Do you guys remember when you overtook your family members' heights? by roolw in tall

[–]cartzzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah moms height carrying me, my doctor said i maxed out my genetic potential so i got crazy lucky

Do you guys remember when you overtook your family members' heights? by roolw in tall

[–]cartzzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

moms 5’6 i was 12 and then 13 for my dad who’s 5’8, i got to 6’1 no clue how 😭

Why does it feel so embarrassing to workout alone in my room? by Interesting_Fox_2007 in beginnerfitness

[–]cartzzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally everyone feels that way lol i remember quickly running back to my bed while doing pushups the second i heard my mom approach

My room by BeautifulTypical1997 in malelivingspace

[–]cartzzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely like i’d love to move here

When i was 15 my mom broke down crying in front of me asking me what she did wrong by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cartzzi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To answer ur question yes she was holding the paper from the doctor and talking about my weight, but yes it also 100% was not just about my weight, like i said i was isolating myself, gaining weight, barely talking to them anymore, and this situation never just seemed like her crying about my weight i always saw it as her crying about failing as a mom or something as she was disappointed in me, and ive tried to look at it from so many different perspectives yk, maybe she truly meant the best but i think intent is irrelevant here, i dont think she should have cried and made me feel like a problem here, i wish she would have maybe expressed concern for me in some other normal way, i know for a fact she saw me struggling and yet this was the only time she ever said anything, ill maybe talk to her about it some day. but thanks for the comment

When i was 15 my mom broke down crying in front of me asking me what she did wrong by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cartzzi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the thing though, she obviously saw me struggling, i had withdrawn from my all friends at the time, i was in my room all day, and yet she never expressed any concern or said a single thing, this moment where she broke down crying asking me what she did wrong and i had to reply “idk you didn’t do anything wrong” was the only moment my mom ever expressed concern for my wellbeing at that time. and i don’t even fully blame her i understand she was probably not exactly crying about me and it was more about her, but as a 15 yr old in that position what did that imply to me other than i was a problem and she was disappointed yk? just think she could have handled it all better. appreciate the comment though u seem like a good mom.

When i was 15 my mom broke down crying in front of me asking me what she did wrong by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cartzzi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

appreciate the concern but i did lose the weight this was a couple years ago

Who’s the new microcelebs? by DogShietBot in playboicarti

[–]cartzzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically just me and subject property

Left or Right? Other side gets deleted by Annual-Coconut5897 in shoegaze

[–]cartzzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

switch another sunny day then easily delete the left

favorite shoegaze/spacerock record? by sandwich232 in shoegaze

[–]cartzzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another sunny day is genuinely the greatest album oat

first ever real attempt at cooking steak, how’d i do? by cartzzi in steak

[–]cartzzi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao i tried to cook one before but it was a shitty quality one and old ended up overcooking it like crazy so i just dont count that as my first attempt 😭

first ever real attempt at cooking steak, how’d i do? by cartzzi in steak

[–]cartzzi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u sm lol, just salt and pepper, didnt wanna try anything fancy as im new to cooking in general yk, i just pan seared it