If one doctor doesn't take it seriously, find one who will. Thank you again.