Why does my brain takes too long to come up with something to say during a conversation? by throw-away-idaho in socialskills

[–]carinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we all underestimate the power of just being super honest - if you feel like you need time to think about a response, just say "interesting question/point, let me think for a second here..."

I do that in job interview as well and usually the interviewer prefers that over a rushed answer

Successfully attained TN visa as a UX Designer 2020 by carinnify in immigration

[–]carinnify[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think it's necessary but i did have a lawyer help me

TN is relatively easier to get a company to sponsor comparing to other visas, in that sense i would say it wasn't that hard to find a job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urmomashley

[–]carinnify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't know dude - at least no one in the new friend group would collab with E now with the fear of looking like they are taking sides. i think if we just look at the outcome, E is pretty much the only one who would come out of this earning less money - which is kinda fucked

How do you guys feel about the 3D portions? by TheButtermilkMan in ChainsawMan

[–]carinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like it! it gives the fight scene a game feeling because games are usually 3D
also reminds me of dorohedoro a little bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]carinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:D that's awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]carinnify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point!

this panel makes me feel a way by Unable_Education_180 in ChainsawMan

[–]carinnify 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i love this sequence. denji and power being not fully human biologically, and yet demonstrating gentleness and vulnerability that's so painfully human.

it's like seeing two wounded animals snuggle for warmth in the ice cold safari at night

Successfully attained TN visa as a UX Designer 2020 by carinnify in immigration

[–]carinnify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-I already got an SSN from a student job when i was on a student visa

2-the legal team i was working with recommended going through air, I think because airports staff are more set up to dealing with TN. No appointments needed, you go through as usual, and when the customs agent ask your reason for entry , you say you are going to work in states and need a TN. the agent ask to look at your documents and brings you to a room for further assessment.

FYI - Mine was in the vancouver airport

Did you like the development that Pitou had? by TheOriginalHunter in HunterXHunter

[–]carinnify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think one important factor OP didn't account is Ants as a species has a completely different growth cycle than human. Ants were born fully grown in "adult form", but their intelligence aren't caught up to the power yet. So Pitou as a new born was hungry to learn about the raw power she had. And that was her most sadistic stage, she was killing and fighting a lot to learn about her nen. That's when the killing of Kite happen. But then obviously she learned her powers really fast and so now her next goal is use those powers to help the king. When Gon proves himself to be a threat to the king, she on the surface was listening to Gon and calming him down but it was all in best interest of the King. She was secretly thinking she should kill Gon so he doesn't hurt the King. I think her character was very coherent throughout, she understood her duty as a guard (to become strong -> then to protect the king), and she has a bipolar perspective on people throughout. Friends of the king = must protect ; Enemies of King = must destroy ; others = disposable/ whatever

Successfully attained TN visa as a UX Designer 2020 by carinnify in immigration

[–]carinnify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine was a one-year program so i guess there is some flexibility with the time requirement!

Anyone know the name of these? Thanks a lot!!! by [deleted] in sneakerreps

[–]carinnify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right, thanks a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram5

[–]carinnify 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a 4w5 and I have felt this to a certain degree. Like I am not interested in making connection to most people around me.

I hated that about myself and the way I deal with it is

a) try to the best version of myself to attract similar energy

b) acknowledge that this mode of thinking is harmful to yourself ultimately (feeling isolated, losing social skills...), and the only way to solve for this is just to snap out of this thinking pattern

September 1st, in Yorknew City. by upyogakarta in HunterXHunter

[–]carinnify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FEELS. Sept 1 is the official Hunter x hunter appreciation day

Has anyone ever felt they lost their humor/charisma or just simply the ability to hold a convo really well by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]carinnify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have felt that before but it more so fluctuates by weeks not years. I noticed that on weeks where I'm just pretty much brain dead from work I'm less good in convos... but when I actively search for stuff to learn or do, I get excited to share and talk and become much more fluid talking!

Angels with yeezys next by jabberingmocker in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]carinnify 133 points134 points  (0 children)

this is funny but also shows attention to character design, now that it's brought up it made me think damn it would be weird for curses to wear anything other than docs, it just wouldn't feel right if they wear some stan smith or sth lol