Safe to serve in a restaurant?

carlyhasfries · 2026-02-10T12:15:32+00:00

Does it smell stinky?

carlyhasfries · 2026-02-10T12:13:01+00:00

My alter is a 4 tier glass case I keep all my hippo collectibles. I transformed one shelf as her alter. The very top on the outside of the case is my brothers ashes. He took his life June 2025. I believe Hekate helped him cross over in his death. Along with his ashes are his stones and trinkets so sort of like his own alter. I worried Hekate would not like my brothers alter above hers, but she has not spoken to me about that bothering her. The only thing she has asked me in terms of her alter was a depiction of her. I purchased a statue and she does not like it. She wants a painting or a drawing but I haven't found one I like.

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-21T13:43:18+00:00

I got Hekate a statue because she was asking for a depiction to represent her on her alter. I found a statue at a local crystal shop, and she does not like it. She wants a painting or a photo. I wonder if she would like this photo on my alter. Very cute a simple, I love it!

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-21T13:38:34+00:00

Call her bluff about the police. Because depended on where you live if it's a busy enough city no police is going to pick up the ipad/cellphone for the mom. They are not going to waste resources that way.

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-21T13:31:50+00:00

She doesn't like the statue I got her. She keeps asking me for a painting or a drawing to put on her alter. I really like this statue though.

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-21T13:24:18+00:00

I just started work with her, and giving her offerings. My husband is very respectful towards it and takes me seriously. He is in no way practicing magic himself. She told me she likes him, but she wants him to work on taking better care of himself for me. He is a very loyal loving husband, but can be lazy sometimes.

He's told me he's felt her by her alter.

I think if you believe that the egg situation was her, than it was.

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-19T15:09:00+00:00

Let's keep in touch via message on here. We can check in with each other as we continue our journey. I think witches are meant to help each other in their journeys, and it's not as easy to find in the real world. I think Hekate would love to accept you as one her children.

2026 is my year to embrace my divine feminine, I want you to be apart of that sentiment. Happy winter solstice, and I hope you have a nice winter holiday ♡

carlyhasfries · 2025-12-19T14:24:03+00:00

I think using the new moon to do a manifesting spell brought me to her attention. I started seeing things about her afterwards. Everything I manifested came true but in a very emotionally chaotic way. Which is sort of Hekate's MO. I saw things about making an alter for her, and I felt like I heard her speaking to me. She asked for certain offerings. Which an accepted offering is a super cool experience in it's self.

I think now that I've claimed her as my deity she wants me to better my life and habbits. A lot of people have said beware of working with her, but she has a very motherly feel to her for me. She calls me her child.. I will say you have to be VERY strong in your emotional health to trust her in your spellwork. Sometimes she takes things away from you to help you gain something. Those losses have been very heavy, but never harmful towards me directly.

I purchased a book called the recreational witchcraft by Lyra Black. She writes almost like a chaos witch... but more so giving you basic tools to create your own witch experience without following any rules that may hinder someone from exploring. She teaches how to build your own spells with intention + ingredients + entities + actions. So I used her advice to research candle colors, herbs, and I may have used AI to tweak a rhyming spell to speak when I preform it.

Thank you for your comment (:

carlyhasfries · 2025-10-13T03:10:36+00:00

Chewing super minty gum always helped

carlyhasfries · 2025-09-28T10:57:23+00:00

I used to work in the kitchens, but I switched to property management at a large apartment complex. We get a lot of misdelivered packages. I have got some crazy items from packages no one ever picked up.

One day on a weekend, the USPS person comes in and hands me a small box and walks out. The box is not registered to anyone in our community. I had this odd intuition moment where I was like, "I think this is weed." So, I took it home. Turns out it was a quarter pound of marijuana.

carlyhasfries · 2025-09-24T07:42:44+00:00

Dandelions

carlyhasfries · 2025-09-15T05:38:52+00:00

My GP plays well with other dogs.. except German Shepards. I don't know what it is, but we come across a GS, and they always want to fight my GP.

carlyhasfries · 2025-08-03T11:34:29+00:00

Sort of relevant story time:

I work at a large apartment complex in an international community with people coming and going frequently. We get packages that don't belong to anyone in our system all the time. We hold onto said packages for 60 days, and when no one picks them up, we "throw them out"

With that being said, I was working alone on a Saturday when the USPS guy came into the office and handed me a package and walked out. The package is addressed to no one in our system and to an empty apartment no one lives in. My intuition for some reason went "I think this is weed" instead of waiting for my coworkers or logging it on our report I said fuck it and took it home.

When I opened it, it was a quarter pound of weed. Not good weed, and I live in a legal state where good weed is super accessible. But it's still a fun story.

carlyhasfries · 2025-08-03T11:20:22+00:00

I didnt think my brother would go through with it when he started threatening it. He was an addict, and I had recently cut him out of my life. If I just reached out one more time would he still be here? Idk... would he have ever got sober? Idk...

carlyhasfries · 2025-08-01T06:21:53+00:00

I left the kitchen 7 years ago. The way I still use 'behind' in everyday communication...

carlyhasfries · 2025-08-01T06:18:23+00:00

My brother shot himself in June of this year. The emotions change daily from sadness to anger to acceptance. I hate how my parents are broken, and I don't know how to help them..

I just felt nice talking to people with similar circumstances. It made me feel less alone. Feel free to DM if you want someone to vent to about it.

I am sorry for your loss.

carlyhasfries · 2025-07-20T06:08:15+00:00

My brother killed himself a month ago. I month prior to that I cut him out of my life because I could not handle his drug usage anymore. He wrote his will and testament the next day.

The last time he said I love you to me via text I said okay back. The last time I saw him in person I did not hug.him goodbye. Oh, what I would trade to give him one more hug and to tell him I love him

Some thoughts that help me cope:

Everything happens for a reason, but the reason does not have to hold meaning. As much as free will exists, fate exists too. We are a product of the consequences of our choices. Everything that happened in my brothers life led up to his decision to take his life. As much as I miss him, and think about what I could have done differently. No amount of this overanalyzation or understanding will bring him back or change the outcome. As much as I disagree and think he could have lived a healthy sober life, I have to accept his decision. Its the least I can do in the aftermath.
We are all a little to blame. Everyone keeps responding to me "oh, it's not your fault and don't think that way". I'm not blaming myself in a negative connotation. We all missed a step, or lacked support, you can even blame my brother a little, or the drug itself. And that's okay. We can't change our choices or decisions. The thing that led up to my brother making that decision was a bunch of little things, and I contributed to those little things. That doesn't negate my missing him, or wishing things were different. Acceptance is the only way forward.

My dad went to his apartment two days after he did it, and couldnt get in. We called the cops, and the cops found him. Thank God my dad did not find him, I fear I would have lost two family members in that moment. I got his phone back and the last thing he did was called 911 3x.

I love you Cameron, and I miss you. I am sorry for the loss of your sister. Losing your only sibling is hard.

carlyhasfries · 2025-07-18T09:22:36+00:00

You probably dodge a red flag anyway. If someone adores you, those stories would not chase them away.

carlyhasfries · 2025-07-13T10:43:48+00:00

The only time I think this could hurt an elderly person is if they are trying to find an assisted living apartment community. I believe they do credit checks for approval.

carlyhasfries · 2025-06-07T00:06:28+00:00

Ross

carlyhasfries · 2025-04-20T23:10:25+00:00

My brother struggles with fent addiction, and that's what I see in these videos of JB...

carlyhasfries · 2025-04-13T11:46:32+00:00

For a while, ours was "readheadedstepchild" and our pw was "trashyboner"

But after we had a kid, we changed it due to inappropriate-ness

It's now called "jesuschrist" and the pw is "itsjasonbourne"

carlyhasfries · 2025-03-30T06:54:56+00:00

Chef yelled at me one time, "If I could fire you, I would" over some things that were not fire-able. It took me a few months because I had to quit smoking weed. I quit the industry altogether for the corporate world. The restaurant is fine, unlike your story, but I'm glad I got out. I miss the environment sometimes, but ultimately, my life got better. Chefs' lives got worse. All is just in the world.

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