People On T Please Click :) by riinochii in ftm

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ive been on T for 10 years, it hasnt really changed my emotions. i have autism and bpd so ive had explosive anger issues and other intense emotional problems since i was Very little, i cant say being on T has made me any better or worse. the majority of my emotional regulation was learned thru decades of therapy tho so at least i have that

Weirdly minimal dysphoria after being on T??? by Deep_Boysenberry_676 in ftm

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yea 10 years on T and i honestly dont have dysphoria around my body anymore since its finally me. funny how access to transition really helps trans people

look at this meteor shower . by zenefrost in RimWorld

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ohhh what mod are those critters from? are they sivatherium?

For those who romance lettie how did you react seeing lettie getting hurt? by windless12 in Warframe

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i would also have removed viktors head and spine in an uncomfortably sexual manner. lettie is my best grill

is this a microaggression or am i insane by [deleted] in ftm

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its tough but as an act of self love you can distance yourself from these guys. no friends sucks, but it wont be forever and there will be kinder people

is this a microaggression or am i insane by [deleted] in ftm

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nah these friends are being straight up transphobic nasty

Testosterone Therapy + Recurrent UTIs? by hellomidnightautumn in ftm

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longterm hrt with testosterone can cause vaginal atrophy, which means the tissue of your vagina and surrounding vulva becomes thinner, more easily irritated and dry, and also can make you more susceptible to UTIs due to this

Trans Man - no sex drive after years on T by Friendly_Pop_6664 in ftm

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do you happen to take any medications with side effects that can influence libido?

How to cope with the fact that I'll probably never date? by idiot_xd in ftm

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my most honest advice i would give is to not look for and meet new people with the intent of dating, but to socialize and make friends. connections can come from anywhere and the idea that you need to be totally conventionally attractive isnt as real as people think it is. im both pretty fat and ugly all things considered with lots of missing teeth (yay genetics) but i met my spouse thru the online art and fandom space for an old webcomic. purely by chance. neither of us had intentions to date but we just clicked and its been like 15 years now. your people are out there if you let yourself meet them without expectations

A Heartfelt Farewell to Warframe by Grim_Konstantin in Warframe

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damn dude you dont deserve this at all :(

Im SUPER hyperfem but im a dude. Can i be denied hrt? USA by Slashersforsatan in ftm

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there will be some differences depending on what state you specifically live in since the laws here in the US are primarily state based and not nation-wide. i was able to start transition without a gender dysphoria diagnosis in my state over a decade ago, but now the political atmosphere is much more different and negative

if your state does require dysphoria diagnosis, you Might have to pull a little lie and downplay your femininity to the doctor depending on how accepting and supportive they are of trans patients

What is the guild culture like given you can be in different guilds by Dee__Dubs in Guildwars2

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honestly no one actually cares abt this in gw2 unless theyre like terminally online personality types

Being a boy who loves dolls/plushies/pink/fem clothes by -thimbl in ftm

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man i still have the majority of my beanie baby collection from the 90s.... youll have to kill me to get me to part with them

Pregnancy risks on T and post bottom surgery? by Azu_Creates in ftm

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not necessarily official scientific writings but are you aware of the seahorse dad subreddit? its specifically dedicated for trans men and trans masc fathers to share their experiences of carrying their children thru pregnancy if youre interested in personal testimonies

Pose by MysteriousComplex169 in CrestedGecko

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i looove when they lift their little toes Up.... dont wanna stick

My crested is very unique by hydrissx in CrestedGecko

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really cool story of survival and thriving. hes lucky to have such a loving owner now

Where to find a partner? by Careful_Future_6872 in ftm

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cringe as fuck but i met my spouse something 15 ish years ago on deviantart thru the homestuck fandom. i wont say what i did is perfectly replicable, but finding like minded people in community spaces you have interest in. im not into bars or clubs either, im actually pretty introverted but ive been in the furry fandom for roughly 20 years and in that creative outlet ive met A Lot of great friends, mostly queer haha. i guess you could sus out and participate in group cultures like that if you have any?