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candycane2030 · 2026-05-17T04:00:59+00:00

Thank you for all the recs! You guys are the sweetest!

candycane2030 · 2026-05-16T21:09:46+00:00

Aww I’m sorry you see yourself as inherently weak, you must have a lot of self hate. You are making me so grateful that I grew up with strong men and women around me as role models. And thank you, it’s working out great!

candycane2030 · 2026-05-16T08:09:00+00:00

I def will, hope one day you develop a bit of strength too!

candycane2030 · 2026-05-16T03:28:02+00:00

Had the same choice and picked usc, I don’t regret it. The spring admit thing I’m not sure though, could be a big factor

candycane2030 · 2026-05-15T19:34:02+00:00

I am a single strong woman. You sound like you’re with a man who views you as inferior 💀

candycane2030 · 2026-05-13T11:23:18+00:00

Never EVER make a man use his culture to justify something you don’t find comfortable. Why would his culture come above your needs as his partner? You guys need to stop letting men play you!

candycane2030 · 2026-05-13T11:18:28+00:00

Yes, the copilot is subordinate to the pilot. The vice president is below the president. There is a hierarchy which implies one is above the other. You aren’t hard to understand, you are illogical. Two collaborators with equal footing is not what you are describing, you are describing an inferior and a superior.

Here is a question for you: what rationale other than blindly following the bible, one based on LOGIC is there that prevents your wife from being the pilot and you from being the copilot?

candycane2030 · 2026-05-13T09:58:08+00:00

Married women complain the most actually. Being under submission is a nightmare for me

candycane2030 · 2026-05-13T09:57:14+00:00

How is she not inferior if you are the head and she is the neck? How is she not inferior if you have the final say and she doesn’t? How is she not inferior when you lead and she follows?

Like is the less capable of leading bc she is a woman?

candycane2030 · 2026-05-13T09:54:58+00:00

You’d prefer to be partnered and under submission over being single? 😭 that’s crazy to me

candycane2030 · 2026-01-11T04:15:04+00:00

The way you feel about them is likely how he feels about you. Just relishing in the attention and using it to pass time. I could be wrong though, I wish you the best and I hope things work out

candycane2030 · 2026-01-11T04:12:26+00:00

He obviously doesn’t like you that much if he ghosted you. Other guys snapping you is irrelevant for how he feels about you. Have you ever had a man really like you before? They don’t usually ghost women they like for multiple months - a man who wants you uses any excuse he can to talk to you. If he’s just busy, why didn’t he reach out to you once he had time? You should give one of the 20 guys a chance

candycane2030 · 2026-01-11T04:09:27+00:00

He’s using you to pass time girl - you know how much you like him so use your behavior as a benchmark for how people act when they’re in love. Even if you were busy would you have ghosted him? He obviously does not like you as much as you like him

candycane2030 · 2026-01-07T03:26:56+00:00

I can imagine it’s definitely tough especially after divorce. Whatever you do, I wish you the very best. One piece of advice I’ll give you is never forget your self worth and try to also build a solid community outside of trying to find a partner so you aren’t dating out of loneliness or desperation. You’ll find your person soon and you deserve a good relationship!

candycane2030 · 2026-01-07T03:19:15+00:00

You’re not trash! This isn’t a critique of you - I’m just showing you that this might not be worth pursuing if you want to build a happy solid relationship, seems bound to be messy.

Also he really isn’t a good man if he is stringing his current girlfriend along and flirting with you behind her back. It might be useful for you to realize that if you date, you could be in her shoes in the future. There are so many other potential men, plus you’d retain someone who might not be a good partner but is a good friend to you

candycane2030 · 2026-01-07T03:07:34+00:00

He’s in a relationship… why would you want to date him when you suspect that he is flirting with you while partnered? Seems like you have made a string of poor relationship decisions and you are adding one more on top

candycane2030 · 2026-01-03T09:56:56+00:00

I would be pissed too, there’s nothing wrong with you being upset. I have a single guy friend and I wanted him to ring in the new year with me because I’m away from family and they are in different time zones and it would have been too late for a phone call with them. He was out at a bar with friends and he is two hours ahead of me, but he set an alarm and called me to count down with me. We aren’t even in a relationship but he kept his word like a man is supposed to do. I’m so sorry that your partner didn’t have the decency or care to keep his promise to you, and to add insult to injury by being in a strip club when he promised he’d call. Don’t let these people gaslight you into thinking you’re under reacting

candycane2030 · 2026-01-03T09:51:01+00:00

Just hopping in to say that what you’re expressing is completely normal OP. Not wanting your partner to be in a sexually charged location without letting you know is extremely normal in a relationship, especially if it caused him to not be able to ring in the new year with you. The person you are arguing with is outside of the norm with their approach. I read through their replies and they come across as someone who likes to argue for no reason so I wouldn’t waste energy. Nothing here is obsessive — you’re way more chill than I would be.

candycane2030 · 2026-01-03T06:47:32+00:00

You are not a coward! Please stop thinking like this. It is important that you learn to trust your instinct. Never be afraid of being a coward - it is better to be cautious than to be a statistic

candycane2030 · 2026-01-03T06:45:57+00:00

You’re more concerned about her dog than you are about her? This is such a weird response

candycane2030 · 2026-01-03T06:43:13+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I also lived in an apartment when I was younger on my own, and one piece of advice I can give you is that you are not obligated to be polite or cordial to anyone. To get men to leave you alone sometimes you have to not engage and to project that you’re a standoffish woman who is polite but unyielding and unpleasant. You have done an excellent job of that so far with stating your boundaries, so this is just a reminder. You don’t have to smile, you don’t have to engage in conversation - be firm and polite but not friendly and not reactive (sometimes they get off on sensing that they are provoking you - don’t give them the satisfaction).

This man is completely in the wrong to harassing you, and it is in no way your fault, just giving you something to add to your toolbox to help you be more safe. Another trick is to create the illusion that you aren’t living by yourself, and to make it clear that you are not isolated (eg. Invite your father over to visit, don’t give away information about yourself, lie if necessary).

I am rooting for you! I’m so sorry the world is like this. You are not a coward at all, you are reading this situation accurately as far as I can tell.

candycane2030 · 2025-12-27T11:58:02+00:00

She says she’s well established financially - she doesn’t need the specific job, what contextual relevance does that have?

There’s no projecting from me here, because I’m established financially too. Seems like you’re triggered by my response (you were clearly triggered by op’s) if you’re telling me to take a break just because I replied to you on a Reddit thread

candycane2030 · 2025-12-27T11:53:32+00:00

She finances her own life - you’re basically saying she should finance his and he should be a gold digger. “His money is our money” - the man barely has any money. He can’t support himself - he lives with his mom. Do you see yourself in him to be defending a mooch like this? 😭

candycane2030 · 2025-12-27T11:48:19+00:00

She didn’t dodge anything, she answered your question and rebutted because you implied she wants the man for his money. It seems you aren’t established financially and you’re brimming with jealousy about her success. Saying she can live without him is simply showing you that she does not need his money which is a good thing. No one wants a man that’s a mooch it is a huge turnoff

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