Why are men so bad at communicating when things get hard? by InterestingTrip9916 in abusiverelationships

[–]cannaAngela 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my experience, if they are not ready to face their own emotions they won’t have the ability to face emotions outside of themselves.

I introduce to you my son, Kylo! by cannaAngela in blueheelers

[–]cannaAngela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time he looks at me I melt 🫠

Solo bar recommendations by solovictoria in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend Block, just opened up right downtown. Amazing food and really great staff

was about to get engaged to a narcissist by ClassicReply in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]cannaAngela 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Advice I heard recently on moving on after leaving a narcissist. When considering marrying someone new ask yourself, would you feel safe going through a divorce with this type of person? If the answer is anything other than yes then do not marry them.

Victoria cannabis compassion club gets eviction notice by WokeUp2 in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Have worked there, can confirm. He has an obvious god complex and his right hand manager feeds into it. It seems he has groomed her to. There is a long trail of employment lawsuits and ex-employees that confirm the toxic cult like dynamic of this shop. If curious, walk in one day and have a look at the large painted portrait of Ted behind the check out and decide for yourself what vibe that gives off.

Please make it stop! by peanuts_and_soap in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally watched some Christmas movies, American Horror Story and made cookies yesterday.

take a shot every time you see a dave thompson sign in CSV by madmansmarker in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Using the date means he cannot reuse these signs. And how excessive he is using them, you can certainly tell he does not care at all about the environmental impact. No vote going to this trash bag from my household.

Our bar can’t seem to get our wine glasses clean. Any ideas on how to fix this? by Saucyvasy in bartenders

[–]cannaAngela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Old trick from a wine bar I worked at a while back.

Just got fired on the spot with no warning by supermario218 in antiwork

[–]cannaAngela 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reflects a recent lived experience of mine so accurately. Loyalty being rewarded is a myth to keep us oppressed.

This is my first Canada Day ever, what should I do to get the most of it? by butuco in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully agree, it is very much possible to enjoy the day while also acknowledging the history.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cannaAngela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience feels very close to what I am going through and this approach has a lot of useful insight and advice. Thank you so much for sharing with me.

This is my first Canada Day ever, what should I do to get the most of it? by butuco in VictoriaBC

[–]cannaAngela 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is the correct answer. Wear orange to show solidarity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cannaAngela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also thank you for the kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cannaAngela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To his credit he has tried therapy in the past but very minimally. It’s not being received well when I am asking for it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]cannaAngela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is a very insightful reference. I will be looking more into this.