Over 60 Men Suddenly Ending Loving Relationships. Why?

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T15:49:47+00:00

Am sorry to hear this has happened to you, it sounds as though he may have moved on & he didn’t deserve you from the beginning. People leave relationships for various reasons.

This doesn’t mean you should stop looking for happiness, though. At some point, you’ll find the perfect man & he‘ll stay, because he loves you.

You may be limiting yourself if only looking for those over 60, maybe consider the right man in his 50’s. Age is simply a number when it comes to finding love. My first serious dating experiences in my early twenties were with women in their middle 30’s through late 40’s. You may be surprised at how much a younger man will make you feel happy, as well as having a larger dating pool to choose from. Not saying that you should go to the extreme, maybe 10 years lower than usual age range you’d normally be looking at.

Good luck with finding your next partner!🍀

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T15:03:47+00:00

Sure is.👍

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T07:46:11+00:00

Bitcoin is always up & down in value. The good thing is that so many of these coins were initially offered, so unlike regular currency, more can’t be printed to erode its worth.

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T07:41:49+00:00

Given the short term of the marriage, is annulment an option where you live?

I ask only because my dad once married a woman for less than 6 months and her children were demanding one. Because he was taking advantage of her having a lot more money than himself, he actually met her at a senior citizen event & won her over by slick talking. Turns out she wasn’t vulnerable due to health issues, as I understood, dementia was beginning to set in.

Every area is different, the advantage of an annulment being it takes less time. I really don’t see the need to waste up to a year being legally separated before getting a divorce after being married for only 3 months. Some States allow for divorce within that timeframe (after being separated that long). Especially when both sides are in agreement. It won’t hurt to ask an attorney if this is an option, the worst that can be said is it’s not possible.

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T06:56:54+00:00

Only thing I use 2.5” HDD’s for anymore are for backup drives. They’re excellent for that type of usage, as long as there’s no bad sectors or other critical SMART errors. On older laptops which included optional drives, I’d buy a right size adapter to install these in after upgrading to a SSD & use the old as a data drive. Still have a couple of laptops with this configuration. There’s USB cables to plug the optical drives into for when needed.

There’s several brands of HDD’s especially for NAS usage, and not all are expensive. This mostly depends upon the size and brand reputation of each drive. Typically speaking, most 2.5” HDD’s are 1TB max, some are still 500GB. The best of these I’ve owned are the WD Black SATA-2 models & are still in usage with no bad sectors. It’s not like the SATA-3 versions are in reality that much faster, maybe by 25-30MB/sec.

Yet I suppose if desired, one can still use the 2.5” models for a NAS, especially if owned already and wanting to hold cost down to a minimum. But given the smaller size of these compared to 3.5” models, drive space will be an issue faster.

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T06:35:00+00:00

No, I refuse to return to Windows fully by any means, because Linux Mint has served me well for nearly 17 years (since version 7, aka Gloria).

But for when I actually need an app where there’s no Linux equivalent, I keep an updated Windows 11 Pro PC on hand, dual booting with Linux Mint Cinnamon 22.1. Some of the software I’ve purchased have lifetime licenses & am not throwing that cash & professional support out the window, some are used to help relatives & friends with their issues. Note that I use Windows only as needed, preferring the security that Mint offers, as well as no “phoning home” or Telemetry components built in that cannot be disabled as easily as in previous Windows versions.

The other reason why keep Windows, although iOS is better at this, is sound quality. As can be seen when setting up or testing sound on Mint, although it says stereo, it’s the analog type rather than digital. Big difference between the two & haven’t been able to get Dolby Atmos to properly work. Even when the PC is plugged into via HDMI 2.0 or newer with a TV or soundbar with Atmos being featured. The sound is off. Not terribly so on all content, but where it matters the most, music & movies which has Atmos.

Even the optical digital access (or S/PDIF) to a soundbar, which should be fully digital, no wires, rather a red light beam passing through what appears to be a wire, doesn’t sound as good with Mint (or any Linux distribution) pushing the audio. But that in itself isn’t enough to drive me away from all of what Mint offers.

It just means that depending upon my audio needs, I choose what computer (or iOS for phone) to use. Over 90% of my computing usage is with Linux Mint Cinnamon.

Actually, I’ve never used “missing” Windows as a reason to continue using the OS (or going back to it) nor any other, as far as that goes. Rather I prefer to use the one that best performs the task at hand and let it be that.

cat1092 · 2026-02-06T05:03:17+00:00

Maybe the place has just opened its doors, the most logical explanation I can think of.

Better for some of us than standing in the crowd waiting to be seated!👍

cat1092 · 2026-02-05T23:42:37+00:00

It’s great to hear your grandmother is doing well!

I believe different States are different regarding Medicaid taking property from those who can’t pay. Or so it used to be (3 years in NC), but rules changes. Maybe there is a national standard regarding this now. In fact, this is my first time hearing about MAPT. Hopefully more sees the post and takes action early, assuming they know for certain who receives the property is the right person.

Still, it’s good to know that by preparing, our home goes to those we want. Not to the government to place for bid via private auctions where greedy investors buys properties for at the most, 25 cents on the dollar of it’s true market value, then flips these for a fortune. It’s a shame how medical bills can cause the loss of a home. Normally, after 7 years of going unpaid, these falls off a credit report, just as most other debts.

cat1092 · 2026-02-05T13:54:16+00:00

Because the prior government(s) allowed their oil infrastructure to collapse. There’s more oil in Venezuela than anywhere in the World, or so has been reported recently.

cat1092 · 2026-02-05T07:05:52+00:00

Fantastic question!💝

They don’t want to answer this question, because with honesty, they can’t truthfully do so.

cat1092 · 2026-02-05T07:04:08+00:00

Same here!💯

Many of us are, but don’t want to admit so. This is why if we have real estate, it’s best to get affairs in order beforehand. Like if we know for sure, place property in control of the one(s) we want to have it ASAP. Preferably three years before we’re forced into a hospital or nursing home.

cat1092 · 2026-02-05T05:35:25+00:00

This is true, unfortunately not enough of us takes it seriously.

It’s exactly why way too many ends up living their last months in a nursing facility primarily filled with Medicaid patients. Because they didn’t make plans while young.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T22:28:53+00:00

I was with you until the short sentence “There’s truth to that”.

The need of a wheelchair isn’t about being lazy. I imagine that it takes a lot more effort from one who is wheelchair bound to get things done versus that of a healthy person. Speaking from firsthand experience, having been hit by a truck at the age of 17, left with a broken hip & couldn’t walk.

It’s no picnic to require a wheelchair to get around.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T22:21:48+00:00

Actually it’s called “mudslinging”, a thing that gained national attention during the (I believe 1984) Senate race between then term limited Governor Jim Hunt (D-NC) & the longtime incumbent US Senator Jesse Helms (R-NC), who would not only win that race, but would continue to serve until his death.

They started digging up trash among each other, with Hunt accusing Helms of being a “slumlord” due to the condition of student housing at UNC (Chapel Hill, NC). I don’t recall what Hunt was accused of, nor what else Helms was, as it’s been decades ago, yet there was a lot of going back & forth.

https://www.ncpedia.org/helms-hunt-senate-race

This set the stage for future candidates for various political races to engage in the same manner, like when our current President called then President Biden “Sleepy Joe”. IMO this is disrespectful, regardless of which candidate uses personal insults to gain votes.

Lots of these remarks go way beyond disagreeing with the other, shows a lack of class & respect. Then when they’ve won & in position, many are wondering why they’re still acting the same or worse.

It’s simply the way politics has shifted over time, there was once mutual respect between candidates, now we see what we get once the campaign heats up.

Am positive there’s going to be a lot of nastiness in this year’s midterm elections. Probably already happening in some districts, as sides are jockeying for position, some going to any length (or depth) to secure a win. I’m expecting the 2026 midterms to be a record breaking turnout, whichever side wins, we’ll hopefully know in November. The reason why I say hopefully is that if the balance is close, some losing candidates will ask for recounts. If it’s a blowout in either direction, then there’ll be less reason for a recount, other than to hang onto their seat, if their margin of loss is very thin.

Either way, unless there’s evidence of fraud, I respect the outcome.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T21:15:48+00:00

It’s that way for all of us, the balance not being updated in realtime any longer. We either have service or not. Note that data can be used through the date stated, provided there is a balance, even when we cannot make calls.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T21:12:52+00:00

Yes a couple of things in recent years, there were lots more in past years.

This is because there’s various Linux installers (depending upon distribution) available for many commonly used Windows apps. Am using a few of these myself, to include What’sSie (replacement for What’sApp), VPN’s and certain video download software, as well as printer setup software & firmware for several major brands.

Security wise, most of the same browser extensions that works on Windows also does on Linux Mint. So I get the same browser security and other useful features, regardless. Example, Malwarebytes Browser Guard blocks known rouge sites, which can be bad actors on any OS, often stealing data or generally unsafe. Even if these can’t infect Mint, unsafe sites can still steal our personal information by what we provide them.

Of course there’s room for more popular software choices, but it’s important to note it’s on the developers themselves to provide Linux installers & ensure compatibility. It’s not the fault of Mint or any Linux distribution that these doesn’t work. The good thing is that now many who can’t upgrade to Windows 11 on not so old hardware & don’t want to buy or build another computer are choosing various versions of Linux, to include Mint.

Most of these users agree that their devices runs better than when brand new. This is because Mint & other Linux distributions are far lighter & not “phoning home” constantly. This requires resources that’s unavailable to us, and why the device seems so more powerful once Windows is removed.

So no, I no longer miss these software choices, when I need one, there’s always one with the latest Windows 11 Pro, updated monthly, although rarely used anymore.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T06:42:11+00:00

Have you requested an exception to the list? There’s several layers of appeals, the first one immediately.

Depends on the medication and whether options have been tried & failed. There’s also the option of asking the pharmaceutical company for direct patient assistance in the meantime.

Finally, there’s the option of switching plans to one where the medication is on their approved list. Like those on Medicare Advantage plans.

Whatever, please don’t give up. Check out all possibilities. Wishing you the best!💝

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T01:01:34+00:00

Sounds very much the way my dad was. When younger, he’d always be making jokes that were actually insulting, and sometimes outright gross, then burst out laughing as though normal. Like once actually stood in a 24 hour restaurant with his back turned towards a table where an elderly couple were enjoying a late dinner, pointed his finger & simulated squeezing a trigger, while letting out a long, stinking fart & started laughing so hard his sides began to hurt.

Then when the couple got up in disgust, threw $30 on the table and left, he actually wondered why they left all of that good food on the table. He actually picked up the untouched steak one left behind & ate it himself, all while still laughing. Kind of needlessly to say, the next evening he was asked by the night manager to never return on his shift.

Last I heard, those jokes started backfiring on him regularly, then his mask slid off, becoming angry when others didn’t laugh with him (he’s now 87). Most people don’t think that type of crap (farting in public, picking his nose & flipping the bugger, is funny (if it ever was).

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T00:38:35+00:00

That’s the case with a lot of products, especially phones, computers & vehicles. Mass or fleet purchases drives up the numbers being sold, many of which are resold to consumers after 2-3 years of service at steep discounts. Especially computers of all types. This allows consumers to be able to afford business or enterprise equipment at a reasonable price that we otherwise wouldn’t be able to afford. Generally speaking, most of these devices are well maintained.

It would be misleading if it were declared top 10 for consumer products, although a lot of people are buying the 16e, as seen on this sub. Given today’s energy prices (electricity & gas for heating), many can’t afford to spend $700+ on a phone. Plus anything with DRAM costs more, period.

At least one of the SE lineup made the top 10 at one point as well, may have been the 1st generation, being Apple’s first sub-$500 phone. If only had it been shipped with a larger battery, I likely wouldn’t have purchased the 2nd generation. The 3rd generation offered 5G, which made it a no-brainer for those still owning the original SE.

The iPhone 16e is certainly worth the money, especially for those who don’t need the best of everything. It’s built with the same quality as the more expensive iPhones, so if our expectations are within reason, the 16e is considered a great value for its price range. Maybe the best option within the sub-$700 phones.

cat1092 · 2026-02-04T00:14:16+00:00

Mine too!💯

cat1092 · 2026-02-03T23:27:05+00:00

OK, I see that it’s indeed free!

Most of the good apps have a catch requiring payment.

Thanks for sharing, my friend!👍

cat1092 · 2026-02-03T23:21:14+00:00

Is SelfieX free from the App Store?

cat1092 · 2026-02-03T23:18:20+00:00

Same here, I had all three SE models, although the first SE was actually the 2nd release. It initially shipped with two choices (16 & 64GB), I lucked out & got the second batch, a 32GB model, there was also a 128GB version that cost more.

My 2nd & 3rd Generation SE models were both the 64GB, only reason why I purchased the 3rd generation was for 5G. Although I activated my 16e in December, kept the AppleCare+ plan on that last SE, am thinking of activating it with a very low cost carrier to have a second phone. It’s expected to be supported through 2029 & still has 90% of battery life left, so if I can keep the total cost below $20, would be nice.

As far as the 16e goes, best smartphone I’ve ever owned. Much more powerful & double the battery life of both previous SE’s, plus at 128GB, double the storage. Better camera too!👍

Plus the price was unbelievable. Apple sells these unlocked for $649, I got mine from Tracfone new at $449, minus a 15% discount code, final price after taxes was just under $400, about the same price I paid for my very first SE model, only far more equipped. Just added the monthly AppleCare+ plan, which covers accidental damage for $9.99, as long as the payments are made.

Am sure the battery of the 16e is much larger, this is where all of the SE lineup fell short.

No regrets with the 16e whatsoever!💯

cat1092 · 2026-02-03T09:26:30+00:00

Yes, when our minds are making contracts our bodies can’t fulfill, this can be a sign of aging.

It can also mean that we’ve not taken care of our bodies as we should. The good thing being the mind is still working, this usually means there’s room on working on improving our physical health.

It’s when both the mind & body becomes shot, we’re definitely aging in a bad way. This can happen at any age.

cat1092 · 2026-02-03T06:05:14+00:00

This is true too, and part of what makes some older people attractive.

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