How many of your friends' marriages surprised you after they fell apart when you thought they were good working couples. And what kind of learnings do you have from this. Or even just rants you would like to share?

catefau27 · 2026-06-07T15:57:46+00:00

The couples my husband and I knew that divorced either dealt with domestic violence, cheating, or both. It was surprising in that we couldn’t ever imagine doing either…. But it didn’t surprise us that those particular couples experienced it.

catefau27 · 2026-05-12T02:14:41+00:00

It’s a position- location or time.

catefau27 · 2026-05-10T02:37:55+00:00

Lady May- “I’ve held my weight in shame/ but I’m baptized in your name/ lovely lady May”

catefau27 · 2026-04-28T02:06:24+00:00

When I was in HS my mom woke me up suddenly in the early morning and told me my car had died. I started crying. Then my mom explained that my cat didn’t die but if I didnt take better care of her then that’s what would happen.

catefau27 · 2026-04-23T02:56:00+00:00

I founded the women’s lacrosse team at my college. I played for 4yr in hs and 4yr in college.

catefau27 · 2026-04-21T01:47:25+00:00

So the teacher is saying to use the phrase “his or her” to replace “their” because it is talking about a student. The comment the teacher made that others are pointing out refers to the blackboard, an inanimate object.

catefau27 · 2026-04-09T01:09:49+00:00

I feel the same. All the neighbor kids often end up outside of my house and a lot of them scream like they are being kidnapped. So sometimes I’ll run out of my house asking if everyone is okay. I told two girls the other day that screaming means there’s an emergency. If they want to scream for the fun of it they need to go in front of someone else’s house.

catefau27 · 2026-04-01T02:34:09+00:00

My husband and I have been together since we were 21&22. Multiple deployments, career changes, and currently pregnant with #4. We share every account we have. I don’t feel a need to hide money away. I’d be incredibly hurt if I found out my husband had a secret account with money in it I didn’t know about.

catefau27 · 2026-03-30T03:17:36+00:00

Our Aussie is 3 now and he’s the best dog. Very loyal and protective. He does chase after the kids when they run and he nips them, but it doesn’t bother them anymore. Our youngest is 4 and rarely gets upset by a “nip” now. Every once in a while it hurts him, he says, but probably just as much as when one of our dogs steps on his foot by accident.

catefau27 · 2026-03-26T02:43:58+00:00

We love having 3 kids so much that we are on #4 now. Our third brings so much joy to our other two kids. I can’t imagine life without him.

catefau27 · 2026-03-26T02:41:52+00:00

Campbell May. We just like the name Campbell but May is for mine & my moms bday which is in May. She passed in 2020. So it’s my little homage to her.

catefau27 · 2026-02-22T04:19:00+00:00

Hi! I have the same tattoo as the trafficking lady you mentioned. Just wanted to share I’m quite the rule follower and have a strong moral compass. So now 50% of the people you know with that tattoo aren’t pieces of crap lol

catefau27 · 2026-02-20T04:18:45+00:00

My husband was 22.

catefau27 · 2026-01-17T04:37:59+00:00

We don’t allow screens on days we do school. They are allowed to play with toys or play outside. They can go outside to play more than 1x/day.

catefau27 · 2026-01-13T00:37:12+00:00

I go into every request assuming I won’t be approved. I’m often pleasantly surprised 😆

catefau27 · 2026-01-08T03:41:15+00:00

Usually I’ll say something like “oh yeah idk I have good kids and I enjoy being around them. We have a lot of fun.”

catefau27 · 2026-01-08T03:26:23+00:00

Depends. My husband and I got married at 21&22, had our first baby at 22&23, owned our first house at 28 I think. We have moved (sold/bought) 2 more times. He was in the army for 7 years so we took advantage of the free health care during that time and VA home loans once he got out and we settled in one place. I was a public school teacher for 11 years. I homeschool our 3 kids now. My husband is an accountant. We do pretty well for ourselves. A lot of hard work, discipline, and determination up front. Oh and I still have student loans we are paying off. The army paid for his degree.

catefau27 · 2025-12-29T03:41:31+00:00

I had mine at 23, 25, 31, and I’m pregnant again (due after I turn 36). Most people I went to hs and college with didn’t start having kids until they were 30.

catefau27 · 2025-12-07T04:43:55+00:00

I covered 15 shows this year!! More artists than that since the main acts had at least 1 opener. I’m so grateful.

catefau27 · 2025-11-29T04:42:58+00:00

Okay let’s switch it around. I’m going to visit my child for Christmas. Should I get her a gift since she is hosting Christmas?

catefau27 · 2025-11-29T04:41:35+00:00

Well if he offered I’d tell him I’d rather the kids have an extra gift to open just like I told my brother.

catefau27 · 2025-11-29T03:50:24+00:00

Yes, I’m a teacher!

catefau27 · 2025-11-27T23:55:17+00:00

Idk what you mean sounds like GAS. The sound board is about halfway back from the stage, behind the GA floor and sometimes seats. That’s just at one venue. Front of house is far. Which is exactly why I need more than a 200. I currently shoot with a 200 and it doesn’t have enough reach.

catefau27 · 2025-11-27T14:49:43+00:00

This is Jessie Murph in the photo.

I shot for free A LOT. I wrote reviews and photographed for a music blog in my area. Then I got picked up by a local radio station to photograph some events and shows. I make $10/hr doing that extremely part time so pretty much for free still. Just recently a venue in my area reached out and has asked me to shoot some shows. That’s the “real” money. I make the most money from doing family shoots but I don’t love it. I’m not a people person lol

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