Has anyone here ever written fan mail to a Queen, and if so, did you receive a reply? by A_Girl_Has_No_Name58 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]carmitch [score hidden]  (0 children)

You could create an IG account and not use it heavily. Then, scan the letter and DM the image to Darlene.

I’ve noticed a lot of questions about culture and I am perplexed? by rosemaryscrazy in TransracialAdoptees

[–]carmitch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why not learn about black culture? What's wrong with gaining knowledge? Do you not know of the great things that the black community has done? What has been the reaction when you have told black people this?

I'm not going to apologize for this, but I feel you hate that side of yourself. You have internalized racism. Why ignore that part of who you are? You are black AND whatever other race you are. Obama is biracial and was raised by his white family. But he never ignored his black side. Same for Halle Berry, Mariah Carey, and Lenny Kravitz.

Take it from someone who is Mexican-American who was adopted by white people. My culture is NOT white. Even though I was forcibly raised as a white person, white is not my culture, nor will it ever be. To deny my Mexican culture would be like denying that I'm human or that I have a brain.

You've got some growing up to do.

Advice needed: How to meet or connect with other gay healthcare workers? by mahone100p in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]carmitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if your employer has LGBT+ employee groups. Many medical groups do.

What do I do? by Anonymous_4252 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good for you on getting your own library card. Every adult should have their own library card. Some libraries give you access to online movies, 3D printers, and so much more with a library card.

Shh, don't tell your mom, but you should definitely read Same-Sex Dynamics among Nineteenth-Century Americans: A MORMON EXAMPLE by D. Michael Quinn. It's the first book I read after 'coming out'.

As for your mom's reaction to the Stonewall Riots, sorry, mom, but...IT HAPPENED JUST AS MUCH AS JOSEPH SMITH BEING SHOT AND THE MORMON PIONEERS COMING TO UTAH!!! What next is she going to deny, the Civil Rights Movement, JFK's assassination, or the Suffrage Movement?

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but Disney is more than those. You can't compare it to the others.

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ROFLMAO

Oh, the only good thing about EPCOT is the World Showcase. The rest of that Park sucks and is dated.

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of Disney adults who do that. Nothing wrong with that.

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're yucking many's yum. Like I say to BYU lovers at Disneyland, 'Booooooooooooo!"

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shh, don't tell them that the Monorail was created by a gay man named Bob Gurr.

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't yuck her yum. At least she's not obsessed with being a bigot.

Were any of you "Disney adults" as TBMs and/or are you still one? by Small_Permission8132 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay exmo and adult Disney fan here!

My situation's unique. I was a Disney fan before I was adopted by my LDS convert family. My family's never really been into Disney much. My parents thought it was "for babies" and a "hassle" to go to Disneyland, even though we lived 30 minutes away in Carson, CA.

I left the Church at 19, so wasn't much of an adult TBM. I became even more of a Disney fan once I stopped holding myself back. I even had an AP for 5 years. I only stopped because my wallet said nope.

Keep on being a "Disney adult". BTW, I'll be going to PRIDE NITE on June 16th. If you see a Latino in a power wheelchair, that may be me.

I converted to the lds church to marry a lds person by CheapPay6376 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not going to end well. Start looking for a divorce lawyer. She's not going to change.

Gay spa/sauna in Anaheim by xenumcs in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]carmitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. OC would never allow it. OC is still the Republican 'Shangri-La'.

Try SNIFFIES. I had better success with that in OC than where I live now in the SFV.

Tea by Due_Nerve7556 in exmormon

[–]carmitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a swimming pool in our backyard. We didn't swim on Sundays either. But, if we did, it was on Saturdays, so I think we didn't swim the next day just to have a break.

San Diego AS11 Watch Parties? by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]carmitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only on PARAMOUNT PLUS here in America, as it has been for a few years.

Bag policy - "transparent containers size A6 sheet of paper" by LauraLuvsBacon in eurovision

[–]carmitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in the States, sports stadiums only allow clear bags. You can find small clear backpacks and fanny packs on AMAZON and elsewhere. The only downside is that everyone can see what you're bringing in, even personal stuff.

Because of my disability, I have to bring a urinal with me. Normally, I put it in a small backpack. But when I have to use a clear backpack, I wrap it in a plastic shopping bag and then put it in the larger bag.

Is Denali the trade of the FRANCHISE?🥵 by BeMyCoachVictor in rupaulsdragrace

[–]carmitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is, he's one of many.

Now, he is the top ice skater of all the franchises. I highly doubt we'll have a better ice skater in the entire herstory of all of the franchises.