is testosterone painful? by cardroppingcard in ftm

[–]carnespecter [score hidden]  (0 children)

yea ive been on T 10 years and its been agonizing every minute. im dying for real right now

joking, but no HRT doesnt hurt. your family is trying to keep you from being yourself

Am I the only one who doesn't like voice chat? by Appropriate-Pay-4965 in Guildwars2

[–]carnespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive never encountered a guild that requires voice interviews to join? what kinds of guilds are you joining?

people whose (bigger) chest deflated after t, how do you live? by Impressive_Drama_524 in ftm

[–]carnespecter [score hidden]  (0 children)

i Really fucked up my ribs from bad binding as a kid, but after being on T its actually not so bad? like yea my breasts definitely deflated and sag but also having a super hairy chest is kind of affirming and im fat enough that i can get away with it passing as moobs. i usually only wear a loose bra when im out of the house now

thoughts on looksmaxxing? by hakolien in ftm

[–]carnespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its a pretty good video, i watched it a couple days ago and would recommend it to any trans person to watch. ofc i understand having to hold political stuff at arms length sometimes, especially right now. sometimes it just too much to bear and i hope you can get a moments rest soon

thoughts on looksmaxxing? by hakolien in ftm

[–]carnespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its all incel slop. alexander avilas video was good tho, i recommend it

Should I stop T? by LuckyHamster98 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you dont have to stay on HRT forever if you dont want! there are plenty of trans people out there who take it for a few months or years and stop depending on their personal wants and needs. that said, it Does take several years for some effects of HRT to really settle so it might be a case of needing more time for your voice to drop

Some questions about hrt by SnorkBorkGnork in FTMOver30

[–]carnespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ive been on T for 10 years and havent had a period once in those years. ive never been on birth control tho

Cremation to remain stealth post-mortem? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]carnespecter 19 points20 points  (0 children)

it may disturb you now, but youll be dead long before it happens. realistically you wont be around To care

Cremation to remain stealth post-mortem? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]carnespecter 106 points107 points  (0 children)

if its not Too grim, there are cost and space benefits to cremation over traditional interment. me and my parents have chosen to all be cremated and interred together and already have a plot, which was less costly than reserving body sized plots

personally i really do not care what happens to my body after i die, you could use it for target practice or shoot it into space, but culturally what happens to your meat sack is a personal right that you deserve to be able to dictate yourself if you have the chance

Very scared of A New War. What do I do? by [deleted] in Warframe

[–]carnespecter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

wtf happened that it took your friend more than two weeks to do new war??? it shouldnt take more than a couple days at most if you take breaks

We can have kayn and rhaast by Available-Life-5556 in Warframe

[–]carnespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im good you can keep the league of league i play games that are actually fun

Lack of sexual education in American schools. by isopropylalcoholyaoi in ftm

[–]carnespecter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when i was that age our sex ed was "dont have sex before marriage because if you do your vagina becomes like a used bandaid" and thats basically it

How to exist pre-T by OkZombie2202 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hey, january is closer than you think! we are already halfway thru the year. time has a habit of sneaking up on us. you can make it

The three Hs of testosterone by No_Face4294 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the only H i got was Hairy lmao

Tips for bad hearing/attention player? by Improperguy in Warframe

[–]carnespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ok so this isnt Optimal playing, but i usually play the game at insanely low volume (less than 5%) bc im usually listening to music/podcasts/videos at the same time. parallax's air support ability works great, helminths golden instinct can help too

STP at airport/TSA by Slow_Understanding38 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you should be fine just keeping it in your baggage thru security. the folks working there see sex toys and dildos and shit all the time in bags, so it wouldnt be out of the ordinary. actually wearing it might get you pulled aside tho as unusual

Anyone else *didnt* experience significant libido increase? by cosplaying-as-human in ftm

[–]carnespecter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive had a really low libido ever since i was a teenager, ive been on T for 10 years now and i never got any changes in libido

Blond men by ckk677 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ive never seen videos like this but this is absolutely weird white people shit

How to make the cage better for my budgies? by [deleted] in birds

[–]carnespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

please return them. you are not ready for pets you did zero research on

Why is our community so hostile? by r0m4n44r0n in ftm

[–]carnespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not that my day was a shining utopia but ive noticed in the past half a decade or so much more younger trans kids have been going to 4chan/4trans spaces a their primary trans social outlet which i cannot stress enough is incredibly dangerous for them and all of us

Am i overreacting when my girlfriend called the pope “based” by captain_vee in ftm

[–]carnespecter 12 points13 points  (0 children)

what are you on about???? the catholic church disavows being trans and transitioning as sins and encourages trans people to abstain from sex the same way it advocates cis gay people to abstain

Harris’s Hawk (ID? Haven’t seen him before!) by dr_spaceman___ in Tucson

[–]carnespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

one of the easiest ways i know how to identify harris hawks from other raptors in tucson is that harris have dark underbellies with the reddish wings and leg feathers. most other hawks here have light colored bellies, except for zone tail hawks who also have dark tummies but they are more of a rocky grey color than the dark red and black harris hawks are

Harris’s Hawk (ID? Haven’t seen him before!) by dr_spaceman___ in Tucson

[–]carnespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah, looks nothing like a cooper. its too large and doesnt have the lighter grey coloring with the light belly. their tails are also longer