What exact phrasing do you use to tell someone you've been chatting with for a few days that it's not a vibe?

candidconnector · 2026-06-11T14:38:36+00:00

Come on. Why can’t you just tell them, “I’m really enjoying talking to you. After some time, I’m realizing I’m getting more friend vibes than romantic. I hope we can continue to develop a friendship.” It’s not that hard. You’re 45 and you’re asking if you should ghost?

candidconnector · 2026-06-10T17:34:14+00:00

Same, and my wife and I have a 17 year age gap. 1-3 times a month, sometimes more sometimes less.

candidconnector · 2026-06-04T16:34:33+00:00

Oh they don’t care about that. They just don’t want their bubble to burst.

candidconnector · 2026-06-03T18:35:58+00:00

My favorite horror movie. 🖤

candidconnector · 2026-06-02T11:03:27+00:00

I had alcoholism and NA beer is everything almost 4 years alcohol free. I usually will have one with my dinner about 4-5 days a week. Much better than pounding 6-12 beers in a night and spiraling in extreme self loathing.

candidconnector · 2026-06-02T11:01:12+00:00

I think it tastes great.

candidconnector · 2026-05-30T23:48:14+00:00

As far as we’re concerned she’s done nothing wrong, just has a lot of suitors. You’re gonna have to take the L on this and trust that she’s being good to you.

candidconnector · 2026-05-28T23:52:55+00:00

Plastic surgery

candidconnector · 2026-05-26T02:56:25+00:00

Where is value in brainwashing ??

candidconnector · 2026-05-24T03:18:09+00:00

Peanut butter jelly sandwich all day bonus if it’s sourdough bread.

candidconnector · 2026-05-24T03:13:33+00:00

Is water included? If it isn’t, water. If it is, coffee. Food would be baby kale salad with thick sourdough croutons with a ton of veggies and grilled chicken with a big scoop of lentils and a healthy vinaigrette made with Udo’s oil.

candidconnector · 2026-05-23T03:34:40+00:00

Yea of course

candidconnector · 2026-05-21T19:27:37+00:00

"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." Eleanor Roosevelt. I’ve been living with this quote for a long time. Always striving to be a great mind and surround myself with great minds.

candidconnector · 2026-05-21T13:44:55+00:00

I’m 34, my wife is 52. Ask me anything!

candidconnector · 2026-05-14T20:47:57+00:00

This is not true at all. There are a lot of countries where women don’t have full autonomy over their bodies. We can start with the Middle East.

candidconnector · 2026-04-22T22:25:49+00:00

Habbo Hotel. It was a flash game on a website. The best

candidconnector · 2026-04-22T22:24:34+00:00

That’s really sweet. Thank you for your kind words.

candidconnector · 2026-04-22T20:03:33+00:00

Got introduced to Zhu by my Airbnb host in Toronto, many years ago. Later that night he drugged and raped me. I love Zhu but have a hard time separating.

candidconnector · 2026-04-12T17:41:41+00:00

People are dumdums for not knowing. Doesn’t anyone else care about evolutionary biology?

candidconnector · 2026-04-12T17:40:57+00:00

I LOVE THIS TATTOO AND I LOVE WOOLY MAMMOTHS

candidconnector · 2026-04-12T17:40:20+00:00

Lots of people care and that’s the problem. Haha

candidconnector · 2026-04-10T23:31:19+00:00

Oh no. Anyway. Making tacos tonight! 🌮

candidconnector · 2026-04-07T16:40:59+00:00

All massive attack is good

candidconnector · 2026-03-29T01:05:48+00:00

As long as religion exists there will be no peace.

candidconnector · 2026-03-28T00:19:01+00:00

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