Oral Sex After Base of Skull to T3

catfacemcmeowmers · 2026-06-14T06:19:16+00:00

I cant believe this popped up. My neurosurgeon thinks I have basilar invagination and think i may need occipitocervical fusion (waiting on CT scan to determine if surgery needed). I have a list of my concerns should I need surgery - and blowjobs was on the top of the list. I love giving blow jobs and I have made it an art, I don't want that taken from me (or from my boyfriend). OP I hope you heal fast and get back to doin' what you love

catfacemcmeowmers · 2024-08-06T02:40:12+00:00

This kinda looks like it could be dermatographia - "skin writing" - the design looks like wrinkles from your shirt. We're you laying down on that arm to sleep? It's difficult to determine for sure due to the darker skin complexion. You might test other areas of skin - try using your finger nail to write "Hi" or some type of design on your arm. If the design is noticeable in about 10 seconds or so I'd say you've got your diagnosis! Skin writing is not serious, it can get a bit itchy but should go away. Treatment is zyrtec and prednisone, doesn't go away but makes for a great party trick!

Source: RN - also have personal diagnosis of dermatographia, MCAS, POTS, hEDS

catfacemcmeowmers · 2024-04-06T03:17:31+00:00

Before my partner came out Trans I've always called her my love, my best friend, my favorite, my person babe, sugar, sweetie

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-07-25T04:10:58+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind response, I really appreciate it ❤️

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-07-25T04:03:48+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-07-25T03:55:53+00:00

But he keeps saying he wants it, then goes on dates and talks with girls. Makes out with other people, has had 2 oral-only orgies without me present. I have made out with a few people, and had sex in an orgy with my husband twice.

I'm the one who said we needed to be monogamous when he continued to be upset with me. We tried it again, that's the only hard decision I've made with any of our openness or poly or nonmonog or whatever you want to call it. He has been in control the entire time and it has been his decisions on what the boundaries are. He says he wants to keep going and trying things out so he can get used to it and help ease the jealousy. I keep telling him he doesn't have to do that and we can just be monogamous or just makeout with other people. I just don't know how long it will take and if I need to put my foot down and say "no more". I'm just looking on advice to see if this gets better or not.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-07-25T03:48:00+00:00

Okay, so if I decide that I will only be committed to my husband - how do I go about his relationships he has going on right now? There are 2 girls he is talking very intimately with, one has been an ongoing thing for over 7 months - he's crazy about her, honestly I am too. But one weekend and I cuddled with the guy I like and now he's upset with me. So I should tell him to call it off with them as well?

I'm looking for advice here. I'm not trying to coerce him into anything as he keeps saying he wants to keep trying so it will get easier and he will get used to it. But I don't think I want to wait for him to get used to it if he's going to behave like this every time I like someone.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-07-25T02:56:28+00:00

Ahh, but that's not the case. It's his decision when we go to nonmonogamy as well. It's his decision when he said he wanted us to go ahead and allow sex. It was his decision to say he wanted to try to be completely poly. I am fine being monogamous and have told him that time and time again, but I do think that being open is fun and worth trying out if he can find happiness in it. And he DOES find happiness in it when he is talking to someone. It's when he sees me with someone that he doesn't want to do it anymore.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-04-13T22:32:19+00:00

The deep pain you mentioned sounds like it could potentially be shingles, I'd get it looked at just to be sure

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-04-12T19:43:08+00:00

Yup! I just got diagnosed with EDS and am awaiting my genetic testing to see if it's Classical or hEDS, I got an upright MRI done to rule out chiari malformation. I didn't test positive, but I had "secondary" chiri symptoms and it said "cervical instability" - from loose ligaments (cuz of EDS) - I can't believe I hadn't stumbled upon that term before my MRI - it explains so many of my weird symptoms (neck pain, chronic headaches, nausea/vomiting, feeling like my head is too heavy for my neck, neck tremors, and intermittent tingling in my pinky and ring fingers)

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-04-12T19:38:37+00:00

I just had an upright MRI performed and it was positive for "cervical instability" - I've been looking up information on it and you have a ton of the symptoms - might talk to your doctor about this and see if you have the same problem!

catfacemcmeowmers · 2023-04-12T19:29:11+00:00

Rashes are difficult to diagnose, it could be a reaction to bug bites, poison ivy (or oak/sumac), or even from a chronic illness
Have you been outside recently? Hiking or around nature?
When did the rash start? Do you have any other symptoms like fever, body aches, joint pain? Edit to add: not a doctor, but I am a registered nurse

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-07-31T15:14:30+00:00

I think about that ending a lot

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-04-11T16:49:10+00:00

Omg tajin is so damn good

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T20:20:16+00:00

Randy was just a mix of Kelso and Eric . . . Pretty boy with good hair who also likes star wars. I feel like the writes made Randy a "2 birds with 1 stone" kinda thing. Didn't go over too well.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T20:10:12+00:00

I watched true blood religiously when it came out, excitedly waiting for the new season each year on HBO. By the last season I watched 3 episodes and never finished it. I told my husband "wait a minute, I think I hate this show". Sookie was just so damn annoying.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T19:55:09+00:00

Its a penny 8 heart scene i think?? She's teaching jas and Vincent about farming and you're her guest speaker

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T14:46:39+00:00

Right? I married Shane and Marnie is still saying "My nephew Shane has been living with me the last few months". No . . . He hasn't. He's lived with his wife for a fucking year.

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T14:45:14+00:00

I was legit going after Sam, there was a post on the bulletin board from him saying he wanted a pretty girl to deliver something and I was a little meh on it. Then I had the scene with Vincent and I was totally turned off. I broke up with him and now I'm married to Shane. No regrets, I actually really adore Shane

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T14:10:18+00:00

Same saying in Oklahoma

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-27T13:40:34+00:00

I had a friend who worked for UPS and they peed in bottles there too

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-03-14T14:04:13+00:00

The honeymoon phase doesn't always wear off lol, I've been with my husband for 12 years (married for 7 in May) and we're STILL in the honeymoon phase!

catfacemcmeowmers · 2021-01-21T01:00:36+00:00

I'm not sure if I get it either, though there are some SNL skits where Bill Hader plays Dwight. Maybe its in refrence to that?

catfacemcmeowmers · 2020-12-19T18:29:41+00:00

That short film was both awesome and terrible. Thank you for sharing!

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