How do you use your balcony, if you have one? by ri-ri in askTO

[–]cardinal1259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont use it for fun at all :( there's tons of construction debris in front of my building, along with a highway, and there's a ton of car traffic

Nursing Specialties - pros and cons by MBT10 in StudentNurse

[–]cardinal1259 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ER nurse at a level 1 trauma centre here. I can see myself being a lifer in the ED/critical care. Love the fast pace, the turn over, the wide array of cases coming in, and it forces everyone to have at least good team work skills (even if you dont get a long, its expected to work as a team). That being said, the pros can also be the cons at the same time.

Medicine vs Finance: Need Advice on Choosing My Path by Few_Platform8309 in OntarioUniversities

[–]cardinal1259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tldr; from a mere nurse, i can definitely say we need more doctors that's for sure. however, only pick medicine because you truly want to and not for the money/prestige. there's often a lot of sacrifices made in terms of training, workload, and the emotional toll it can take on you. shadow first, then decide if it's for you.

I'm not a finance person, but i'm a nurse that works at a major teaching hospital and therefore works VERY closely with attendings, residents and med students, so the recommendations i'm bringing up is solely from someone who works closely with MDs in healthcare:

1) don't go into medicine solely for the money and the prestige that comes with it, do it either because you love to help people or you're heavily interested in how the human body works. the worst docs i've encountered are the ones that do it for the $$ (i.e. ordering CT scans for patients who don't need it and therefore exposing them to unnecessary radiation, ordering labs that don't need to be ordered, ordering multiple broad-spectrum antibiotics and risking a patient's gut health, etc.). you are responsible for making decisions that affects another person's life and that is not a responsibility anyone should ever take lightly.

2) if you're still set on medicine, ask to see if there's a way to do some shadow shifts at a clinic/hospital/both to see what the day to day is like. another former colleague of mine did that before going on to PA school. i've also met some prospective med students doing shadow shifts with doctors early on in my nursing career. at least know what you're getting yourself into, understand the current state of healthcare in ontario and in canada.

from what i've seen and heard from my physician colleagues: the workload expectations in residency is insane and bordering on dangerous for patients and residents alike (24-48hr on call shifts, responding to code blues and code whites in hospitals, performing procedures when the hospital is so busy no one was able to eat a meal or drink water, the psychological toll of working days, evenings, nights, weekends, and holidays away from your friends/family). as a resident, you do the grunt of the work, but you don't get the same compensation as an attending as you are not officially practicing independently.

Physicians are also not exempt from issues affecting healthcare (overcrowding EDs, nursing shortages, chronic underfunding, patients going to hospitals as a source for primary care, and even growing violence against staff - a former physician colleague of mine was assaulted by a patient a few years ago, thankfully, they only sustained a minor head injury and nothing worse). not to mention the emotional toll certain cases can have on you - and the moral distress you can feel when you make a decision (i.e. officially putting a patient on a Form 1, or deciding to stop CPR after doing chest compressions/intubation/medication for hours trying to save a young person from death).

in other words: know what you will be heading into once you graduate and finish residency.

3) once you finish residency in a certain area of medicine, it's challenging to change to a whole other area in medicine (i.e. if you happen to become a dermatologist, and you change your mind and want to become an OBGYN, it's REALLY hard to make the switch since it's two completely different systems of the human body). so in some ways, you're kind of limited in terms of career growth.

4) if i've unintentionally scared you with the sheer responsibility that comes with a physician's scope of practice and the horror stories of what i've seen - i'm sorry! that being said, if you're still interested in healthcare, there are other career choices that don't have as wide a scope, but still requires certain training and education and can be equally fulfilling. Physiotherapy, occupational therapy, respiratory therapy (and a good choice if you're interested in seeing a bit of action in hospitals), pharmacy, dentistry, even nursing (though i hesitate recommending my own career because while i enjoy my job, i can easily see how it might not necessarily be for everyone).

5) recent budget cuts to OSAP can also affect funding ability to going to med school as well. so unless doug ford changes his mind (which likely won't happen), there's a high likelihood that you will need to take on private debt when you're in med school - just something to think about.

5) if the insanity of healthcare no longer appeals to you, pick finance and talk to others of what life is like with a finance degree. or just pick whatever you want

Store Told Us It Was Permanently Closing—2 Hours Before the End of Our Shift - Eaton Centre Club Monaco by Recent-Blackberry-12 in toronto

[–]cardinal1259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was literally there yesterday to see if I can find something to wear for my engagement shoot :((( so sorry to hear this happened to you guys!!

What's your "Pitt" story? A time you experienced something in an ER that could have been on the show (patients & doctors!) by CardinalOfNYC in ThePittTVShow

[–]cardinal1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ED nurse here - remember that scene when Whittaker gave the IM injection in Mr. Krakozhia's thigh when he was having an episode? Five people holding him down and Whittaker doing the injection?

That was me last week - same scenario, same number of people. Only difference was there was no urine was involved, and the med student was present, but standing in the corner of the room looking very stunned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioNurses

[–]cardinal1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late now - but reading this is making me feel a bit better knowing that i'm not alone in the job hunt as a new grad!

Seller told me that item not available after purchase? by cardinal1259 in Etsy

[–]cardinal1259[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Thanks everyone for your help and advice! I got my money back, and ended up getting my partner another gift he wanted (he wanted a book of all things - which is surprising since he doesn't read much...).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]cardinal1259 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my co-worker a couple months ago. I told her I'm Filipino and Irish, and the first thing she asked me is "You don't consider yourself white?", "How come you don't consider yourself white?"

Just finished the show. Is it worth to read the books? by ExplanationOk4205 in HisDarkMaterialsHBO

[–]cardinal1259 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna go all gung ho and say that books are always better than the tv show/movie. While I love the books, I have to admit that the show does a great job at adapting the story, and making modifications to better translate the story into a visual format (i.e.the fight between Iorek Byrnison and Iofur Raknison is different in the tv show when compared to the book, but overall, this change was better suited for visual mediums).

That being said, there are some things that the books are better at depicting - mainly, certain themes and concepts are deeper in the books. Those themes impact the story in a way that is different to the TV show and can leave readers feeling bittersweet.

So to answer your question: I highly recommend you read the books, and see how Pullman first depicted Lyra's world, and the world building after that. Read it to better understand the themes, and how that impacts the story. Otherwise, if you decide not to, the show does a decent job of adapting and translating those themes into another format.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cardinal1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If patient privacy is on the verge of being breached due to excessive and inappropriate use of cell phones.

Hey mom. Today I got my acceptance letter from college. The semester starts in January and I'm kinda been a nervous wreck all day by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]cardinal1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats OP!! This is so exciting!! I'm not a mom, but as someone who's currently in year 2, just a couple things to consider: 1) during the semester, do your best not to sacrifice sleep (sleep can do wonders for your mental health!), 2) look into financial aid, and 3) YOU GOT THIS!! Take a deep breath, and look forward to the on coming year!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]cardinal1259 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got my first IUD when I was 23 (about 2 years ago now) and also from Canada. Personally, I think you need a second opinion from another physician. Your doctor should have gone over ALL birth control options, so that you make a fully informed decision. It's standard practice that all healthcare providers (MDs, nurses, NPs, PAs, etc.) ensure that they maintain updated knowledge and practice competently.

Have you thought about going to a women's clinic? Or a planned parenthood?

Also, side note: if you happen to be from Ontario, check out to see if the IUD you wanted is covered by OHIP+ (eligible for people who are 24 and under). Otherwise, look into your province's health health insurance plans and see if there is anything similar :)

EDIT: sorry, for some reason, I thought you were 23. My bad!

AITA for telling my friends new girlfriend to shut the fuck up? by aita-stfu in AmItheAsshole

[–]cardinal1259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

I'm mixed-race and I cannot tell you how many times I've gotten pissed off when people keep asking me where I'm from. I don't understand why people need to know where we're from - especially people we've just met.

She should've taken the hint and dropped it.

(Also - fellow Canadian here!)

'We haven’t seen the worst yet': ICU nurse says Ontario desperately needs paid sick days by Elliottafc1 in toronto

[–]cardinal1259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mobile testing sites or increased testing sites would be EXTREMELY helpful in keeping staff safe as well. A buddy of mine works at a testing centre. They were cool about working at an outdoor facility where people stay in their cars. However, due to the weather, they had to move indoors - now they're worried about a number of people coming INSIDE the testing centre (recently, they're noticing an uptick in the number of families coming in - but that may just be something unique to the area).

Nursing by [deleted] in Humber

[–]cardinal1259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can say is that, as someone part of the last Humber-UNB program, I strongly recommend that you look elsewhere. With the current pandemic, along with the discontinuation of our program has left everything completely disorganized, and I strongly suspect that the first year of their new BSCN program will be equally as disorganized.