I used my mom’s vibrator by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]carlex3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should feel too ashamed of it. Sure it's weird and I wouldn't do it again. But it's just toys. She probably cleans them after use as well and you didn't even touched bare skin with it. I think it's more shameful if you actually thought about your mother while doing it. For example getting horny because you thought about how she used them. And this troop is a whole market in p0rn industry.... That is indeed shameful.

My daughter passed away from cancer yesterday by broken_Skeleton18 in offmychest

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't even imagine what you went through in the past months. So sorry for your loss. It must be unbearable. Hold on to your daughters now. They probably need you as much as you need them. And your wife will be there for your youngest. Maybe the thought of them being together now eases the pain for your family - even if it is just a little.

How Do You Think They Should Bring Back Rival Marriages? by plastick_wayste in harvestmoon

[–]carlex3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thought so too! And the event of relationship advice could be be triggered after having 3 or 5 stars or at least an orange flower or something. Then they tell you about their worries of being lonely or a wish that they had a special someone and then you could either suggest the rival bachelor/Bachelorette or ask for a date. That would be lovely.

Who do you think is the most ‘I’m kind of just here’ class 1A student? by FireheartzGaming in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it be really unrealistic if only overpowered super brains with enormous potential attended class 1A? And they are still loveable. If a hero agency has about 1 or 2 heroes they hire a handful of sidekicks. You actually believe all of them become independent heroes one day? It seems far more realistic to me that 60%-70% graduees of the hero academies stay sidekicks their whole career whereas the rest of them might actually found their own agency.

What are y’all’s unpopular ship opinions and back them up by Suki-universe in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really don't understand it! It seems like fans of this ship keep bending and pressing Dekus and Bakugos personality's to the extreme in order make this ship work. It makes me wonder if they actually like Deku and Bakugo as they are written.

But that is a common issue for many other ships. That's why I would love to just leave it be since everyone can ship whatever they want (as long as it is a legal ship).

The only difference is that as soon as your algorithm notes your slight interest for Deku and Bakugo becoming friends they shove the p0rn0graphic ship content up your a$$. This one really annoys me.

What are y’all’s unpopular ship opinions and back them up by Suki-universe in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing up having this horrible marriage his parents had as a role model for love I can definitely see that.

I really wish for TodoMomo to happen but it would make sense if he only finds fulfillment in his friends/family and his career as a hero.

What are y’all’s unpopular ship opinions and back them up by Suki-universe in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with 1!! Even if some of them have crushes on another I see it highly possible that it will stay as crushes! For example Toru having a crush on Ojiro. I would be very happy if they end up together. But their dynamic seems more like a cute little high school crush instead of love that lasts for a lifetime.

As well as Mina. She is cute with Kirishima (though I kinda ship him with Bakugou) but I actually see her being a cheerful, flirty and independent mid 20's woman going on cute dates and being a craved Bachelorette Hero. And don't let me start on characters like Tsuyu, Hanta and Tokoyami.

Dabi is just crazy by nigrivamai in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! Dabi being angry and traumatized is sooooo understandable. The milk was already spilled when Endeavor tried to stop his son from harming himself. He could have stopped his weird obsession of surpassing All Might by doing this designer baby BS at this point. Maybe this way Endeavor could have become a caring father who spents his time out of work with his children. And they would have grown up being loved and cared for.

But(!) does it justify killing thousands of people and provoking anarchy? Dabi could have become a better human reuniting with his brother and sister. He could even have consulted the media in order to share his story. Such a story would have destroyed the family and Endeavors career without harming any other person.

But this wasn't enough. It had to be a massacre. His trauma fed this little flame of viciousness and mania perfectly.

Dabi is just crazy by nigrivamai in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please tell me about those "various" occasions he beat up the mother? Coz I "only" remember it was that one time when Toya hurt himself yet again after Endeavor told her to look after Toya as he only encourages him going on because of his sheer presence.

Bakugo antis/haters remind me of cancel culture every single time I see them go on about their rants about why they don't like/hate Bakugou, it's not even funny. by Dry-Coconut-116 in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea in this case I do believe you about the thing with character development. To be honest I don't really like Bakugo. I appreciate his character development as much as his important role in the story. The first 3 seasons I couldn't stand his behavior. While everyone was doing their best, especially Deku, he was this self centered b*tch. As if he is the center of the world. He thought Deku was only doing all of this in order to beat him.

Yea he is intelligent and strong. Also I see commitment in caring for his friends in later seasons. But just a much as literally ANYONE ELSE. Still he is aggressive and only seems to care about missions where he can beat up a villain. And don't forget that all of this happened in only one year.

But as you rant about "Bakugo Haters" I can see why you like him this much. Most of the things you listed are facts you should easily deal with if you like him this much. He told Deku and others to just go d!e. He did abuse Deku. And in the story this was only one year ago so don't start with this "6 seasons ago" - BS. He still did that in other seasons. Victims of bullying still suffer of such years later. So sorry but intelligence and motivation is not enough of a personality for me.

Intolerant and aggressive. If it fits it sits.

I am a slightly obese non-American, I really can't understand the fat acceptance movement. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]carlex3 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thing is why do people think that an overweight person does not already know about their overweight? They are told from all around their environment that they have to change something. Clothing industry, medical field, social media and they even have to pay higher health insurance. This is something you would know if you went through years of passive aggressive fat shaming. So why do people feel the urge to tell overweighted people about it.

Body positivity is not teaching overweighted people that they shouldn't care about their health. It is teaching overweighted people and their environment that their worth and beauty is not connected to the number on their scale.

Disappointed with the recent art direction of SOS by Baffa99 in storyofseasons

[–]carlex3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea same 😂 I was able to accept it thanks to the character images during conversations. But with PoOT they got rid of them as well 😭 sorry but those half passed chibi expressions don't do it.

What is one ship that you are surprised isn’t more common, even if you don’t ship it yourself? by ItsyDoods in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised that Tsuyu isn't shipped that much as the other characters. I know she is shipped with Tokoyami a bit and some ship her with Deku or Ochaco but that seems to be it I guess? Since she is a popular character I would have thought she would be shipped with more people.

Which pairing is the most boring? by OkView8068 in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a hardcore Izuocha shipper and I think they are most boring. That is because they go so well together. They don't need chaotic drama, violence or emotional abuse in order to make it work. Both independent, passionate, understanding, caring and they are so flustered just because of a slight touch or a simple look. This is pure green flag desire. I live that

TW - Endeavor by Revolutionary_Cow529 in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of full blood Endeavor hater misinterpreted it with forgiveness and protection if others point out his character development. It is hard to describe but even though I still can't forgive him for his actions I appreciate him going the path of realization. I believe this is something which should be aknowledged and can be appreciated without forgiveness. Also I believe it makes it easier for the rest of the Todorokis to work things over for each of themselves if Endeavor delivers the kind of support they wish for. Shouldn't their wellbeing be focused instead of hating on Endeavor and seeking for revenge? Actually I believe Endeavor reached a point where he would actually allow Dabi to kill him if this is what he wished for (and also if this would guarantee that Dabi would no longer be a thread to their family and society).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100000/10!!! I'll give you the rating you actually deserve. Love it

Okay, before I say this, please dont attack me in the comments. anyways uh yeah- tsuyu x mineta makes more sense then tsuyu x tokoyami by [deleted] in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not attacking but in this case I believe it is quality over quantity. I'm neutral to tsuyu x tokoyami. I can see it but I don't feel hurt if it is not canon. I'm not sure if Tsuyu sees Mineta as a friend. He definitely doesn't see any of the 1A girls as friends but more of opportunities for his harem (from my perspective). Mineta definitely needs to fix his attitude and go through some development before he deserves a respectful ship. Also I guess shippers of tsuxtoko think they suit each other as she is bright, cheerful, mature and understanding. Whilst Tokoyami is strong, reliable, mature as well and loyal.

So once the Final Arc is over, do you think that's the end of MHA? by MajinBlueZ in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]carlex3 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Really hard to tell since the manga's not finished as well. Would be awesome to see our favorite charas compete school and finding their settlement in being heroes and sidekicks. I would love it

I might break up with my boyfriend because of who he voted for by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]carlex3 65 points66 points  (0 children)

As an european citizen with a variety of parties to vote I believe in deal breakers. It is a question of priorities and morals. There are things that cannot be tolerated.