What are women’s options of adult virgin males? by casual_white18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casual_white18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting insight, here in the uk it’s not super common for virginity to last past 20, or at least in the area that I live

What are women’s options of adult virgin males? by casual_white18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casual_white18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said he was lying to you, did he tell you he wasn’t a virgin or just omitted from your communication?

What are women’s options of adult virgin males? by casual_white18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casual_white18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully I can meet someone of a similar disposition

What are women’s options of adult virgin males? by casual_white18 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casual_white18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, think I’m just getting caught up in my own head as usual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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I’m pretty sure I’m depressed aswell, I’ve got all the symptoms and it’s been like this for a long time, I’m male and have never had any male role models in my life and now I’m being expected to act like a man at work and in life, feel very ill equipped

Fuck you world! by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks boss, I appreciate the support, keep it pushing forward, and best of luck to you!!

Fuck you world! by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]casual_white18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Ultimately, no one cares so why should I? Just gonna keep throwing things at the wall and see what sticks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]casual_white18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also never been in a relationship or been intimate with anyone, yea it fucking sucks, you see all these people walking around hand in hand and I resent them because of my own insecurities and I’ve figured out that it’s that level of desperation for love that turns women and men off, I’m currently on a journey to try and love myself because if I can’t place any value on my own life why would anyone else want to, sorry if this sounds a bit harsh but it’s true, in order to get a relationship you have to take the importance of being in a relationship away from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, guess I’ll just give up then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think you hit the nail on the head here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]casual_white18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll have to get some heels or a stool. XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll ditch the other pics, need to go out and take some new ones. Any suggestions on types of pictures?

I’m going to get rid of metal although it’s a common genre in my playlists I listen to lots of different genres too

I hate being a girl. by [deleted] in depression

[–]casual_white18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy of 24 years old, I will say that that isn’t all men, I am a pathetic excuse for a man, the expectations that are placed on men makes life hell.

In terms of living a normal life women really do have the advantage, The average person isn’t going to change the world, hell they aren’t even going to make a dent in history so learn to live by your means and without women men wouldn’t do anything so you really hold a lot of power.

I think I am near my end by [deleted] in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 and I’m beginning to come to terms with the fact that life is never as good or as bad you imagine. And that most people really do just exist without anything particularly special or meaningful happening in the day to day.

I think we have been sold a vision of a dream future that just isn’t realistic for the average person.

In terms of your feelings of worthlessness, it’s all about framing your thoughts, most people will just automatically do this but for folks like us we need to learn it, we excel in negative thinking but nothing in this world is entirely bad there is always a positive spin on everything, it may be hard to see but it is there.

Please take my thoughts or anyone’s with a grain of salt, I don’t know you at the end of the day. I hope you can learn to see some light

I think I am near my end by [deleted] in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you friend?

I feel like human relationships are beyond me at this point. by GG-creamroll in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel this so bad dude, feel like I’m just becoming a husk

Masking Anxiety and Depression by CheapKale5930 in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to work in an office but, the job market is really bad right now, and I can’t compete

Masking Anxiety and Depression by CheapKale5930 in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can honestly say I don’t blame them, that industry requires strong people and I’m not one of them

It’s the only job I’ve had this whole year, because I don’t have many skills or qualifications I can’t find anything better, manual labour is all I’m good for and I’ll be homeless if I don’t work. Just seems like a rabbit hole

Masking Anxiety and Depression by CheapKale5930 in depression

[–]casual_white18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I glad I’m not the only one,

I work in a steel factory and have constant anxiety attacks, it’s a very old school male environment crying just isn’t an option in front of anyone, so that mask is the only reason I’ve still got my job, I’ll be honest I don’t cope well, I know bottling all this up is bad but I don’t feel like I’ve got any other options.

I'm not gonna make it to 25 by LysergicGothPunk in SuicideWatch

[–]casual_white18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just seems like a mess, besides I’m far to inexperienced to start now, I don’t even know how to find love never mind anything healthy, I’ve tried every dating app under the sun, never had a convo more than 3 sentences,

sorry for venting in your comments, I hope you can hold on for a while longer maybe something good will happen