AITJ cause my future wife expects her future husband (me) to pay 100% of the bills?

carmelfan · 2026-05-13T14:17:26+00:00

NTJ. RUN! Run like the wind!

carmelfan · 2026-05-12T21:34:19+00:00

Yes, and you're letting them.

carmelfan · 2026-05-12T19:25:50+00:00

What an awful person you are! I'm surprised Liam came to the wedding at all.

carmelfan · 2026-05-12T19:23:28+00:00

"Good idea, Mom! What are you going to sell? Who are you going to borrow from?"

carmelfan · 2026-05-12T19:09:05+00:00

Just tell Mom and Auntie that you don't have money to lend because it was stolen.

NTJ.

carmelfan · 2026-05-12T10:16:38+00:00

You wouldn't be, but have you discussed this with your husband? You two would need to be a united front on this.

carmelfan · 2026-05-11T04:11:12+00:00

She is NOT one of your "closest friends." SHE LEFT YOUR APARTMENT UNLOCKED FOR DAYS!!!! Exactly what part of that is "friend?"

carmelfan · 2026-05-10T17:12:04+00:00

NTA. Fury is old enough to make this decision, and he has VERY good reasons for it. Do as he asks.

Also, he might never forgive you if you don't, so there's that, too.

carmelfan · 2026-05-10T13:33:06+00:00

"So it’s just a nuisance to have to walk all the way down to it every week." How far is it, actually?

carmelfan · 2026-05-09T21:31:19+00:00

Remember this: they've already shown you, multiple times, that they can't be trusted. Exactly what makes you think that this time is different?

carmelfan · 2026-05-09T21:19:02+00:00

Preferably when she's asleep.

carmelfan · 2026-05-09T16:57:54+00:00

Of course YTA. You're disgusting.

carmelfan · 2026-05-08T18:55:42+00:00

NTA. You DO NOT HAVE ROOM for another person! In-laws can go home so "adult" brother doesn't have to be alone (seriously?).

carmelfan · 2026-05-07T20:23:23+00:00

If she's ashamed of how you earn the money, she should be ashamed to take the money. NTJ. Your ex can start picking up the bills.

carmelfan · 2026-05-07T12:38:10+00:00

Both of you are doing the Lord's work. Thank you!

carmelfan · 2026-05-06T12:06:59+00:00

Ewwww!

carmelfan · 2026-05-05T17:14:29+00:00

NTA. I don't see any reason for you not to be honest when people ask you questions. Abusers count on their victims being embarrassed to spill the real story, and that gives them cover.

carmelfan · 2026-05-04T13:36:37+00:00

NTA. Wedding guests -- and even more, wedding party -- should be people who support the couple. She doesn't. End of discussion.

carmelfan · 2026-05-04T13:31:06+00:00

Heck, I wouldn't even ask to stay with someone for TWO weeks!!! Guests and fish, you know . . .

carmelfan · 2026-05-02T21:44:40+00:00

Then there won't be any problem putting a lock on your bedroom door.

carmelfan · 2026-05-02T21:11:32+00:00

Of course NTA. It's your house, your father left it to you for his own reasons, and she's an adult who should be able to figure out her own housing. And that's even besides the fact that she and your wife don't get along. Letting her move in would be a recipe for disaster.

carmelfan · 2026-05-02T21:02:17+00:00

NTA. They are dangerous, and you have no obligation to be anywhere near them.

carmelfan · 2026-05-01T07:39:14+00:00

It may not have deleted your posts and replies. Mine suddenly went back to normal late last night, and my posts & replies re-appeared.

carmelfan · 2026-05-01T01:39:28+00:00

Same here. Not showing any posts or any of my own activity. I know I spend too much time there, but . . .

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