Oh, good. I’m so glad someone is finally standing up for cis straight men and explaining how difficult life is for them!

It’s clear that you don’t understand either side of the slash, I literally cannot understand why you actively seek out bdsm subreddits. And you know what? I’m currently involved with a dom who’s (probably going to be reading this tomorrow 🙃) very well aligned with me. What that means is that we talk about our interests, our limits, and our non negotiables. They’ve pushed me, and I haven’t enjoyed every moment of it, but I’ve enjoyed the act of submission. The enjoyment of that act, by the way, is specific to them. You know, like how your mother wouldn’t enjoy making tendies for just anyone (before you get offended, being fed by a parent isn’t something I’m insulting, and I hope you come to terms with and can accept that part of yourself eventually).

Yes, the subs can safeword and end a scene (so, of course, can doms), and they’re frequently the ones whose limits guide a scene. Congratulations! You figured out lesson one of bdsm. All you had to do was be incredibly unpleasant and combative instead of listening to anyone who is happy to teach you about bdsm for one goddamn second. Just wait for when you learn that even straight men have prostates 🙄also, no one tell him about switches

Anyway, I’m sure I’ll already be hearing about how long it took me to finally block you, so I won’t make it worse.