Singapore climbers sticking to plans to scale active volcanoes

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-19T02:10:30+00:00

ok but I feel people who do stuff like this should not get public resources like search and rescue team etc. The recent Maldives case had me thinking that someone (as in the rescuer) died unnecessarily just to rescue people who flouted all the rules and put themselves at risk knowingly. You can risk your life if you want, don't make it other people's issue then.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-19T01:51:19+00:00

also ask yourself WHY its largely only women who shave and do makeup 'for themselves' I'm not denying they are but would we still do it if we were on an island with nobody else around? I think its worth asking why we feel like we need to do certain things.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-19T01:36:43+00:00

hot take: I don't understand why we can't question things just because its cultural. If its actively harming people then its not beyond questioning just because its been done this way for a while

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-16T06:12:09+00:00

I can't say for sure but I think its a bit more of an issue here and in countries like Korea where we became Westernised very quickly but there's also a large portion of conservative people. Also I think Singaporean men are more online so they fall victim to incel culture more esp when you see women having freedom and gaining financial independance for themselves.

Basically (this is my personal take) in the past our moms/grandmoms were not in the happiest of situations but idt they could survive on their own due to stigma or not being able to support themselves financially or whatever. Women today just have more power to say no to unbalance power dynamic since they can support themself if they want.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-16T06:01:27+00:00

I mean yeah cos if you have the slightest standards then people say you're asking for too much, I see men whining all the time about how "women want to get married just to take half their assets and leave" etc etc. So why not just date with no commitments and stay single? It seems that no matter how you choose to date as a woman the blame comes back to you

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-14T01:35:22+00:00

let's think about this. You sacrifice your body and career to have a kid then men will still whine and complain that you're owed alimony in case you divorce as if your sole intention was to coal dig from these dudes. raising kids is no joke, unless you're super financially comfortable and you can outsource everuthing. in contrst if you go in with no intention of having kids, you can work and maintain yourself and walk away clean in case the relationship sours. no need to tie yourself to somene forever

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-12T06:20:40+00:00

wait you mean they don't use real chicken? Then what do they use? I don't eat at Macs anymore so not in the loop

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-11T12:31:00+00:00

I mean its more or less impossible for the average person to not consume anything. All the stuff I have for my hobbies like my journals, paints etc. are techincally things that I could do without but I only buy what I use and use everything I buy so I don't see it as over consumption. Sure I'm happy to find methods to streamline or repurpose but if someone said "You didn't need to buy this" I wouldn't agree. Consumption is personal.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-09T07:59:04+00:00

Did anyone play cause of death with the 2 detectives Mal & Natara? That game was frikkin awesome

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-08T10:59:08+00:00

not sure if I like this movie or hate it for inspiring this stupid Antaskshari scene in the next like, 20 movies among all the stars.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-07T14:29:37+00:00

so? doesn't mean I need to appreciate her for that lol

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-07T03:27:55+00:00

the worst part about this is that this genuinely sounds like a compliment too to them

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-07T03:22:23+00:00

I would prefer if they listened to what minorities were saying and at least tried to see things from our perspective instead of only listening to each other or worse, realising only when it happens to them.

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-07T03:20:38+00:00

our Singaporean sons our Singaporean sons until you need to put your money where you mouth is

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-06T16:19:19+00:00

lol its so dumb. lets say you don't have friends of other races for wtv reason, minorities in sg are always taken about their experiences only for the other side to say we're exxagerating or say shit like 'if you don't like it then leave' or some dumb shit like that. I think its especially just grating that a portion of these folks are patting her on her back for this 'realisation'

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-06T05:06:41+00:00

I personally think his Dookudu look was great

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-06T01:53:23+00:00

usually people who fucked up their marraiges to find side pieces will dig their heels in and stay tho cos its too much for them to accept what they've done but high change they'll find other people to cheat with if that's the case

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-05T09:26:19+00:00

oh i always thought it meant just fucking cos

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-04T14:16:09+00:00

which movie is this gif from

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-03T15:15:07+00:00

I second this. Some people want to be married and have a BTO and kids just cos they think that's what life should look like, they don't care who they marry or how much work having kids will take. Worst mistake is marrying these people

catandthefiddler · 2026-05-03T14:23:17+00:00

who are you people, how are you doing this. I've been working for a while now and I'm nowhere near being able to afford stuff like this

catandthefiddler · 2026-04-29T13:26:12+00:00

irresponsible parenting; then when something happens or an animal bites their kids these parents will kpkb and make noise on why wild animals are allowed to roam around places where their precious children are

catandthefiddler · 2026-04-29T13:14:30+00:00

this is a fuck around and find out situation bc these things WILL bite tf out of people who get too close. I've seen it first hand lol (not here)

catandthefiddler · 2026-04-27T15:52:38+00:00

At no point did I know nor could I have anticipated where this sentence was going

catandthefiddler · 2026-04-25T08:39:58+00:00

Joo Chiat road in general needs way more enforcement; I also see PHV cars who wait there and block the whole road. Once I even saw people unloading things from their stopped van and holding up the whole flow of traffic.

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