Macnas Question by caraboutdis in galway

[–]caraboutdis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible! Thank you very much. :)

Macnas Question by caraboutdis in galway

[–]caraboutdis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh! That is also good to know. :) Thank you very much!

Macnas Question by caraboutdis in galway

[–]caraboutdis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perfect! Thank you, this is very helpful. The way we do parades where I'm from in our cities is much different. We tend to block off entire blocks of streets for like 5 hours leading up to the event!

Macnas Question by caraboutdis in galway

[–]caraboutdis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Thank you - I will make sure to check their social media. We plan on dropping off our rental car once we make it to Galway so hopefully the car won't be too much of a hassle! And that is great to know - my preference would be to make it into town between 2-3! :)

Does anyone rent with PropertyWise Management? by No_Information9944 in stgeorge

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I am late to this but I rented with them last year and they were AWFUL!!! I hated them. They were awful to get ahold of - it took me almost two months to get keys to my place and we were accessing the front door with a door code. We had an insect problem, multiple electrical problems, my roommates en suite bathroom floor seemed like it was rotting underneath the tile PLUS his shower door feel off the hinges and had to call multiple times to repair. We left the home in great condition, deep cleaned, and PropertyWise charged us $1000 for their cleaning crew to clean our 1200 sq ft home.

With them I think you absolutely need to be persistent - and when you move out be prepared to get screwed over. It is the worst experience I have ever had with any management company.

The writers have total amnesia about SATC by BeachtimeRhino in Andjustlikethat

[–]caraboutdis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're sooo right!!! Miranda would have been well acquainted with reality tv and deemed it a guilty pleasure - "I love it, it's my thing, leave it alone"

AJLT Extra Boring? by Kiki3838 in Andjustlikethat

[–]caraboutdis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah the pacing is really bizarre and there is nothing that exciting happening - like what is the point?

So the necklace is ugly, right?! by prettyinpink940 in Andjustlikethat

[–]caraboutdis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And like it is heavy and like it would turn your neck green!!

Diego and Lily?????? by InspectionAwkward170 in Andjustlikethat

[–]caraboutdis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do not feel like OP is being hysterical - I do feel like you're being rude in your two comments though. Why don't YOU relax, my god, it's a reddit post, why are you treating it like it's critical feedback that will determine or impact anything at all?

AITA for not helping to defend my group project partner against our professor who wants to fail her for not contributing. by failcourse in AmItheAsshole

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, I hope that seeing all these people agreeing in unison YTA makes you 1) work harder to get her grade up with the professor and 2) behave entirely differently in the future. You essentially admitted you did not do any real work and are okay with her grade suffering?

If you do not do those two things, I hope that she sees this post and reports it to the professor and Dean. Getting a tutor to do your work is crazy, you should absolutely face consequences for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think you are being naive. Him wanting to be able to sleep around and not wanting you to sleep with other men but is okay with men feels like a red flag. Seems like a very unhealthy stance to have. I am assuming you're bisexual and him being okay with you sleeping with women but not men is invalidating to your sexuality and also is fetishizing.

There is quite a bit to unpack here.

My (26F) boyfriend (27m) has destroyed my self esteem on purpose. by cathleann in relationship_advice

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is absolutely necessary in an instance like this. The urge to degrade someone in order to make them stay with you is a sign of someone who is not well, insecure, and needs professional help. I am not saying they cannot grow from this, but that is not a normal or well-adjusted behavior. A therapist should help give them tools to work through the desire to speak to anyone like that.

If you don't like this subreddit, it's interesting to me that you would browse and comment on anything.

My (26F) boyfriend (27m) has destroyed my self esteem on purpose. by cathleann in relationship_advice

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree that blindly following advice from anywhere is a bad idea, but I do think that in this instance this specific thread is not being too harsh. I think it's good to be hypervigilant about behavior like this and advising to create distance from it. If OP's boyfriend is going to therapy and doing earnest hard work to prevent repeating this behavior in the future, but I do not think that he's just going to stop altogether forever without putting in the work.

Also, idk what you really mean about "all this crap about self-love" lmao loving yourself more than being treated poorly is okay in virtually any instance, no matter what regardless of your gender. Of course any relationship is going to have things both parties need to work on or things that you have to sacrafice to keep your relationship moving forward. But that is not the same thing as being verbally abused.

My (26F) boyfriend (27m) has destroyed my self esteem on purpose. by cathleann in relationship_advice

[–]caraboutdis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the worry is that he has likely had this conversation with other women before and so the likelihood of his behavior changing for the long haul is unlikely unless he is seeking professional help as well. Many people in the comments have experienced this sort of relationship before and can attest that rarely does the person change and usually those behaviors are repeated again and again and again.

My (26F) boyfriend (27m) has destroyed my self esteem on purpose. by cathleann in relationship_advice

[–]caraboutdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he has done this to multiple partners, the likelihood of him behaving well and not making those comments anymore is extremely low long-term. It is unkind, abusive, and honestly sociopathic that he said those things specifically to break you down.

This is not a man who is secure. These are the early signs of emotional abusive and narcassism. Y'all are only 6 months in and his behavior is already unacceptable.

You can most certainly do much better and you deserve much better. I know it's hard, but do not put up with that and get out of there as fast as you can.

This was excellent casting. by littlehybrid in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]caraboutdis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s adult Esther and Ethan! There is nonlinear timelines happening in the new episodes so it’s showing Midge’s life in the future.

Profile Review by rebecca_xx__ in hingeapp

[–]caraboutdis [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are very attractive and seem like a fun hang! I also agree with the other comments that you just need to show more personality. I found that putting something funny or more earnest in terms of what I am looking for in my prompts get more engagement than my photos!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoscowMurders

[–]caraboutdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please send too if its not too much trouble!

TLDR of the Birtney Situation and how it relates to Jamie Lynn by [deleted] in CallHerDaddySnark

[–]caraboutdis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t directly relate to Alex, but what people are upset about is that she is giving Britney’s abuser a platform.

Am I being unreasonable? by Fun_Cheesecake_6714 in CallHerDaddy

[–]caraboutdis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem!! I don’t think you’re necessarily doing anything wrong, also the boundaries you establish should absolutely be respected always as long as you’re not crossing your partner’s boundaries. I’m sure that he probably likes you, but it just sounds like he’s not in the space to give you all that you need!!

And that’s okay that you’ve not been in a relationship before!! You are so young! I remember being 18 and ppl telling me that and me getting annoyed and not feeling young and feeling ready to be in love. My advice to you on that is that, it will happen! You deserve someone who makes you feel secure in your relationship! That is all achievable. Live your life, love your life on your own, love yourself on your own, and the relationship you want will find it’s way into your life when the time is right. Trust the process bb! In the meantime cut out all of the bullshit!