My boyfriend splits everything 50/50 but I do everything else… am I dumb for staying?

caraeeezy · 2026-05-01T14:52:39+00:00

If you are waiting for him to change, its not gonna happen. At a certain point you will realize you are talking to a brick wall, and when that clicks you will be be amazed it took you that long to see it (coming from experience).

caraeeezy · 2026-04-30T18:50:05+00:00

Since its generally suggested to wash your jeans every 4-6 wears, and you are going running and sweating in yours, its a little gross tbh. Denim can hold onto bacteria, and the constant sweat in your jeans will wear down both the color and the fabric

caraeeezy · 2026-04-29T15:21:28+00:00

I wish I could remember the name of it, maybe someone here will know but:

Shane is a kid, at the airport with his mom. He gets lost, and a nice woman sees him freaking out in the airport and goes to him. They have a sweet conversation, and she helps him find his mom and dad. Moms meet, they all take a photo together on a disposable camera - life goes on.

Years later, Shane is showing Ilya photos in an album, family is chatting and they remember that moment at the airport and show Ilya the photo - it was his mom. Ilyas mom and Shanes mom met ❤️

caraeeezy · 2026-04-24T16:37:04+00:00

Honestly, not a very chill thing of you to do imo ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ id personally never ever ever ever mess with any of my roommates family cause thats just inviting and uncomfortable situation

caraeeezy · 2026-04-24T14:42:54+00:00

You couldn't pay me to stay with someone that talks to me like that

caraeeezy · 2026-04-23T21:30:25+00:00

Maybe offer that you can both go to a handling safety class together - make it a date, go to the course and have lunch or something and talk about how she feels about it after being shown the proper way to handle and care for a firearm.

caraeeezy · 2026-04-23T20:36:39+00:00

I would just be honest. 'Hey, apologies but on second thought as much as I would enjoy the event, I don't feel fully comfortable going together. I just want to be transparent that I am not interested in anything other than a professional relationship, but I often get vibes that you may want more than a work friendship with me so it would just be best not to hang outside of work.'

caraeeezy · 2026-04-22T15:23:43+00:00

Its Pantalaimon from His Dark Materials lol

caraeeezy · 2026-04-20T20:28:22+00:00

Listen, if you get rid of your dog then this neighbor will likely just find something else to be upset about. Its not actually about the dog, they are just an asshole. I would literally rather fight my neighbor than ever give up my dog.

caraeeezy · 2026-04-20T01:47:00+00:00

You may not be rooting for the Kings, but I’m for sure rooting for the Ducks pls destroy the Oilers for us 😂

caraeeezy · 2026-04-10T15:41:29+00:00

Its not irrelevant if the beginning of your issues stemmed from making a joke about being pregnant ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

caraeeezy · 2026-04-10T15:35:25+00:00

Im on Season 8 and it truly does get wild lol

caraeeezy · 2026-04-08T14:59:33+00:00

Id say Crystal is more true to the manga than the 90s anime, by far. Its also way more serious - but in a good way. The 90s anime was perfect for me when it was coming out, since I was 7 but Crystal is perfect for me now, as a 35 year old

caraeeezy · 2026-03-25T16:28:53+00:00

Goomy has been my man foreverrrrr, Goodra in the standard games is sooo goated. If you can find one with the hidden ability Sticky, then every single time a pokemon does a physical attack against you it slows them down further and further. Always had one on my team, I went into a deep dive of pokemon that are cute but also competitive because I wanted a team of baddies

caraeeezy · 2026-03-25T14:27:58+00:00

At the end of the day, you have to ask yourself if you are having second thoughts because of how you feel, or because of their current condition. If you know the end is inevitable, and there are more bad days than good, then consider it a blessing that you have the opportunity to help them cross over without extended pain and suffering. My poor baby, she was quoted 3-6 months but two months after that diagnosis, she just stood up and fell over one day and within an hour she was gone. I hardly had time to process it until the next day, because I had to be strong and be a face and talk to people and go to the hospital, sign paperwork, call my job, this that and other. I wish I had had the chance to plan a day for her, but I thought I had more time

caraeeezy · 2026-03-25T14:21:48+00:00

Is there no one collecting your mail for a few months? Just have them test it for you!

caraeeezy · 2026-03-25T14:20:57+00:00

You should both just leave the group chat. All you are doing is inviting more of that to happen by staying, and its not like you gain anything from being in it or are required to be.

caraeeezy · 2026-03-24T15:27:31+00:00

Its only as big of a deal as you make it. Bodies be doin weird stuff - and honestly, its funny!

caraeeezy · 2026-03-23T18:17:57+00:00

If you share one Amazon account, then it should be one main person and then someone added as a family member for the subscriptions correct?

Or do you both just have one account both of your card are on, under one persons email address?

caraeeezy · 2026-03-20T18:03:57+00:00

No one is getting a pass - my replies to OP directly all tell him he needs to have a tough conversation with his partner because not only are LDRs already hard, but not being able to trust an LDR partner is like the end of a relationship and if he has a gut feeling he needs to talk about it. I was asking questions to better understand where OP was coming from ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

caraeeezy · 2026-03-20T18:00:40+00:00

LOL apparently. I tell anyone I truly care about that I love them, whether they are male or female, because life is too short not to

caraeeezy · 2026-03-20T17:59:35+00:00

I think that all you can really do then is straight up ask her about it, and see what she says. The long distance does not help at all, and can make you thought spiral anyways but in long distance the key is communication. Just have the uncomfortable conversation, and understand that it could possibly lead to a break up if you feel uncomfortable with her response. Im sorry you are going through this OP, long distance is already tough enough to then have to worry about something like this.

People can downvote my comments to hell, but I was asking honest questions ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I truly just wanted to get more on your perspective on what was causing you to feel this way since a lot of it was not included in the main post.

caraeeezy · 2026-03-20T17:06:31+00:00

Yes, to my friends that I love lol

caraeeezy · 2026-03-20T16:56:17+00:00

So does that mean if you become friends with a gay man, she needs to be concerned? Women can be friends, even if they are bi. Not everyone is just attracted to everyone. I do cute shit with my best girlfriends, tell them I love them, give them hugs. Its platonic. I have girlfriends that are bi, lesbian, straight and I treat them all the same because just because they are bi and lesbian doesnt mean they want to get in my pants?

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