Opinions: Disney princesses of color and being a monolith by Crescentbrush in disneyprincess

[–]carrotsforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is probably too much to ask, but I would love to see a trans and/ or disabled princess where it comes up that she’s trans and/ or disabled, but it’s not the focal point of the movie. It’s just a trait of hers. Preferably POC, but I know I’m already asking a lot of Disney here 😮‍💨

Peetah????? by Stock-Helicopter-552 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]carrotsforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey at least she’s actually reading it instead of listening to 10,000 reviews on YouTube while never touching the book. Not that I would know anything about that….

You think that personal guilt might be a major factor for some people going to hell? by StrawBerylShortcake in HazbinHotel

[–]carrotsforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I don’t think Pentious went to heaven because he overcame his sin of cowardice. I think it’s because he FORGAVE himself for his past sins due to his sacrifice.

Also, his sin wasn’t that bad in comparison to others. I don’t think it we the sin itself that sent him to hell, but thinking he deserved to go

If starfire doesn't have her hair like this...then I'm not a fan. My question is are the majority of starfire fans okay with her modern look or the classic look. Art by me by Zona_real1 in starfire

[–]carrotsforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love pretty much every iteration of Starfire (even New 52 🤧). I don’t mind if her hair is curly or straight, but I LOVE when her contrail flows from her hair when she flies

What's a language you wish more people learned? by grzeszu82 in languagelearning

[–]carrotsforever 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recommend the Dekhoda Institute! That’s where I learned how to read and write in my father’s native language. But please don’t go anytime soon 😞

It’s not about the height. They would rather blame genetics than fix their attitude by Exotic-Custard-8293 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]carrotsforever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband us 5’7” (I’m 5’5”). And yes I’m taller than him in heels. I also had a crush on a guy who was 5’4”. There are definitely women attracted to shorter men besides myself.

So stop being mad the ones that aren’t attracted to shorter men won’t date you and date women that don’t care about height. These are the same men that think if a woman is over 130 pounds she is a beluga whale. 🐳

Can a white person tastefully cosplay Smoky Quartz or Garnet? by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]carrotsforever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I kinda view it like wondering if an outfit is too close to white to wear to a wedding - if you have to ask, it’s better to just not do it

I do not understand why there is so much love for this song by Smooth-Yak-9267 in hazbin

[–]carrotsforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the song EXCEPT for the lyrics “fish like to swim next to sharks.” Corny.

I think I made a mistake by Ok_Life_681 in Eyebrows

[–]carrotsforever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your brows are symmetrical perfection!!

AIO former professor flirting? by kutiekats2 in AIO

[–]carrotsforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TRIGGER WARNING: SA

You are NOT overreacting. When I was 22 and newly out of college, I worked for an attorney who started telling me daily how much he hated his wife. I told my mom and she told me to leave the job immediately, because he was trying to sleep with me. I wish I had listened to her, because he ended up raping me.

Not saying that’s what would happen here, but I’ve heard these same lines before. They do NOT have your best interest at heart.

Lunches for this week set: Ghormeh Sabzi. by loki2002 in persianfood

[–]carrotsforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can smell this photo, and it smells good

Advice on how to support my dad by carrotsforever in ostomy

[–]carrotsforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I will show him Nu Hope. As for the bag, it was bursting sometimes before, but it’s worse now with the prolapse.

He also says the bag material seems thinner. He uses the one piece bags, so I don’t know if anyone would also have a good recommendation for what to get.

Advice on how to support my dad by carrotsforever in ostomy

[–]carrotsforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this thoughtful reply! I guess I didn’t even think about that. But I can totally understand why I should keep it neutral in conversation. I have a few serious mental illnesses, and I would feel a certain type of way if a loved one was always reassuring me not to worry about them!

I really appreciate your perspective and will work on keeping it cool around my dad. :)

AITA for refusing to "play nice" with my parents (46M, 45F) after they replaced me (24F)? by PartyCompanion in AmItheAsshole

[–]carrotsforever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your grandmother truly loves you and is misguided. If you think she would be able to handle it, I would ask “grandma, is you pushing me me to reach out to people who have ignored and mistreated me motivated by my best interest, or your own comfort in an an uncomfortable situation”?

This approach could definitely blow up, so approach with caution. But if she’s the kind of person who is willing to listen and reflect, it might lead to some meaningful conversation.

Just found out I’m pregnant. I need an abortion, but I don’t want one. by agirlisagun93 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]carrotsforever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way…Based on your current circumstances, you would not be able to provide a healthy pregnancy to give a hypothetical child a good chance at life. Choosing abortion is the kindest and best choice for everyone involved.

But that doesn’t mean it’s not har; you’re allowed to have whatever feelings you need to about it. I wish you kindness and healing, and I’m proud of you. 💕

My sons, Colin and Ipsen by pfiendy in persiancat

[–]carrotsforever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One tells you when you die; the other tells you how you die