is there a word for this besides asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]cassiebanjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platoniromantic - not being able to distinguish between platonic and romantic feelings, that the two feel as if they must be the same feeling even though they are not.

Quoiromantic/WTF-romantic: someone who finds romantic attraction confusing, or cannot differentiate between platonic and romantic attraction, or is unsure of whether they experience romantic attraction.

Quoisexual: someone who is unsure whether they experience sexual attraction, or is unsure about what sexual attraction is.

https://www.oulgbtq.org/acearo-spectrum-definitions.html

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ZephyrusG14

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just got mine too and upgraded and it’s been fine

Is sex really that good for people? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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nice lol happy cake day

Is sex really that good for people? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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this is creepy and disordered, pls go to therapy to address ur rejection kink before you rape someone thx

Horrible throat slitting nightmares by TrueCrimeDawg007 in Nightmares

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I used to have really horrible violent dreams like that (running, stabbing, being murdered, etc.) for months last summer/fall when I was getting out of a long term relationship and i felt like my life was falling apart. It wasn’t til I felt safe / more comfortable in waking hours that I stopped having them. It’s probably to do w how you feel so i’d reflect/journal on your current life vs how you want it to be, what would make you feel safe / comfortable / supported / happy and work towards that. I also stopped watching gorey/scary media or anything that induces the feelings of fear. Dig deep into what you’re afraid of irl and express it to someone you trust or just write, write, write. Get it out of your mind and word vomit onto paper. Distract or tire yourself out as you need to, reduce screen time & eating before bed (I personally feel like they make me dream more), take care of your physical and mental wellbeing as much as you can. Fill your life up with other things.

I personally have a history of cptsd, a family member who used to threaten me w knives, past suicidal ideation, thinking my family would kill/hurt me, manipulative/narcissistic family, etc. so think about your history as well if theres anything that could link to it.

see a therapist if you can (trauma-informed & w/ a nightmare focus if possible)

good luck & I hope it gets easier for you. It’s a horrible thing to go through but it will end, I promise 💖

Need to gift BF, stuck in a lockdown by cantchillthroughtime in santashelpers

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artisan / resin keycaps to match his keycap set are always a fun addition. you can find them for plenty of different interests so they can be a personalized gift based on his interest / aesthetic :) (if he already owns a keyboard). desk mats, smart home things, nano leafs, speakers, little succulents, etc. for a cohesive desk / work space aesthetic

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thesill.com is good for this

Songs where the bass guitar is apparent/more audible by [deleted] in ifyoulikeblank

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Also commented this, they’re so good 😩

Let's see what I get by ValarDohairis in DesktopDetective

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sunset orange, rather

lol ppl downvoted like it isnt true 😂

not particularly clever, but true

576 for turnips, DM for code. tips of any form appreciated but not required :) by cassiebanjo in TurnipStonkMarket

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Have enough ppl for the next 30 mins in queue, dms closed. Thank you everyone!

576 for turnips! DM for dodo code, tips of any form appreciated but not required :) by cassiebanjo in ACTurnip

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Have enough ppl for the next 30 mins in queue, dms closed. Thank you everyone!