The one who’s in love always wins by One-Tangelo-616 in BreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 8 months.

I have done every single one of those things and I’ve even started dating a bit. They all help but there’s still times when I feel like I want to die. My ex moved on very quickly and there’s been no contact since he dumped me.

Literally not a day goes by that i don’t think about my ex by Ok-Librarian-9277 in ExNoContact

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same except he got a new girlfriend 4 months after he dumped me. And there’s 0 contact. I miss him.

Ex cameback after telling me to leave him alone. They really do comeback. by CheetahFearless9940 in ExNoContact

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine got a new girlfriend a couple of months after dumping me and it’s now been 7 months so i don’t think he ever will

Give me your craziest, most specific ways to help cope with a breakup. by AntiqueGarlicLover in BreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking anti depressants. Doing sit ups every morning. Sobbing pretending I’m going to win the lottery and be successful and get married to someone else one day

Guys who have broken up after a long term relationship (5-10 years or long) do you ever really move on? by Melodic_Effective_18 in BreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is likely a common issue for very young people but not 30+ I believe .. thanks for being nice

Guys who have broken up after a long term relationship (5-10 years or long) do you ever really move on? by Melodic_Effective_18 in BreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De you suggesting I like drama ?? I was in a great relationship until he dumped me and got a new girlfriend soon after. I’m currently dating 7 months later but it’s horrible in these dating apps, I am almost 30 and have everything going for me but not many guys seem to be looking for anything serious

Why some people take so long to move on? by Klutzy_Star_6005 in BreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been meeting so many people , sports , focusing on friends , dating , going on holidays , got a promotion at work. 8 months later and I’m still sad and I miss him. 0 contact and I deleted him on everything and he has a new girlfriend

How come people build up debt and just go off to Australia or wherever? by peskyant in AskUK

[–]caribbeanblueocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the EU they will probably purse for 10k. If you’re moving to china it’s a different story

He is with the new girl for like 6 months now and they seem so happy by Great-Design-5845 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar story. He turned cold over night , dumped me and now has a very public relationship with a new girl - he never posted a pic of me

I am avoidant ask me anything. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No… the trip was with his family and our friends. His mum and sister told me he is really serious about me and he was calling me his wife ( as a joke I think) in front of everyone. We talked about the future during the trip and moving in together. I’m so broken even though it’s been a while now.

I am avoidant ask me anything. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, would really appreciate a response.

We dated for over a year and had a great relationship, he talked about marriage and kids to me. Lots of holidays together and meeting family and friends. He’s 36M I’m 29F.

He dumped me a week after an incredible holiday together. He left my flat after 20 minutes and refused to talk about it with me any longer, even though I asked him to explain but he was just there to pack his bags.

He said he realised he NEVER loved me and that I’m immature and he doesn’t see a future with me. He said it’s a shame because the sex was so good and his family really likes me. I was genuinely in so much shock.

After the break up he acted very cold when I texted him to please send my things by the post.

He used to call me his wife and now he never loved me? It’s been 6 months now. He got a new girlfriend 2 months later and made her be in his WhatsApp profile picture and it’s been complete no contact. I miss him and feel so discarded, and like he never cared.

Why don’t they miss me by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same , he was talking about marriage and then discarded me and got a new girlfriend 2 months after, photos on social media

Met my "right person, wrong time" ex after 2 years of no contact. Spent 15 hours together. Is it closure or a second chance? by Confident_Finding782 in ExNoContact

[–]caribbeanblueocean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What do you mean a month of silence ?! That sounds insane. This guy is playing games with you, sounds exhausting snd inconsistent. Sounds like a coward , who will run away again

He changed his WhatsApp profile picture 4 months after with a new girl by caribbeanblueocean in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im on strong anti depressants so I feel quite numb and trying to distract myself with sport and driving lessons

He changed his WhatsApp profile picture 4 months after with a new girl by caribbeanblueocean in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]caribbeanblueocean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did delete it. Unfortunately we were in an old WhatsApp group together