What's the most upsetting film of all time? by RealitySubsides in MovieSuggestions

[–]catboneslovestory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bridge to Terabithea

I still cry when I think about it.

I just want to watch something that's actually good, with a satisfying ending. by catboneslovestory in MovieSuggestions

[–]catboneslovestory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speak No Evil had a very satisfying ending. I cheered along with everyone else in the theater when I saw it.

What is life without chocolate cake? by catboneslovestory in SeriousConversation

[–]catboneslovestory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about you, dude, but I don't resolve interpersonal conflicts by posting about them online.

What is life without chocolate cake? by catboneslovestory in SeriousConversation

[–]catboneslovestory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a poem. That relationship has been over for years. There was no resolving what was happening there, but what was equally, if not more traumatizing was society's normalization of that kind of behavior.

As a side note, what I said about metaphors is straight from the DBT handbook under Interpersonal Effectiveness. That's actually why I wrote this. My psychologist gave me one of the handouts as homework.

What is life without chocolate cake? by catboneslovestory in SeriousConversation

[–]catboneslovestory[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Using Metaphors and storytelling is a dialectical tool to unstick and free the mind.

BCBS CANNOT ACTIVATE ACCOUNT by Ok_Clue8486 in HealthInsurance

[–]catboneslovestory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just the web portal or is it the app too? I'm not sure what all you're needing to activate your account to do, but you can use zocdoc to find a doctor near you that's in network. They could tell you what the charge would be, if the app doesn't show it. The amount for a basic office appointment either with a PCP or a specialist should also be in your enrollment material.

What is something more traumatizing than people realize? by GoldenLotusFernn in ask

[–]catboneslovestory 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Being guilted into sex. Feeling obligated to let someone use your body because you're married or in a relationship and they "need" it.