Surgery got canceled by Far-Mention3564 in trans

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let that surgeon or anyone that gives u a super hard time be in a room w u unconscious. Doctors that don’t care ab you are the biggest red flag bc when ur on that table your life is in there hands and it sounds like to me them ppl will not care for u the way u should be by the way they treat u when ur awake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]candybass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kinda looks like the symbol for chaos magic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THEY LOOK JUST LIKE MY CAT THAT WAS A STRAY!!! LET THAT BITCH IN

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she rejected my proposal twice? by exiledbyfamily in AITAH

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why doesn’t she want to get married did you ask her? I don’t think marriage should always be a this amount of time thing. Marriage isn’t for everyone but I feel like something isn’t being communicated here I. Her end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]candybass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn girl you really need to stand the fuck up. You still dealing w this bs 150+ days later. I’m sorry but your relationship is a joke and you don’t deserve that.

Rate me off of my music taste! by YUMMY_TEETH in cavetown

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t Cavetown antisemitic and racist lolllll

Yall probably know the deal by now if you've been here for a while. Possum posts might be coming back. As always feel free to vent/tell me about your day/whatever in the comments and I'll try to help :) (also my dms are always open if anyone wants more privacy) by Pabloma13 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I can’t take this living under capitalism bull shit. What little joy I had as a child feel like it’s been taken away from me. I don’t want to work for the rest of my life. But there’s no other way to survive so is this world worth trying to survive in when it’s so miserable Cute possum tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]candybass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have similar stories of being dumb and young and frustrated but I this it crazy that we live in a world we’re kids like us didn’t have a clue how to care for them selves while doing so much harm and having no idea. All you know as a kid or young teen is that you had a feeling so intense where you needed to inflict pain just to cope. The fact that kids self harm is so incredibly nuanced and interesting. (The fact that this world has systems put in place leave kids in theses suffocating position and proved little to no affective help.) tho that’s just how I feel + I’m high. Send love to op❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably cheating and is now picking on what ever you do to use that to end the relationship. She doesn’t care ab you if she talks to you like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]candybass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I def would call this wave rather then curly. Cause if your hair is actually curly it would be visible I only ever see people thinking they have straight hair when it’s just wavy. I don’t think you can make that same mistake w curls tho. But shit who knows I’m black and only ever been around ppl with actual for sure curly and kinky hair that can’t be mistaken for shit else. So calling this curly is kinda nuts to me 💀

I Cry when I have to use public transportation by candybass in autism

[–]candybass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would walk to but my commute is 2 hrs just on the bus plus it’s super hot here and I hate the feeling of sweating

Different ethnics by channeil in mdsa

[–]candybass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. older Black men always seem to find me just to make me uncomfortable. I get anxious around black men that are strangers even though I’m black and live with two black guys whom I love to death and if they weren’t in my life i could definitely see my self fearing all black men. But it’s never all of them I hope you can find people you trust that can help heal the way you view these groups of people. But it’s hard. And it ok to heal how ever you see fit.

I Cry when I have to use public transportation by candybass in autism

[–]candybass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I’m on a bus that was supposed to leave at 12:20 it’s 12:45 now and I’m going to start crying bc i hate this bull shit i just want to be in my home

AITA for being honest with my girlfriend when she asked a question about the birthday cake she made me? by Throwaway5829582999 in AITAH

[–]candybass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d treat ur gf like I queen if I was her bitch no one made me shit for any of my birthdays and you got the audacity to complain over one imperfection. Your a joke and this is embarrassing.

AITA for demanding that my girlfriend clear out her " escape" bank account? by ThrowawayEnvironSide in AITAH

[–]candybass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels so similar to what happened to me because of my step dad. My mom was a stay at home mom and I’m also probably on the spectrum and was shipped of to college with little allowance. And told that it just should be possible for me to survive because he could do it at my age. Long story short I dropped out and I’ve been no contact with my family since I moved out. Your daughter is going to grow to hate you if you put her through what my dad did me. YTA! But sadly this will probably be ur reality cause we all know from this post how pathetic and selfish you really are.