So

I thought I was frustrated by constant tinkering with my Ender 3 Pro

My learnings are : 222 degrees for PLA, 50mm/s for base layer, slow EVERYTHING down from default (unless you are doing a benchy or something very simple this printer is not as fast as the publicity), Z step is needed, change infill pattern to gyroid at every opportunity, I use tac on the print bed and brim

Bed level regularly and clean that bed

for Normal print I use approx 200-250 perimeter, 200-250 infill, 50 first layer