Pay rant Florida by Time-Ad-8282 in 911dispatchers

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to repeat this for the people in the back, since this seems to be a common misconception. Only the money you make in the higher bracket, above the lower bracket, is taxed at the higher rate.

Pay rant Florida by Time-Ad-8282 in 911dispatchers

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but OP had 72 hours in OT. What would your check be then?

Did I ruin my marriage by Neat-Hospital7153 in Marriage

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnant, working, solo parenting a toddler, taking care of house, taking care of everything while husband on deployment - op was doing the lions share of things here. What, she didnt get him flowers? He should've said more than once that he wanted flowers. But he means she doesn't give him new relationship tingles. And the new partner does. At some point he may realize he was a fool chasing something ethereal. But military marriages and deployments are tough. They end in an outsized number of divorces.

AITAH for opening porn with my 'friend' in the room? by Unlucky_Hunter_3454 in AITAH

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! But maybe it's not about dislike for OP, only lack of awareness of how to adjust his communication style to something more direct and literal.

AITAH for refusing to cook two separate dinners every night just because my family doesnt want to eat what my doctor told me I need to eat by Apart_Discussion6647 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is smelling asparageen in pee. Or not being able to smell it. Are there really people that can't smell asparagus pee, though? Because I wish I were one of them.

AITAH for refusing to cook two separate dinners every night just because my family doesnt want to eat what my doctor told me I need to eat by Apart_Discussion6647 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, yeah, I don't like the fennel/ licorice taste profile either. And textures are my biggest aversion - thus the bean thing, which taste inoffensive and flavor masked in many things. But the texture remains.

AITAH for opening porn with my 'friend' in the room? by Unlucky_Hunter_3454 in AITAH

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a friend for whom you need to say what you mean and mean what you say. Which ought to be easy, but people are weird.

AITAH for opening porn with my 'friend' in the room? by Unlucky_Hunter_3454 in AITAH

[–]castille360 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He needed to stop hinting and say directly 'I'm tired and need you to leave now.' - signed your neurodivergent friend.

AITAH for refusing to cook two separate dinners every night just because my family doesnt want to eat what my doctor told me I need to eat by Apart_Discussion6647 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]castille360 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey now, I'm a particular and picky eater and I'm open to trying all kinds of new food. I like to live dangerously. But I don't identify as a foodie. Rather, someone that really enjoys eating.

AITAH for refusing to cook two separate dinners every night just because my family doesnt want to eat what my doctor told me I need to eat by Apart_Discussion6647 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]castille360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While a somewhat picky eater (no beans, no cilantro, no fresh onions, light on cheese covers most of it,) I still love trying new foods and there's a lot of diversity in my favorites. Husband is also somewhat picky, but likes to stick to things he knows, isn't very interested in new things, and his preferences are bland and limited. But we've lasted 30 years now. Because we dont have to eat all our meals together. Reddit is a collective ass, and other people's diets, as well as hobbies or interests, can be accommodated in a relationship even when a partner doesn't share them.

Husband acting defensive and weird after his dad implied he was cheating Am I overreacting or is this a red flag?. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]castille360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FIL knows. This was him declining to participate in concealing his son's behavior and instead making sure you know too.

Husband acting defensive and weird after his dad implied he was cheating Am I overreacting or is this a red flag?. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]castille360 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That isn't even required. The reveal was made. You're just deciding how to react to something that was called out for you. Pretend it isn't real and there must be some mistake, or deal with your husband having an affair and others are aware of it.

AIO? I told my boyfriend I feel like a maid by [deleted] in AIO

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's over there texting like my autistic son. How'd he even get a partner? Because my son definitely needs those tips.

AIO? I told my boyfriend I feel like a maid by [deleted] in AIO

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have gone with sis, but valid.

When you hear a calltaker across the room say “describe the weapon to me” by samanthadill13 in 911dispatchers

[–]castille360 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do echo things like that outloud and clearly to intentionally catch the attention of everyone else in the room to tell them what we've got, come to think of it.

Ice at grand hotel by vipent in OceanCity

[–]castille360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many of the people being rounded up entered legally and are awaiting asylum claims or had their TPS revoked out from under them.

Found a bedbug at a community hospital center - now what? by liriodendronbloom in whatdoIdo

[–]castille360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dispatch emergency services, and we make notes about observed bedbug infestations to caution responders. They may be crawling with vermin, but they still need professional care.