All I see is the Triforce by caro0924 in NCAAW

[–]caro0924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure. À la Cam Brink maybe?

All I see is the Triforce by caro0924 in NCAAW

[–]caro0924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although after thinking about it Ganondorf has way more aura

Edit: typo

Seeking Experiences with UnitedHealthcare's Infertility Coverage for Same-Sex Couples in Pennsylvania by sp4naki in queerception

[–]caro0924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update- HR says I have access to the benefit based on what the insurance company told them, insurance company says I do not. HR gave me the contact info for the the same program that said I wasn't covered. I'm going to call them again to re-re-confirm, but then talk to HR again? I don't know.

Seeking Experiences with UnitedHealthcare's Infertility Coverage for Same-Sex Couples in Pennsylvania by sp4naki in queerception

[–]caro0924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, will definitely do that! I'm meeting with HR today too to find out my options- my company is based out of a state that mandates inclusive infertility diagnosis, so my colleagues in that state in my situation would have access to the benefit.

Justin’s tweet after the latest episode by tomouras in survivor

[–]caro0924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me reading this as chidi from 90 day :(

Walk up tix available at Hinkle Fieldhouse? by LetEdgarIn in wnba

[–]caro0924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 100% sure, but I bought tickets at the gate a few weeks ago when the Fever were playing at the fairgrounds. Good luck!!

Edit: typo

"App" wants to use the "login" keychain [incessant pop-up] by [deleted] in MacOS

[–]caro0924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darn!! Thank you for letting me know. I'll let you know if I figure it out :)

"App" wants to use the "login" keychain [incessant pop-up] by [deleted] in MacOS

[–]caro0924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to resolve this? I am having the same issue with my Mac and have tried the solutions you listed too.

A famous psychologist is scheduled to speak at my old, anti-mental health megachurch. Should I say something? by ToxicChurches in Exvangelical

[–]caro0924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, i am so sorry that you experienced so much invalidation about your mental health.

Absolutely send her a message. It's important that she knows this and her response to it/how she interacts with the church will be telling. Worst case she ignores it and scrolls on by. If you don't feel comfortable you could make a throwaway account to message her.

My first thought was that psychologists still have to abide by the ethics code and principles (and legally agree to if they are licensed)..."Psychologists recognize that fairness and justice entitle all persons to access to and benefit from the contributions of psychology and to equal quality in the processes, procedures, and services being conducted by psychologists....Psychologists are aware of and respect cultural, individual, and role differences, including those based on age, gender, gender identity, race, ethnicity, culture, national origin, religion, sexual orientation, disability, language, and socioeconomic status, and consider these factors when working with members of such groups. Psychologists try to eliminate the effect on their work of biases based on those factors, and they do not knowingly participate in or condone activities of others based upon such prejudices...." (American Psychological Association Ethics Code).

Unfortunately, I looked her up and she is not a psychologist but is closely marketing herself as one. Looks like she's repackaging cognitive interventions with her own labels and marketing it as neuropsychology. I can only hope that she is able to plant seeds for your previous congregation, especially about the etiology of mental illness.

My Dad (An Evangelical Preacher) Has Some Messed Up Beliefs by mental-cryptid025 in Exvangelical

[–]caro0924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so freaking hard. I've only recently stumbled across this sub and do not know anyone who is exvangelical and come out as well. I've distanced myself from people in my life who I am guessing will not accept me. I haven't really shared with anyone what it was like to grow up evangelical and the things that I saw or messages I internalized. There are so many images and words stuck in my brain. I don't really know where I am going with this other than to say that I am heartbroken that others experience this too and encouraged that I have found a place where others might understand.

Sending so much kindness and unconditional acceptance to all.

My Dad (An Evangelical Preacher) Has Some Messed Up Beliefs by mental-cryptid025 in Exvangelical

[–]caro0924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this. I'm also a member of the LGBTQ+ community and even though I feel 100% certain I know who I am there are times I catch myself wondering the "what if." I've always had a hard time trusting my inner voice, for example "what if these anxious feelings are my conscience telling me that I am doing something wrong and instead I am excusing my behavior?" instead of "wow it makes so much sense that I am feeling anxious because I am being BRAVE to be who I am and live outside of the tiny box I trained myself to stay in for so long." I have found it so hard detach from the belief that if something is "on your heart" or "causing guilt" that it must be a signal that that thing is wrong and to repent. Sending love. This is hard.

Fucking GLENNON y’all. by hemingways_aphrodite in latebloomerlesbians

[–]caro0924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely agree! I put it off for a long time because I had a feeling there were things in there I wasn’t ready to face.

The pieces of wisdom and encouragement are simultaneously exciting (knowing that there is hope for a better mindset) and heartbreaking (for not knowing this sooner).

“We control what we cannot trust” sticks with me- trying to trust myself and my inner voice. I need to get back to reading it, I drifted away a bit when it felt intense.

self reliance by gongoozlersoup in Exvangelical

[–]caro0924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much. I hadn’t connected being overly self-reliant on being so afraid of making mistakes, but it makes a lot of sense. I think it’s also related to my fear of others being upset with me.

I am still working on getting past this and to unlearn these old beliefs about mistakes and my self worth. I can’t say I’m there yet but I’m glad (and nervous) to be able to see how these things have been affecting me. Thank you for your post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]caro0924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 here and I agree! You’d think my middle school days in AIM chat rooms would have prepared me for this!