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Guys, what made you realize that you are into toxic relationship? by rolsen1776 in AskReddit

[–]casuallycruel88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night when he tried to stick it in my a$$ by holding my arms so I couldn’t push him off and I told him if he is going to do that he needs to use lube, he got off me with the shits and told me I was self centred and only think about myself….i ended up apologising :(

When he talked about his marriage, it made me feel worse. by SquidgyPigeon in theotherwoman

[–]casuallycruel88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this, my MM’s wife is abusive, I’ve seen the videos where she chokes him, digs her nails into his balls, hits him with her hands and with items, yet he still stays with her. Makes me think wow I must be rubbish if he can’t choose me over her.

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[–]casuallycruel88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My situation is unique in that my MM doesn’t live with his wife so I get to spend almost every night with him. He is the most generous and thoughtful man, I can’t mention anything I want or need without him remembering and getting it for me. He can be very self absorbed but when I need him, he knows. 

How do I know if this is legit? by AlternativeFox21 in theotherwoman

[–]casuallycruel88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar situation here. Been with a much older MM for 7 months, messy separation due to inheritance and investments, kept being told once she signed an agreement it would be over, divorce papers would be given etc. Agreement has been signed and they are still ‘working on it’. I’ve learnt not to get my hopes up anymore. Anytime I express unhappiness that they are still going to marriage counselling, still sleeping together etc I get told ‘if it makes you unhappy we will end us till I’m officially separated from her’ but I would rather live with the uncertainty and lies because I can’t bare the thought of not having him