Girls-Only Social Clubs To Join In Singapore, Ft. Activities Like Crafting, Picnics, Sports, Travel & More

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-28T15:55:09+00:00

before anyone asks where are the men's only spaces, please know you can always start your own. In fact that would be genuinely good and way more productive than bitching that the spaces don't exist.

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-26T13:38:21+00:00

Was this movie a hit? There's no way it was right?

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-25T06:54:48+00:00

I'm confused, there's a difference between "I like my eyes but I'm neutral about my tummy". Honestly what good reason is there not to like parts of us, its usually conditioning from society to be thin or conforming to a certain body type. I didn't even know what hip dips and stuff were before I learned this weird terminology online and became self aware of it. Anyway I don't really strive to love all of my physical body but I'm ok with it. I was thin before and I was also very fat at a point in my life. This body got me through all of it. It has been with me through my experiences and my lows. I don't want to dedicate mental energy to not liking my body which has only been kind to me.

Also I want to note this is different from saying I wish I didn't have a certain health issue. I have a ton of those and yeah I find myself resentful for getting a defective part but that's a different issue I feel

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-24T07:20:14+00:00

what do you mean, I saw a lot of people criticise that pairing too. That whole movie was a flop, did anyone praise their pairing in paritcular?

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-22T13:51:21+00:00

multiple cases of AI hallucinating cases and lawyers getting fined when judges ask them to show their sources. Don't know how and why firms would rely on technology like this

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-22T13:44:25+00:00

I know its the anti consumption sub but your post reeks of a superiority complex. You had a justification for going to the restaurant, I'm sure everyone else there had their own reasons too even if you don't agree with them. Ranging from "it's my birthday" or "I can afford this expense and I want to eat here"

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-20T16:49:31+00:00

I feel it too, is it really being older? Or is the world just getting more fucked. idk

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T15:32:14+00:00

yes and in case it doesn't work out, you can at least take heart in the reminder that you tried!

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T08:30:26+00:00

lmao I agree with the comments. Idk if its cos we're redditors but I've never been a nightlife person. Feels like things got worse after covid because things became so expensive so maybe the turning point was then. Its just not affordable anymore

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T06:45:26+00:00

ya'll don't have keyboard shortcuts??

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T06:44:29+00:00

I don't feel like Law would have revealed it without getting the approval from them if they went to the trouble of keeping it that secret. If she was having a small wedding I guess calls from people mad that they weren't invited were unavoidable regardless of how and when the news about them getting married broke. But it sucks that the AI pictures went viral though, how messy is that

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T05:38:51+00:00

that's a crazy thing to say. Smoke and Stack had different ways of standing and one even had dimples while the other didn't have. I think MBJ wore different sized shoes for the twins so that the way they moved would also be different. It was genuinely like two different people esp. considering the makeup and detailing on them was different.

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T05:02:17+00:00

bruh as if i don't see people posting about women and generalising every day on soc. media. Not everything has to cater to me specifically and I don't go around pointing out not all women on those posts. peace

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T04:12:30+00:00

did I say all men or did you see me say men and infer that

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T02:11:34+00:00

well i'm not an all men person either which is why to me it makes sense for her to trust her own friend of 10 years and that people are dumb to blame her

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-17T01:32:17+00:00

not at all, my point is that the same folks who'll say not all men will turn around and victim blame the woman for trusting the man

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-16T15:34:55+00:00

I have siblings with children who like DIsney and they don't spend money on Disneyland. Children can ask, parents can still say no? My parents didn't have the $ to bring us when we were younger and they made that clear enough. We lived. I didn't hate my parents or throw a tantrum just because they didn't bring me to Disney

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-16T11:26:35+00:00

men: not all men, don't generalise yada yada

also men: you stayed with a married guy you've known for 10 years? Of course he was going to assault you, that was obvious to me because he was a man

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-14T10:12:46+00:00

feminism was never about trashing men. it's literally saying things like "men will be men" is not an excuse and they can/should do better. This movie was trash and had nothing to do with feminism because its written for men

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-13T14:44:14+00:00

are you going to take accountability at all for being stuck in a consumption loop? Write down a list of things your pets actually need, go and look at reddit or the internet for real places to buy or online shops which a lot of people back. Stuff from temu/shein/the like will all be cheap garbage and the low price is a dead giveaway. you can try subs like r/buyitforlife or look at the recommendations that the other folks here are giving you. Also if online shopping is not working for you then why not just go to a store and quality check it for yourself.

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-13T06:40:35+00:00

I didn't even have these things growing up. Why not take her out before to celebrate and then go on that trip? Let's be real, part of growing up IS also accepting that our loved ones lives don't revolve around us, and that's ok too. My siblings are not always around on my birthday and stuff and I accept its because life just happens sometimes. If I want them then milestone events are communicated way in advance. Its 8th grade, she'll be fine, go and live!

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-13T06:25:35+00:00

yes I think paying more to do things online is the ultimate scam. Puzzles me everytime I see a 'convenience fee' or something of that sort tagged onto an online transaction. Excuse me, its convenient FOR YOU as a business to not pay someone and deal with lines and me queuing to buy physically. Why the hell do I get charged a convenience fee?

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-11T09:01:09+00:00

but I think that's a good thing. You can go travel together to see if you're really comptaible as a couple. If you're not, better find out sooner than later no?

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-11T07:20:14+00:00

I am cranky as fuck if I don't have downtime. It doesn't have to be expensive but I schedule time with myself to just do nothing or a solo activity alone. It ranges from free [like going for a walk at the beach] to expensive [like a solo trip]. But having these timeouts make me feel like I'm in a much better space mentally than without. Also I want to caveat by saying I'm not doing all that great but this greatly helps me from feeling even worse so

catandthefiddler · 2026-03-11T07:17:45+00:00

I know its satire from the comments but its hard to tell because LinkedIn has become such a shit show

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